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How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by aphiz01: 1:51am On Nov 30, 2015
Dating is like every other human activities which must be done with full knowledge of what's its meant to achieve. It is a two way thing. That is, not one sided as most takes it to be. Let me explain myself for clearity. Dating is a process for self discovery as well as discovery of intended partner, the latter seems to be the focus of most. No wonder, some do not see anything wrong in what they do when relationship is going off track. Its easier to pick fault of friends but decided to be oblivious of own fault. This is so because we don't believe or know that Dating is a learning process which must be beneficial to both parties. Dating is a great avenue to bond with opposite sex. However, there are rules guiding it, there are stages in dating, there are categories of dating. It might interest you to know that, its not all dating that exist between opposite have to be romantic; it is a category in dating. If you care to know more let me know. There are lots that we need to unravel when it comes to dating so we can enjoy it.
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by gabbidonb(m): 3:52am On Nov 30, 2015
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Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by Cherlene(f): 5:46am On Nov 30, 2015
aphiz01:
Dating is like every other human activities which must be done with full knowledge of what's its meant to achieve. It is a two way thing. That is, not one sided as most takes it to be. Let me explain myself for clearity. Dating is a process for self discovery as well as discovery of intended partner, the latter seems to be the focus of most. No wonder, some do not see anything wrong in what they do when relationship is going off track. Its easier to pick fault of friends but decided to be oblivious of own fault. This is so because we don't believe or know that Dating is a learning process which must be beneficial to both parties. Dating is a great avenue to bond with opposite sex. However, there are rules guiding it, there are stages in dating, there are categories of dating. It might interest you to know that, its not all dating that exist between opposite have to be romantic; it is a category in dating. If you care to know more let me know. There are lots that we need to unravel when it comes to dating so we can enjoy it.

Good morning

Do CONTINUE. cheesy

Cherlene
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by Akposkool(m): 5:56am On Nov 30, 2015
We date for love, for companionship, for friendship, for future marriage and for fvcking.
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by Manfred05(m): 5:57am On Nov 30, 2015
aphiz01:
Dating is like every other human activities which must be done with full knowledge of what's its meant to achieve. It is a two way thing. That is, not one sided as most takes it to be. Let me explain myself for clearity. Dating is a process for self discovery as well as discovery of intended partner, the latter seems to be the focus of most. No wonder, some do not see anything wrong in what they do when relationship is going off track. Its easier to pick fault of friends but decided to be oblivious of own fault. This is so because we don't believe or know that Dating is a learning process which must be beneficial to both parties. Dating is a great avenue to bond with opposite sex. However, there are rules guiding it, there are stages in dating, there are categories of dating. It might interest you to know that, its not all dating that exist between opposite have to be romantic; it is a category in dating. If you care to know more let me know. There are lots that we need to unravel when it comes to dating so we can enjoy it.
true talk
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by Nobody: 7:40am On Nov 30, 2015
And people will still screaming at the top of their voices that sex before marriage is wrong. My question to those people is how is it wrong?
Like the OP said, dating is a process of self discovery as well as discovery of the intended partner, and this discovery isn't limited to understanding behaviors.
Sex is also part of this discovery. Sex is an essential part of every marriage, and it's foolish to not experiment it with the person you intend to marry before you go on to marry them.

One of the reasons we have failed marriages these days is because the partners involved are not sexually compatible with each other, and they get married without having knowledge of this, all because they are ignorantly following a Jewish tradition.
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by obiorathesubtle: 8:32am On Nov 30, 2015
The poster above me is too serious about everything.
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by austine4real(m): 9:05am On Nov 30, 2015
I take God beg u summarize evrythn 4me
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by Mhizkel(f): 9:27am On Nov 30, 2015
With the kind of world we live in now, everything is just so complicated.

Some say; Dating which is also known as courtship is the sole aim of enabling partners get to know things about each other. Their likes, dislikes, attributes, and so on, but marriages still ends in divorce cos of one of the mentioned above. So what's the essence of dating?

Mr Decker, the only self discovery you pointed out is ''Sex''
You both have had sex countless times before marriage so as to know if you sexually active or not.
There'd be a time when one of the duo would no more have the urge for sex. What's the other expected to do?
I believe the ''Self-discovery'' should be in other areas too, not sex alone.
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by ucheHapers(m): 10:16am On Nov 30, 2015
Hmmm...contunu, dearis God o
Re: How Many Really Know The Purpose Of Dating? by Nobody: 12:42pm On Nov 30, 2015
Mhizkel:
With the kind of world we live in now, everything is just so complicated.

Some say; Dating which is also known as courtship is the sole aim of enabling partners get to know things about each other. Their likes, dislikes, attributes, and so on, but marriages still ends in divorce cos of one of the mentioned above. So what's the essence of dating?

Mr Decker, the only self discovery you pointed out is ''Sex''
You both have had sex countless times before marriage so as to know if you sexually active or not.
There'd be a time when one of the duo would no more have the urge for sex. What's the other expected to do?
I believe the ''Self-discovery'' should be in other areas too, not sex alone.

I didn't only point out sex because it was the only area of self discovery, I pointed it out because it's a vital area that most people tend to ignore.

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