Goodboiyy:


Hope u ain't cheating on me sweetyy

missKiffy:

Lol, who are you please

Goodboiyy:


Lolz... U funny die.. People Like u en, Ur gf go dey cheat on you secretly.. cheating is normal in relationship/marriage.. There re some times u just gat to test another Kitty cat.. Hope u get my point..

donTbone:

And how many partners would wanna understand it wasnt cheating, but rape?
I guess you should know what am driving at now!

donTbone:

Please balance well and make your contribution...
#bringsHerAseat

Chilled palmwine on the way!

donTbone:

Nah! i disagree...

Not all those who heat had the intention. That i drink beer once doesn't say i have the intention of doing so.
Mind you, we are human and liable to fail some temptation.

What i know is that, the reaction after it matters most...
and if it occurs more than 2ce, then its intentional.!

donTbone:

Nah! i disagree...

Not all those who heat had the intention. That i drink beer once doesn't say i have the intention of doing so.
Mind you, we are human and liable to fail some temptation.

What i know is that, the reaction after it matters most...
and if it occurs more than 2ce, then its intentional.!

sheyn5:
I see no sense in your write up. how can you cheat and tag it a mistake? to whom brain is given, sense is always expected. when you cheat, you have cheated, to me, there is no justification. I see no sense in your write up. how can you cheat and tag it a mistake? to whom brain is given, sense is always expected. when you cheat, you have cheated, to me, there is no justification. I see no sense in your write up. how can you cheat and tag it a mistake? to whom brain is given, sense is always expected. when you cheat, you have cheated, to me, there is no justification.

donTbone:



OK... Wasn't expecting you to be that rude anyway. Not making sense to you isn't the final opinion.

So... Can u get your ass outta my thread plzzzzzz

forandy:
 

One thing that could control cheating in a relationship is having respect for your partner (yes, I'm assuming the love's been there already).
That said, when you have respect for your partner, it tends to give a raise to how much you value the relationship, making you feel somewhat more resistant that you normally would have to temptations which could make one derail. So, when that value is there, it keeps your conscience alert such that even when you get close to violating the "faithful rules", you get that whip on your inner self and believe me, it does help a great deal to curb cheating.

PS: I just typed from experience

sheyn5:
you are still not making sense. try summon a common sense.

misspicy:


respect and value you say?
sir I put it to you that you are wrong with this story

so there was a married man on my case some years back,anytime he tries to woo me he will say;

"i hope you are not one of those troublesome girls that do fight with people's wife,i don't want you to ever go near my wife or fight her,i love and respect her too much she is the mother of my children,see her picture(he will send me her picture and his kids picture) you can see she far prettier than you so don't let the fact that am asking you out get into your head"

Now tell me does he or does he not respect his wife?

donTbone:

Am not making sense...
Enough of the attention!



Can you move on now?

donTbone:
I wouldn't want to come to the conclusion that, no matter what you do, if he/she still wants to cheat, it will. While some cheats dues to their partners negligence, there are some who just didn't have the attention of doing it.

While there are many who still won stop cheating, our attention is now shifted to... how can they be stopped from cheating?
Is there any way or mechanism one can embark on to help and ensure the partner stops cheating?

Sincere opinion please!
Now the tread is declared open!!!

DuchessLily:
oh yeah!!
Wow! I love some comments I have read here ooo... And I'm wondering "are these comments really from guys?" Wonderful!! Really wonderful! God bless u guys. I pray u guys behave like ur contribution states here. . The world would surely be a better place

The fear of God, Love and respect for ur spouse will make u not cheat on him/her

Nice post OP.

misspicy:


respect and value you say?
sir I put it to you that you are wrong with this story

so there was a married man on my case some years back,anytime he tries to woo me he will say;

"i hope you are not one of those troublesome girls that do fight with people's wife,i don't want you to ever go near my wife or fight her,i love and respect her too much she is the mother of my children,see her picture(he will send me her picture and his kids picture) you can see she far prettier than you so don't let the fact that am asking you out get into your head"

Now tell me does he or does he not respect his wife?

schumastic:




there agbalumo for this babe...my dear if they like respect,love,adore,care, everything nice in this world do,, they will still cheat oooo everybody no exception including me, so i don't look like a saint either cus no1 s

misspicy:

yes now,every man and woman is liable tp cheat one way or the other

schumastic:


if you don't cheat in this new generation then your still a learner cus u il get cheated

schumastic:


if you don't cheat in this new generation then your still a learner cus u il get cheated

misspicy:

wrong


if you are fortunate to be with your soulmate no cause for alarm

donTbone:

See END TIME mind set!

schumastic:




see new comer mind set

donTbone:

Ok. We go know new comer now!

schumastic:



lol bad guy

schumastic:

if you don't cheat in this new generation then your still a learner cus u il get cheated

MRBrownJ:


such negative mindset is the reason why A) you will never VALUE/RESPECT any woman in your life and B) you will never find happiness and peace (in love)

schumastic:

if you don't cheat in this new generation then your still a learner cus u il get cheated

MRBrownJ:


such negative mindset is the reason why A) you will never VALUE/RESPECT any woman in your life and B) you will never find happiness and peace (in love)

schumastic:

hmmm....i respect them a lot more than you think does not mean i should blind myself from the truth mean while, i do things that make me happy and am in peace with myself and everyone around me but as for love naaa it doesn't exist so i don't care

MRBrownJ:


bro,

MISCONCEPTION #1 you cant possibly have any respect for a woman that you cheat on.

MISCONCEPTION #2 how can some "imagination" (out of your low self esteem mind) be the truth?! did you catch anyone cheating for you to say that they do?!

MISCONCEPTION #3 thinking that you are happy while cheating on a woman you are dating, simply because all the biatches you dated in the past cheated on you. here is a clue: next time choose your women better, you are the problem here.

MISCONCEPTION #4 there will NEVER be peace in the life of a man who cant even trust his woman (you will simply die of stress), and you might as well be single, and just fukc biatches once in a while...... its cheaper and comes with less hassle/stress!

MISCONCEPTION #5 if there is no such thing as love then what are you seeking from this women?! if it is just sex then go meet ashawos; if it is companionship then you can just be friends..... so stop lying to yourself (and us)! just because you are tired of searching for love, and pissed off because you are not finding it, doesnt mean it doesnt exist. thats as stoopid as saying that "being rich" is a lie because you have tried all your life to be rich and never succeeded, duh!

YOU are the problem here..... the day you start having the RIGHT mindset, is the day you will A) choose women under different criteria, B) finally value and respect your partner and C) have any remote chance on finding love.

Cutehector:
u aint even happy i am commentin on ur thread.... U should b thankful sef.