elkonS:

wooow oh my goodness u made my nyt... ds is d clincher for me thanks sir....and thumbs up
I love d goals and grow in love part sounds so matured

woow... I am happy i did...



I guess the few of the good guys out thr needs to make a difference...

Cutehector:
Yes it can.. I believe it can... Just two responsible adults who are very careful abt their future.... Aside dat, they can compensate with things like kisses...

dude

lurlah2014:
Lol... u wish

oh really, so u like guys who lie to u right

firstking01:
dude

ur password wasnt correct... I thought i sent u d correct password tru sms...

As a matter of fact, a relationship can be platonic. Its very possible


But since you're a believer, leave bone for Dogs and meat for men!

I mean, do not go into a relationship until you're ready to get married, avoid any form of pretence or act that may lead to temptation and finally, sin!


So, stay on your own till you're ready to get married.

Jolllyjoy:
I personally think such affair wouldnt last due to past experience or friends influence.


On the other hand,if the parties involved are matured,trustworthy and have a sense of responsiblility why not




Tho i cant do it.

just tell us u like banana

Cutehector:
ur password wasnt correct... I thought i sent u d correct password tru sms...

it was correct...dey said u sent me a mail, dat i shud check ma mail, bt couldn't access ma mail.

elkonS:

wat oda tin do u think dey can focus on apart from sex cos relationship ds days is almost as if sex is everything so wat is a relationship all about??

They can go out to public places, avoid being alone most times and the best advise, get married soon.

ilevic:




just tell us u like banana

no,it not like i can substitute food for sex..


But i like to see and experiment what i will be committing to..

To avoid stories that touch

elkonS:
gud evening people... I wld lyk to hear ur opinion about ds..and dose wit practical experience can pls share....
ds is a sensitive issue I know and am not using any religious or moral bias just on plain note... am old enuf for a relationship buh av promised myself dat d one lady I wld av a relationship wit wld by wife..and trust me av ad advances from ladies....
am asking ds cos ds gf and bf stuff is trending now...and biliv me in d university its crazy.

d one dat hurt me was a friend of mine in a leadership (spiritual) position ...one day I just payed him an unexpected visit and d rest as dey say is history.

P.S:MATURED MINDS PLS ....I AM A BELIEVER ND I WONT TOLERATE VULGAR STUFFS OVA 2U

cc:lalasticlala,farano

YES YES YES YES it can last longer if both parties agrees to it

Yes it can

Jolllyjoy:
no,it not like i can substitute food for sex..


But i like to see and experiment what i will be committing to..

To avoid stories that touch

lol. u wanna feel the thing before u say I do and if e no sweet enough?

ilevic:


lol. u wanna feel the thing before u say I do and if e no sweet enough?

tradition forbid a legally married woman from cheating,it a taboo here hence i d rather be single than wallow in self pity whilst binded with the supposed married status,if he is nt up to date,then marriage is out of it.

Jolllyjoy:
tradition forbid a legally married woman from cheating,it a taboo here hence i d rather be single than wallow in self pity whilst binded with the supposed married status,if he is nt up to date,then marriage is out of it.

same way tradition forbids legally married women from cheating, it doesn't encourage sex before marriage. what if he was up to the task while d experiment was done BT things changed after getting married?

ilevic:


same way tradition forbids legally married women from cheating, it doesn't encourage sex before marriage. what if he was up to the task while d experiment was done BT things changed after getting married?

I wonder o

ilevic:


same way tradition forbids legally married women from cheating, it doesn't encourage sex before marriage. what if he was up to the task while d experiment was done BT things changed after getting married?

nothing will change


our tradition does not forbid sex before marriage,.

Jolllyjoy:
no,it not like i can substitute food for sex..


But i like to see and experiment what i will be committing to..

To avoid stories that touch

I don't mean to b judgmental buh u guys dat engage in premarital sex av still not given me a congent reason ...from wat ur saying now if tins change after d marriage nko?? Godforbid but if he as an accident wat do u do??or he as a health issue and it affects is sexual performance.. wat will u do??

sis..DERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR PREMARITAL SEX

Jolllyjoy:
no,it not like i can substitute food for sex..


But i like to see and experiment what i will be committing to..

To avoid stories that touch

to marry because of sex is like buying a HOUSE BEACAUSE OF D PAINT

LIFE DOES NOT END AT SEX IF NOT PORNSTARS WLD AV AD D BEST MARRIAGE

elkonS:

to marry because of sex is like buying a HOUSE BEACAUSE OF D PAINT

LIFE DOES NOT END AT SEX IF NOT PORNSTARS WLD AV AD D BEST MARRIAGE

who says marriage end in sexpls try comprehend my post before quoting me.


I seriously dnt like this.

Jolllyjoy:
no,it not like i can substitute food for sex..


But i like to see and experiment what i will be committing to..

