Hi Nairalanders, please you advise is needed to help a brother who has found himself in a very tight situation


So, a blog reader sent in this for advise, He really needs advise on the right thing to do so as not to break his family.

Please help me, My wife is really upset right now and my home is tensed up and I don’t know what I should do. Before I got married to my wife, I had a son with someone else whom I dated for about a year but broke it off because things weren’t working out between us. I have been responsible for my sons welfare ever since. My wife and I have no children yet but she accepts him as hers. My son’s mother recently lost her apartment and she asked if she and our son stay at my place till she can get someplace else. I talked to my wife about it and she only accepted that my son stay and not his mother.

My son’s mum begged me and I don’t know what happened but I let her in my home. My wife has been so upset ever since. I know I went against her wishes but I just think it’s only for a while and the only relationship I have with her is because of my child. What do I do now please.


Source; http://www.juicygossips.com.ng/2015/11/please-help-housing-my-baby-mama-is.html

Lalaticlala Please, help to help a brother

Pray Hard

Nigger! You better be ready to marry 2 wives or let your baby mama leave your home asap, you cant eat your cake nad have it.....you also forgot to tell us you have been sleeping with your baby mama lately because the level of sympathy u seem to have says it all.

You must be a joker!!how can you take that decision without the conscent of your wife. did your baby mama drop from the sky that she has no other family or friends except you? please if you still value your marriage send her out immediately and apologize to your wife. She even tried, she allowed your son, dont take your liberal wife for granted.infact you deserve some spanking!

I think this is a fake story to attract people to the Writers blog. No man can be this stupid.

" I don't know what happened " indeed

@silly post

A) whats the point in asking for your wife's advices if you aint gonna consider anything she tells you?!
B) going against your wife's wishes on such issue (that will ultimately affect her and your family greatly), was a biatch move
C) any smart man knows that you cant have wifey and baby mama caring for your child in the same house
D) now patiently wait for World War 3 to descend upon your household

she asked if she and our son stay at my place till she can get someplace else.

[size=18pt]No no no no
Hell no! [/size]

There is more to this story than meets the "ear". How do you expect two "wives" to cohabit in peace in this kind of condition? You would have told your wife you wanted a second wife naaaaw. And the fact that she has no child of her own yet, aggravates the whole issue. Maybe you brought your BabyMama to come and teach her what she hasn't known about child-birth and upkeep. You had better wise up! Else the next post we would get as an addendum to this one is that " The man finally got killed in the whole brouhahaha ".

You can't have your cake, and eat it!

Foolish man.

On 2nd thought...end time man

So ur baby mama doesn't have a boyfriend/suitor/father/mother/brother/sister/cousin/pastor ? Abi?

Na only u be the Man in her life and the savior of her homelessness !

Bros or MUMU na first class ! Gush I feel like biting u for ur level of stupidity

Bloggers sabi lie ooo

Welcome to polygamy.

silly man~

What do you want us to do for you Oga?
As your wife dey vex, you still don't know what to do? You want us to advice you first before you know what to do?

Mtchew.

cococandy:

What do you want us to do for you Oga?
As your wife dey vex, you still don't know what to do? You want us to advice you first before you know what to do?

Mtchew.

Tha's harsh

cococandy:

What do you want us to do for you Oga?
As your wife dey vex, you still don't know what to do? You want us to advice you first before you know what to do?

Mtchew.

Im just picturing the situation
2 women who have shared the same kini cooking in the same kitchen and both watching TV together in the living room
That man should sleep with one eye open
The baby momma too try sha . . . she get liver to go and pack and live with her ex and his wife.

@OP:

Your wife is actually wriggling her hands and fuming waiting for you to act?

When is the part 2 coming out?

Wh is this dunce complaining? Have an _orgy of epic proportions and pay them to get along or get out! Either way you win!

Your wife try sha o, if na me, as she dey enter my house I go send her out immediately because we didn't agree on letting her in. But on a more serious note you Should have just helped her with lil funds to get another apartment for herself I think is better that way than bringing her into your home.

Wonders shall never end!

Halleydavid:
Hi Nairalanders, please you advise is needed to help a brother who has found himself in a very tight situation


So, a blog reader sent in this for advise, He really needs advise on the right thing to do so as not to break his family.

Please help me, My wife is really upset right now and my home is tensed up and I don’t know what I should do. Before I got married to my wife, I had a son with someone else whom I dated for about a year but broke it off because things weren’t working out between us. I have been responsible for my sons welfare ever since. My wife and I have no children yet but she accepts him as hers. My son’s mother recently lost her apartment and she asked if she and our son stay at my place till she can get someplace else. I talked to my wife about it and she only accepted that my son stay and not his mother.

My son’s mum begged me and I don’t know what happened but I let her in my home. My wife has been so upset ever since. I know I went against her wishes but I just think it’s only for a while and the only relationship I have with her is because of my child. What do I do now please.


Source; http://www.juicygossips.com.ng/2015/11/please-help-housing-my-baby-mama-is.html

Lalaticlala Please, help to help a brother

I think the guy still nurses feelings for the lady. Let him put himself in the place of his wife, how would he feel?

darlenese:
So ur baby mama doesn't have a boyfriend/suitor/father/mother/brother/sister/cousin/pastor ? Abi?

Na only u be the Man in her life and the savior of her homelessness !

Bros or MUMU na first class ! Gush I feel like biting u for ur level of stupidity

Biting him?
You must be related to footballer Suarez...

darlenese:
So ur baby mama doesn't have a boyfriend/suitor/father/mother/brother/sister/cousin/pastor ? Abi?

Na only u be the Man in her life and the savior of her homelessness !

Bros or MUMU na first class ! Gush I feel like biting u for ur level of stupidity

Bite ke? Abegooo don't bite d sensitive area o

7footre:

Bite ke? Abegooo don't bite d sensitive area o

Its his ear I wanna bite

darlenese:



Its his ear I wanna bite

Okay! That's appropriate nutty me thought you would go for his 'head'