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Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by sleek82(m): 9:38am On Dec 01, 2015 |
ideyhere:i would say theres nothing perfect nor honest in this answer he just gave (my opinion).What if she marries that very handsome man and gives birth to an slowpoke or a child with down syndrome? Why would you look out for looks in man ahead of his inner qualities? You need to understand that a man can easily look out for these things in a woman, focus on making his money and end up getting them even if he marries at 40....can a woman do the same? You need to understand that if that guy was that ugly, she wont even be considering anything, let alone coming here to ask for opinions. I think being beautiful or handsome is a relative term. Kate henshaw is a beautiful woman but ugly if compared to beyonce. So is john terry a handsome man but ugly if compared to zlatan ibrahimovic. So many people say oshiomole is ugly but i would say he is handsome compared to aristide bance of burkina faso! 4 Likes |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Nemesis99(m): 9:42am On Dec 01, 2015 |
Let's assume your kid sis walks up to you and needs yur advice on something like this, what wld yur response be? Another thing is that why stày with him this long when u feel nothing for him? Better don't act silly by breaking his heart o if u don't want karma to get vexed
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Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by jackpot(f): 9:43am On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3:I don quote am. Bite me. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by mradjoy(m): 9:43am On Dec 01, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Funny, but logical! ![]() ![]() |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by attention007(m): 9:49am On Dec 01, 2015 |
You only described the guy but you forgot to tell us if you are beautiful or not-so-fine |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by id4sho(m): 9:56am On Dec 01, 2015 |
It's like u want to be an old spinster. You've not seen beautiful and pretty ladies seriously searching for husband lyk mad,willing to take others husband. Start attending Pentecostal churches where pretty ladies come to pulpit for husband prayers. Receive sense IJN... . |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by amiskurie(m): 10:19am On Dec 01, 2015 |
Nigerian guys deserves better than all these hoe-low-shows. Arrhh! 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by qtx(m): 10:22am On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3:lol, very funny u. U said u are fine, yet your mouth is terrible. u better not marry him so u wont use mouth to make him commit murder one day. Of course you cant marry out of pity. Just close your heart and tell him so you can live freely whoever God wants for you can come at his own time for you. Even though appearance alone does not make a marriage a good one but it counts to some extent. I stumbled into this site and i think it will help you http://courtshipandmarriage.com/courtship/important-courtship-marriage-part/ |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by timmycris(m): 10:57am On Dec 01, 2015 |
The same way you are not attracted to some guyz u love! |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Nobody: 10:58am On Dec 01, 2015 |
Thread such as this goes further to prove that NOT every lady out there who desire marriage will ever get married. Dear Op, siddon dia dey wait for ur prince charming u hear? You can even write and apply to Ramsey Nouah to be his second abi third wife sef. Who cares? Abi no be handsome man u fine? 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Chigold101(m): 11:01am On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3:lolzzz your children will come out beautiful and handsome and lovely too. I don't believe in the myth of girls taken after their father because my first daughter is a carbon copy of my wife. It is even my last daughter that looks like me... But please do not marry because of pressure. I am a christian and I believe in praying for God's will when it comes to marriage. Marriage is not always sugar and honey. Sometimes it is bitter leaf and pepper. If you marry a person u don't have feeling for, time of bitterleaf and pepper might become very bitter. If u a Christian make u go to God in prayer and fasting, if you be Pentecostal, make u go to ur pastors wife and share with her. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by InZA: 11:04am On Dec 01, 2015 |
I just don't understand why some people say all a lady needs in a marriage is a man who loves her...That's just torture - being in a relationship with a man who loves you but you don't love Never settle for a lobe-sided relationship. Both of you must be crazy about each other for you to really enjoy your union. I was almost going into a relationship where the girl practically worshipped my whiff, but I didn't feel anything for her. It's so thrilling to love someone... Never settle for a relationship where the other person loves you, when you can't even stand the person... Love doesn't always grow with time. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by ghostwritter(m): 11:34am On Dec 01, 2015 |
kittykat1: -for ur mind abi? -Meeting new guys every week abi? -listing 10 qualities she want in a guy abi? -she should be friendly and nice to them abi? *shoro niyén?* Wake-up 'BIG SISTER' and stop watching too much fake nolly/golly movies. Even Mr. Perfect is not perfect, and besides, no man wants an abusive lady (op) for a wife....i will kill her personally. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by kunlexze(m): 11:46am On Dec 01, 2015 |
"he is not a rich guy" had it been the dude is a governor(like oshiomole) the #op won't be here seeking for advice.ladies and money #SMH |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Obaf16(f): 12:38pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
Mindfulness:Thanks for ur question,i wonder wot is happening dis days to we youth, op u better let him go. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Curvinus(m): 1:10pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
There is no point in hating on the op as this is female hypergamy at its best. The op is fully within her limits to not want to marry this unrelenting schmuck that she is not one bit attracted to. Female hupergamy it was in the past that helped ensure only the best specie survived, aka the strongest, cutest, toughest or whatever order the given ecosystem predetermined. But with the advance in medical science, every Tom, Dick and Harry, including the ugly duckling now have a chance of survival. But trust nature and its way of ensuring that only the best specie is preserved which is why our lady feels nothing for this small time Charlie. Attraction is nature 's way of taking over you for sometime so that you can copulate. If this doesn't happen naturally, there's no point forcing it as the whole thing'll just end in bucketloads of tears. My humble submission. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Ballmer: 1:16pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3:alright |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Nobody: 1:27pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
