RobinHez:


I'd like to think those who know u to be humble will always be willing to point ur flaws to u...as against a proud fellow.

I beg to differ.
as long as you're not rude, they will not hesitate to tell you things about yourself.

That's very true.

Politicos:

You'll meet her soon.

Are you a psychic? Am scared of women #inobegayoh

Rapmoney:
There are many introverted guys that are just so special in diverse ways that are hardly understood by many of our modern-day Nigerian ladies...this could lead to what I call a misrepresentation of attitude and character!

Psychologically, as humans, we all possess behavioural traits such as introverted and extroverted qualities. That's God's creation and whoever thinks that God's creation was senseless in the first place should better have his or her head examined!!!

Below are some characters of introverted guys in relationships. Ladies, you need to understand your introverted partner...better than the way you think you do :

1) Most introverted guys are creative: Ladies, because he doesn't talk much or brag about his exploits doesn't mean he is just another regular guy down the street! I tell you today, there's so much cooking up in that head of his that you might not know or never know. If you take a closer and more critical look at the lives of many great inventors and artistes, you will discover that they exhibited or exhibit introverted qualities wayback even before they ever came close to fame!!! I am not in any way saying that all introverted guys are creative but what I am saying in essence is that the number of creative guys that are introverted and those that are extroverted can be compared to the fans of Manchester City and Kano Pillars!!! Study him carefully and observe his passion; you just might be an instrument to push him to greater heights! He would rather think of how to create or develop something than spend time with you at the cinema

2) They are mostly shy: Even introverted celebrities are shy most times without you knowing. An assumed snubbing by a celebrity in an event or show might not necessarily be real! The young man might just be too shy to stand face to face, meeting folks he has never met before. So when an introverted guy doesn't feel like hanging out with you and friends every weekend, don't be too critical. They don't often like being in public places

3) They often love good women for real: Introverted guys are not like their counterparts who are fond of going out, meeting new people, talking and demonstrating a lot! They are mostly quiet and think deeply. They would easily approach a woman only when they admire, value and want her. An extrovert guy might just feel like talking which is a nutural aspect of his personality; this might send a false signal to the lady that she's being loved for real!!!

4) They need personal space most times: Many introvert guys hardly enjoy staying with a lady consistently for too long. They would rather need privacy to themselves so that they could merry in some creative imaginations! If you are coming to his house, you must call him on phone first! Failure to do that equals you putting too much salt in an already well cooked pot of Egusi soup with assorted meats!

5) They hardly entertain 'make-up jealousy': Don't try to make an introverted guy fall more in love with you by trying to arouse the spirit of jealousy in him! You might end up killing the emotional attachment he has with you and the relationship eventually! A lady can do this by answering suspicious phone calls in his presence romantically, telling him tales of guys who admire her and the rest

It is true that humans are dynamic in nature but learning about their psychological traits helps a lot in coping with them!

I rep introverts.

onstelly:

Lol I know
Introverts are cool but sometimes I just wish I could read their mind

that's next to impossible, asking an introvert to talk about his mind ,most times is offensive and intrusion, communication of feelings and thoughts is not really a strong suit for an introvert.

yhu have better chance studying his environment and what his working ,to get a better understanding of his mind.

#an introvert would rather show yhu than tell yhu,what's going on in his mind or how he feels.

but look at hand ,yhu'd get a pretty good picture.

some times being an introvert is a cause jor, I hooked up with this chick, turns out I kinda like like the chick, problem is I can't communicate ma feels,am emotional distant,our communication is brief, if she needs something I come running but emotional I feel am unavailable, thing is I think the chick is also an introvert too.# I heard two introverts in a relationship hardly works, so am not gunning for such, I can't really say I want more hookup ,since we only hooked up once, thing is am exactly sexomanic ova but am just griping for the chick but can say it,sound attached, emotional available but there by action and deeds "I hope she knows it".

#kinda scared and jealous imma lose the chick to someone else,but no worries av dealt with worse.

I hate been introverted jor, but I wouldn't wish to anything else ,not even a extrovert, its kinda boring and needy.

Richiy:


Why?

