Growing up I was Disciplined anytime I erred and I think those beatings shaped me to become who I am today because even though I longer stay with them, I used to think about them anytime I wanna do something naughty. They taught me right or wrong, moral and immoral and I know how much I mean to them. But reading articles about Abusive Parents got me thinking "if the beatings can be called abuse", are Nigerian parents Abusive?, is that why dem Oyinbo pikin too dey spoilt? What do you guys think.