To avoid stories that touch

am sorry if u are offended buh ds ur post I was reffering to and ds was my response (below).. could u please respond to ds...

i don't mean to b judgmental buh u guys dat
engage in premarital sex av still not given me
a congent reason ...from wat ur saying now if
tins change after d marriage nko?? Godforbid
but if he as an accident wat do u do??or he
as a health issue and it affects is sexual
performance.. wat will u do??
sis..DERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR
PREMARITAL SEX

Jolllyjoy:
who says marriage end in sexpls try comprehend my post before quoting me.


I seriously dnt like this.

I never said that's wat u said ...I comprehend it ur post try to do that with mine 2 pls ....u said u will like 2 test wat u were "committing" urself to....plss can. u interpret dat for me

elkonS:

am sorry if u are offended buh ds ur post I was reffering to and ds was my response (below).. could u please respond to ds...

i don't mean to b judgmental buh u guys dat
engage in premarital sex av still not given me
a congent reason ...from wat ur saying now if
tins change after d marriage nko?? Godforbid
but if he as an accident wat do u do??or he
as a health issue and it affects is sexual
performance.. wat will u do??
sis..DERE IS NO JUSTIFICATION FOR
PREMARITAL SEX

thank you very much for this question.


Well,if such happen,i guess i will stick to my marriage vows and be the understanding wife i ought to be..


Now back to the premarital sex stuff,if my man is the over zealous type when it comes to religion then asking how down there is wouldnt be outta place..


In the absence of that, i will readily commit that sin.

Jolllyjoy:
nothing will change


our tradition does not forbid sex before marriage,.

I like DAT tradition o. if I bfrom ur side, I go sample enough babes before getting married

Jolllyjoy:
thank you very much for this question.


Well,if such happen,i guess i will stick to my marriage vows and be the understanding wife i ought to be..


Now back to the premarital sex stuff,if my man is the over zealous type when it comes to religion then asking how down there is wouldnt be outta place..


In the absence of that, i will readily commit that sin.

okay I let u go... its ur body so u av ur choice to do whatever... if I may ask are u a Christian?..av ever thought of d reason God made sex to be for married folks?? ..what does sex mean to u ??
I wld appreciate it if u can answer ds questions sincerely...thanks

Sometimes i ask my self why do bad things happen to good people?? Well its a mystery of life i have come to understand.

greatness22:
Yes it can, my four yrs relationship with desire(her name) was without sex, but early last yr, i lost her why she was on her way bck to sch. R.I.P my sweetness.

Is it your tradition that matters or what the word of God says..Let your standards of life be by the word of God and not by man made tradition abi na tradition go save you from hell on the last day??

Jolllyjoy:
nothing will change


our tradition does not forbid sex before marriage,.

Mayb no

Cutehector:
oh really, so u like guys who lie to u right

fexyrich:
Is it your tradition that matters or what the word of God says..Let your standards of life be by the word of God and not by man made tradition abi na tradition go save you from hell on the last day??

it easy to point a finger at others forgetting four remains are pointing@you.



For the record,i dnt place traditions above biblical principles.


Btw talk of premarital sex,are you not guilty If no can you rem the number of sins you have committed today



Remember all sins are equal before our Lord,i will urge you not to judge too quickly...



On the last day,our lord shall select his people.

elkonS:

okay I let u go... its ur body so u av ur choice to do whatever... if I may ask are u a Christian?..av ever thought of d reason God made sex to be for married folks?? ..what does sex mean to u ??
I wld appreciate it if u can answer ds questions sincerely...thanks

my sincere answers wouldnt change anything.

Jolllyjoy:
my sincere answers wouldnt change anything.

really ....dats serious wat u saying is nothing can change u well ....bt remember ds our choices are seeds dat are sown we wld definitely reap d fruit of it...

Sweethrt i wasnt judging you at all cos am not perfect either but what am saying is that no. Matter the fact that your tradition supports it doesnt make premarital sex right..Yes i am guilty of it but i have that remorse because i know it is wrong according to Gods standards and i try as much as possible to avoid it..All am saying is that let our standards be measured by Gods word and not by wordly principles and traditions with that we can always work towards pleasing God. The moment you start getting comfortable with a sinful life without remorse it shows thats your heart has become far frm God.At the end of the day pleasing God is what actually matters!! So my dear i wasnt judging you cos i have no right to..Was just correcting an impression with love..

Jolllyjoy:
it easy to point a finger at others forgetting four remains are pointing@you.



For the record,i dnt place traditions above biblical principles.


Btw talk of premarital sex,are you not guilty If no can you rem the number of sins you have committed today



Remember all sins are equal before our Lord,i will urge you not to judge too quickly...



On the last day,our lord shall select his people.

yes it cn.... sacrifices...Pls do that wen ur ready to marry... Bros she wud go bleep outside den friwndzone you as husband material