Compatibility is an utmost essential requirement
for any love relationship to bloom and last
forever. Often we see people getting in
relationship with someone whom they find
attractive, talented or wealthy, but they are not
necessarily compatible with each other.
Obviously, no two people can think alike on all
the matters and be on the same level always.
Some disparities are bound to occur in every
relationship. However, it is important to ensure
that the differences between you and your
partner are not so big that it gets difficult to
continue a harmonious and loving relationship.
Below are some of the signs that you need to
watch out for as they indicate that you and your
partner are not compatible.

#1. Your mate is always unaware of your
feelings
If your partner never really knows how you feel
about everything surrounding you, then it is
time that you reconsider your relationship with
them. He/she does not have to be a mind
reader, but it certainly makes life easy for both
of you if you can understand each other without
the need of putting feelings in words always.

#2. There is very little spark between you and
your mate
You do like your partner, but somehow you feel
that your chemistry lacks spark. Maybe this is a
sign that you are just not meant to be together.

[b]#3. You and your partner have very few things
in common[\b]

You like romantic outings, while your mate
loves to go for adventurous trips. For you,
spending time with family and friends is a
priority over other stuff, but your partner feels
that meeting deadlines and going for official
lunches and dinners are important than
socialising with closed ones. If such is the case,
then clearly the thought process of you and
your partner does not match. It is necessary
that you review your relationship with them
before it gets too late.

[b] #4. There is hardly anything to talk about [\b]

When you meet or call each other, do you have
to think very hard about things that you both
could talk about? After exchanging pleasantries
and discussing about the weather, do you feel it
is tough to continue the conversation with your
partner? If holding the conversation is a
challenge, then sustaining a long-term
relationship surely stands a bleak chance.

[b] #5. Perceptions and personalities do not match [\b]

Do you and your partner react very differently
to the same thing? Having different
personalities and holding diversely opposing
perceptions about same issues show that you
and your partner are just not compatible.
It might not always be necessary that you and
your partner would hold the same opinion on all
things, be it religion, politics, family, career, life
or anything else. However, it is important for
you both to have respect for each other’s
beliefs, career choices, political affiliations and
religious sentiments to maintain a healthy
relationship. If your partner ridicules your
beliefs and questions your opinion every time
you express them, then it is a sign that you and
your partner are not made for each other.

#6. Your partner often lets you down [\b]

Does your partner repeat mistakes that have
hurt you in the past again and again, without
actually feeling sorry? If so, then it shows that
your partner has little regard for your feelings
and hence, he/she keeps on doing things that
will makes you upset.

[b] #7. You hardly miss each other’s absence

If being away from your partner for several
days does not bother you or your partner, then
you can be sure that the passion, which makes
any love relationship thrive, is missing. And, you
need to reconsider your relationship status with
your partner.

#8. You find it difficult to adjust with the traits
of your partner

If you find yourself always feeling annoyed with
whatever your partner does, then clearly there
is some incompatibility issue between the two
of you. If their habits make you feel irritated
more than happy, then it is going to be really
hard for you both to sustain your relationship
for too long.

#9. You do not get support you deserve from
your partner
It can be very disappointing when you feel that
your partner should stand for you during your
crucial moments and they fail to do so. Not
getting adequate support from your partner on
key issues can cause a lot of friction in your
relationship.

#10. Your partner listens to others more than
you
Many couples often do not pay heed to the
opinion given by their own partner, and rather
prefer to listen to what the world has to say.
However, neglecting the viewpoint of your
partner and listening to others in case of
important matters, pertaining especially to
family, children and career can spell danger for
your long-term relationship.

#11. Your partner makes you feel like a slacker
Sharing uncommon interests or divergent views
should not mean that your partner must hold
yours as any lesser. Look for someone else if
your partner talks down to you.

#12. Not sharing things with your partner
Another sign of incompatibility between you
and your partner is, when you start keeping
away secrets from each other. Often, you do
not mention about important occurrences or
events of the day just because your partner
does not care to listen to them. You keep things
from your partner simply because you know
that he/she will not care.

#13. You do not enjoy going out with your
partner
Spending quality time with each other is
something that all couples look forward to as
this makes relationships stronger. However, if in
your case, going out together is something you
dread and passing time in each other’s
company looks like a grave challenge, then your
relationship is certainly going through a serious
compatibility issue.

#14. There are constant fights between you and your partner
Small bickerings are a part of every relationship,
but if you and your partner are constantly
fighting even over petty issues, then it is a sure-
shot sign that you two are not meant to be
together.

If any of the above signs show up in your
relationship, then it is certainly a sign of
incompatibility between you and your partner. It
will gradually eat up your happiness. In order to
resolve issues try to have an open
communication with your partner first . But if
the problem still persists, then know that this
match was just not made in heaven.

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