In saner climes I should register as an addict, though I don't really chase girls anymore but I LOVE THEM. I don't remember what made me look at qhal's thread on big booty in the sexuality section, some of the things I saw there nearly moved me to tears in desire. Why am I this way, drugs I desire not, alcohol I desire not, cigarettes or any type of smoking I desire not, but give me a nice piece of ass and I would forget to eat. In my chosen field and in academics I have been regarded a genius so most times to do my job or study has never been a chore or activity that I really needed to put effort in, so most times I have free time to think about women, I have had these people, enjoyed plenty plenty sexual experiences that it appears excessive for my age, yet the pictures I saw on that thread reminds me of the only thing that gladen my heart. WOMEN. Behaviour wise I don't like most women actually but the physionchnomy drives me nuts. I am now bothered I might be a addict and when I see my colleague /friend I realise a life I won't ever wanna live. At 55 he chases and runs after anything wearing a skirt like an insatiable youth. If a man ties a wrapper he most likely will chase him unknowingly. I find that irritating to say the least but a bit hypocritical thatthat I might be the same. Though unlike him I have taste in women, plus I barely chase them nowadays. But why can't something else please or gladen my heart except women. I wish I were younger so I smoke or drug to see if I will like it. It's shameful to start smoking or drugging up at my age and level in life. I have tried church but I don't believe anything they say in truth, I have tried writing but I get tired after awhile. I really need to replace this women thing with something else I can be proud of. Mind you am proud of my love for women but I need something else. Don't wanna be 60 and be visiting university hostels you talk up silly girls cos I wanna taste nectar. Abuse me, advice me, mock me, say something meaningful, anything at all. Will read and take the useful applicable views and ignore the rest. Wish you all a blessed week ahead.

next poster below me may have something to type.

The poster above me is clueless.

It's because you are far from salvation

Yawns...op, dis hamatan no reach urside :-;(

OP.. U R BORED.. COS THERE IS A VOID.

spiritually u r empty..

After achieving all.. In the hierarchy of needs.. U come to a place where the only thing u need is self actualization.. The question, why are we here,? Is this it?

Get a bible.. Read it..

Like the poster above me said, you have seen success and you are bored.

You seem to have conquered all but sex self. The cure for sex is sex. Have plenty of it.

Now addiction is crazy stuff.

I don't want to assume that you don't have a wife, so I won't want to go all morals and philosophical about infidelity Get a crazy partner- or get your partner crazy and f like rabbits. Repeat process. Repeat process. Repeat process.

And see it as won. Oncve your mind processes it as another trophy, your quest should switch to another thing.

Finally, I understand the feeling of 'untrueness' about the things they say in church. Interestingly, you can begin to search for the truth yourself by studying the Bible and seeking to answer the question about God.

All the best.

I dnt think a married responsible man will be chasing girls around... From your post, i guess u are married with a lovely wife and kids.

I read somewhere that womanizers are what they are because they neva had an "interesting" childhood/teenager years.... I really duno how true it is buh i think there is some sense in that. So wen they grow up to become men, they use d opportunity to chase young girls very young enuf to be their nieces or children...

Wad i will advice u is to keep ur mind always at the embarrassment that will cause you should you be caught chasing anything in skirt.


Please as a man, i recommend u read the book of proverbs... U will find ur answers therein..

Stated more precisely, you are addicted to women (ones with big ukwu ). Women are the drug which keeps you on your chain.
Your behaviour is out of control. You can't stop it. You get a "hit" or a "high" each time you bed a girl, the dopamine flows and you feel good.
The path to recovery from your addiction is not easy, nor is it short. In fact, it is a permanent project but you will enjoy prompt and increasing benefit as you pursue the self discovery that breaking an addiction requires.

If you work hard, and do some very zen-like things, such as giving up feeling like you can control it in order to gain control of it, you can slowly begin to change your way of thinking about yourself

Personally, I'd advise you play Tekken more

Thanks you all, have tried church things, it's true am spiritually empty. Maybe that's a cause too. How does tekken help my brother who said that abeg.

Eddygourdo:
In saner climes I should register as an addict, though I don't really chase girls anymore but I LOVE THEM. I don't remember what made me look at qhal's thread on big booty in the sexuality section, some of the things I saw there nearly moved me to tears in desire. Why am I this way, drugs I desire not, alcohol I desire not, cigarettes or any type of smoking I desire not, but give me a nice piece of ass and I would forget to eat. In my chosen field and in academics I have been regarded a genius so most times to do my job or study has never been a chore or activity that I really needed to put effort in, so most times I have free time to think about women, I have had these people, enjoyed plenty plenty sexual experiences that it appears excessive for my age, yet the pictures I saw on that thread reminds me of the only thing that gladen my heart. WOMEN. Behaviour wise I don't like most women actually but the physionchnomy drives me nuts. I am now bothered I might be a addict and when I see my colleague /friend I realise a life I won't ever wanna live. At 55 he chases and runs after anything wearing a skirt like an insatiable youth. If a man ties a wrapper he most likely will chase him unknowingly. I find that irritating to say the least but a bit hypocritical thatthat I might be the same. Though unlike him I have taste in women, plus I barely chase them nowadays. But why can't something else please or gladen my heart except women. I wish I were younger so I smoke or drug to see if I will like it. It's shameful to start smoking or drugging up at my age and level in life. I have tried church but I don't believe anything they say in truth, I have tried writing but I get tired after awhile. I really need to replace this women thing with something else I can be proud of. Mind you am proud of my love for women but I need something else. Don't wanna be 60 and be visiting university hostels you talk up silly girls cos I wanna taste nectar. Abuse me, advice me, mock me, say something meaningful, anything at all. Will read and take the useful applicable views and ignore the rest. Wish you all a blessed week ahead.

Dear Op
Having read ur post above, you shouldn't fill distraught and call urself a pervert. Every man has what he is attracted to in a woman. It could be legs, a pretty face, huge boobs, nice voice and in our case, obig booty.

You are an ass man just like me and that doesn't mean that there's any thing wrong with you , its just what you are attracted to.

Oga your case is spiritual. u remember your first calabar babe, she use your sperm do juju. she tied your sperm throw am inside beach so all the witches for their village they use u play nairabet

Qhal:


Dear Op
Having read ur post above, you shouldn't fill distraught and call urself a pervert. Every man has what he is attracted to in a woman. It could be legs, a pretty face, huge boobs, nice voice and in our case, obig booty.

You are an ass man just like me and that doesn't mean that there's any thing wrong with you , its just what you are attracted to.

anytime am sad and I need a break, I always visit ur thread on big booties. God it's a lovely view