What is your instinctive, gut-level reaction to this? Do you sigh in disgust? Worry that your boyfriend or husband might look if you weren’t there with him? What are you really worried about? That he thinks those half-naked girls are better than you? That he wants to have sex with them?
The answer to all these fears is a resounding“No.”See, it took me a while to get this. Men are conditioned as hunters (and also just as humans) to take note of changes in their environment. So to them it’s actually like,Oh. There’s a bikini car wash in Abuja, NIGERIA? Oh, OK then!Lights change. Moving on now. Half an hour later, most men will have forgotten all about that bikini car wash and the girls there.
They’re wired to look. Some men might want to have sex with those women, but those are mostly desperate men, men who feel deprived. The question is: Do you have a deprived man? Do you have a desperate man? If so, your worries might be well-founded… but not because he’s desperate.

I'm confused

Oyind17:
I'm confused

PUNKYVEER,KASHYBABY,SInaj AND FIRSTEVA will understand.

obiorathesubtle:

DID U GRADUATE IN PRIMARY SCHOOL?

ssoftappless:
DID U GRADUATE IN PRIMARY SCHOOL?

yes.. Why?

ssoftappless:
DID U GRADUATE IN PRIMARY SCHOOL?

some people with bad mouth

In my opinion, the whole looking thing would only annoy a shallow woman. men are wired to look at stuff. it's inevitable.. we stare at things that interest us. and we really don't have the ability to look from the side of the eye, we have to actually focus frontally before we notice it.

some men may think briefly of how it would be to have sex with these women, but that's usually it. I am a very accomplished gazer myself and till date, i still stare only. no strings attached.

if you're going to evaluate your guy's performance, leave his staring out of it.

obiorathesubtle:
yes.. Why?

no wonder u dnt know what the words mean

demzylahot:

some people with bad mouth

LOL just imagin d 40years old man saying he did not understand

Teempakguy:
In my opinion, the whole looking thing would only annoy a shallow woman. men are wired to look at stuff. it's inevitable.. we stare at things that interest us. and we really don't have the ability to look from the side of the eye, we have to actually focus frontally before we notice it.

some men may think briefly of how it would be to have sex with these women, but that's usually it. I am a very accomplished gazer myself and till date, i still stare only. no strings attached.

if you're going to evaluate your guy's performance, leave his staring out of it.

100% CORRECT bro, some women just brough up unncessary quarrels when they see their partner staring at other women.

ggrin:

hmmm

How about girls that stare at guys in the presence of their man?

I enjoy looking at ladies,and that's normal to every guy.

osesology:
How about girls that stare at guys in the presence of their man?

ITS NORMAL

ssoftappless:
What is your instinctive, gut-level reaction to this? Do you sigh in disgust? Worry that your boyfriend or husband might look if you weren’t there with him? What are you really worried about? That he thinks those half-naked girls are better than you? That he wants to have sex with them?
The answer to all these fears is a resounding“No.”See, it took me a while to get this. Men are conditioned as hunters (and also just as humans) to take note of changes in their environment. So to them it’s actually like,Oh. There’s a bikini car wash in Abuja, NIGERIA? Oh, OK then!Lights change. Moving on now. Half an hour later, most men will have forgotten all about that bikini car wash and the girls there.
They’re wired to look. Some men might want to have sex with those women, but those are mostly desperate men, men who feel deprived. The question is: Do you have a deprived man? Do you have a desperate man? If so, your worries might be well-founded… but not because he’s desperate.

mtheeeeew

Jolllyjoy:
mtheeeeew

The haters are here

For me, I trust my man....I can't be bothered if he's looking at these women in bikinis..

KashyBaby:
For me, I trust my man....I can't be bothered if he's looking at these women in bikinis..

thats the maturity