sleek82: She should marry someone she feels attracted to who has good inner qualities and is compatible with her and not someone she despises right from the get go. Stop acting like women have no right or shouldn't look out for the full package or what they desire. You need to understand that if that guy was that ugly, she wont even be considering anything, let alone coming here to ask for opinions. I think being beautiful or handsome is a relative term. Kate henshaw is a beautiful woman but ugly if compared to beyonce. So is john terry a handsome man but ugly if compared to zlatan ibrahimovic. So many people say oshiomole is ugly but i would say he is handsome compared to aristide bance of burkina faso! Some people will consider Kate more beautiful than Beyonce, same with John Terry and Zlatan Ibrahimovic. Everyone has a different taste so she should free the man so that he can also find someone who appreciates him. Just because she doesn't find him attractive, doesn't mean another woman won't. I can't understand how people will advise anyone to marry a person they so much despise. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by preetyb(f): 1:30pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
Dear I ve seen two gud looking couples that gave birth to ugly children. And I also have seen two ugly couples that gave birth to beautiful children. So my sister in the lord some times it is by luck. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Nobody: 1:50pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3: Ma eldest bro is looking for a wife to marry, he is based in delta though, very handsome dude. View ma profile u see ma pics, picture a finer dude with similar resemblance, but the pro is you really have to be beautiful if u wan a handsome dude he ain't into ugly girls. So if u ready n fine make I refer u to am ASAP |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Kidswifty: 1:56pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
Omotayor123: So your own problem is looks abi ![]() ![]() |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by kittykat1(f): 2:33pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
9jaAmerican: What does what I wrote have to do with prostitution? You guys never cease to amaze me! |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by kittykat1(f): 2:42pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
ghostwritter: 10 qualities means that I accept that there is no Perfect man. If assumed that there are perfect men, I will ask her to list 100 qualities or 1000. Reducing the qualities to ten, helps one to put into perspective what characters really matters to one. When you write it down, you are able to know if you are writing frivolous qualities or qualities that are important. When you have small number written down, you are able to focus on the people that have what you need. So you don't come back to Nairaland to say you met a man that is 97 years and stinkingly rich but kind. Should I marry him? But on your list you wrote 35 years as the maximum. Your list has already eliminated the 97 year old man. Yes you must be friendly to people , even if you don't date them. Being polite and nice is a good character that everyone should imbibe. It brings good will. The people you meet can make or mar you tomorrow. Finally, why do Nigerians get scared when they are told to go out and meet people? Fuel attendants, Restuarant sales girls, bank marketers, air hostesses, governors, ministers, managers of companies meet several people everyday . Are they prostitutes? Putting yourself in a position where you meet people everyday strengthens your network and networking skills. It makes you a better person. It helps you to broaden your choices and not focus on one person. It also stops you from being desperate . |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by tpiah99: 3:56pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
BoboYekini: you are so bitter, wonder why you think you bring anything anywhere. 1 Like |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Nobody: 4:47pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
tpiah99:Isn't it time you left me alone? Yes you'll miss me but you'll live. ![]() |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by iamdapsyj(m): 4:48pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3: My dear I can sense that u are highly mouthed and funny By the way...... If u can't cope with his physical appearance right now, you would eventually hate him when u get married. You have even in ur own wisdom sighted some of the eventualities. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by iamdapsyj(m): 4:56pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
Graxie: Pls ma, I'm interested to know more about the last statement. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Baddo101(m): 7:55pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
kagorba3:Eyaa.. Op from ur write ups U av concluded u arnt into the guy and i guess u av this pride, n feeling of high level chic or what will people say about me and dis ugly dude. its ok. its ur personality. however please follow ur heart desires abeg. if ur mind doesnt go after him i think its better u let him know instead of u dyeing in silence. Note that No human is perfect. Furthermore, Facial looks shouldnt be used to judge someone wat if the handsome guy u now end up wth eventually had an accident which resulted to a facial damage? will u still run after other men?? If u are a christian i guess u seek God face on the matter if it is God's will for u. The Guy seems to love u but its unfortunate he has not sensed it that u dont love him back. I wud av asked how long av u been in the relationship cos as time goes on his eyes fit open and he will know he is the only one in the relationship. If i were the guy i will borrow legs and run as far as i can from u cos to me u are capable of poisoning the Man one day if eventually u guyz get married. However if age is still on ur side den Good luck to U. Cos i know ladies tend to fade after certain age.. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by sanctisam(m): 8:07pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
I read through and I just *SMH* It's a good thing that you've sort for advice, for even the scriptures reveals that in the multitude of counsels there is wisdom/guidance. I just hope you've sort from the right place. It's not for me to say. If you are a christian I'd suggest Jer. 17:9/10a, Matthew 15:19 and finally Prov. 3:5-7. Better than I'd advice I pray the Holy Spirit guides you through these scriptures and more. |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by itstpia8: 8:26pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
BoboYekini: I told you I just got married this year and am currently on my honeymoon. se this information no dey vex you sha? ![]() |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by Nobody: 8:31pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
itstpia8: ![]() |
Re: Dear Family Please Advice A Wife To Be!!! by itstpia8: 8:36pm On Dec 01, 2015 |
BoboYekini: are you on eskimi and I hope my photos are not in your possession? How did you get them if they are? did somebody give them to you? |
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