Well, let's say I find it hard to spill them out... coupled wf my nature... so I'll rather show it in my actions than say them frequently .

chalantmike:
some times being an introvert is a cause jor, I hooked up with this chick, turns out I kinda like like the chick, problem is I can't communicate ma feels,am emotional distant,our communication is brief, if she needs something I come running but emotional I feel am unavailable, thing is I think the chick is also an introvert too.# I heard two introverts in a relationship hardly works, so am not gunning for such, I can't really say I want more hookup ,since we only hooked up once, thing is am exactly sexomanic ova but am just griping for the chick but can say it,sound attached, emotional available but there by action and deeds "I hope she knows it".

#kinda scared and jealous imma lose the chick to someone else,but no worries av dealt with worse.

I hate been introverted jor, but I wouldn't wish to anything else ,not even a extrovert, its kinda boring and needy.

You need work on your communication skill then, being introvert doesn't necessitate bad communication, Introvert pick selected few and people they feel home with before they talk. You need work on ya communication skills..
Goodluck

Hmmm....Introverts ??

And dey drew

MuyiRano:

Lol... Tnxs dear. The 2 wise men are enof to bury DLC though.

petkruz:
No way,i'v gone down that lane before! Introverts are very hard ppl to deal with.My ex was so bad that he never went out with his friends a whole year,he hardly forgives,when i'm hanging out he frowns,he doesn't like my friends coming around. The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant.

The only thing that interests him is reading and sex,everyother thing was irrelevant...............so things like takn his bath, going 2 church, brushing his teeth etc doesn't interest him also

IHate9ja1:

Yes coz we do things differently,but as time goes on I rose above criticism and learnt to love myself and accept my weaknesses,I don't live my life based on peoples opinion.I just do what I feel is right that won't make my conscience guilty.

pretty right Bro.Being myself is the happiest thing ever.

Virgindove:




You all made good points and I should have agreed totally with you, but my submission was based on personal experience. Being an introvert myself i could count on my finger tips opportunities this my nature has denied me. I worked on myself and today I can proudly say am a born introvert- turned -extrovert.

I didn't know your experiences in life. But the only thing being introvert has cost me is women and not money. Maybe because we are into different types of field in our work force. The reason companies apply for work is just to capture people that are shy. I am sure introverts speak and demonstrate when given the opportunity.

Lovelynature:
Maybe you are right, but I think some people are more introverted/extroverted, some don't even know where there belong

True, most people tend to cling more to one side but there aren't people who do not let off the other side characteristic traits even if it's once in a blue moon. Life definitely makes this happen.

babyfaceafrica:
I disagree,there are proper introverts,,,what you also need to know is that ther are several shades of introversion and also we have ambiverts who are both introvrts and extroverts...a lot of factors determin this things lik health,parents e.t..c....but for you to say there are no proper introverts and xtroverts is a fallacy...just say you hav not met any!!!!

Read my reply in the post before ^^

bestdeals0:
And dey drew

Lol.. Yeah. Bad market

Politicos:
Introverts, I strongly encourage you to hook up with extroverted females for marriage balance and procreation importance so that you don't bear kids who would become socially dysfunctional and unhealthily reclusive.

My best relationship ever was with one finely outgoing damsel sometime ago. Her bright personality truly shone on my general outlook on society. With her loving shove, I appreciated the social benefits of occasional outdoor engagements and recreational activities. She was superb! I miss her every day of my life. Right now, I've been forced into a single world until there is a worthy replacement.

I was enjoying the comments until I saw yours. What did you mean by 'unhealthily reclusive' I also detest your submission that all introverts are socially dysfunctional. I am not because I like going out with people that matters to me; those I can easily unwind before them.

Mattin:


I was enjoying the comments until I saw yours. What did you mean by 'unhealthily reclusive' I also detest your submission that all introverts are socially dysfunctional. I am not because I like going out with people that matters to me; those I can easily unwind before them.

You didn't understand the post you quoted. I ain't got time to explain anything right now.

Rapmoney:
Sorry to say this...ur ex is not necessarily an introvert but lacked social skills! Having sex is not among the traits of introverted guys!

Thanks bruv for letting her know... I owe you one bottle of whatever you love drinking for ur last line

kingsilly:

You need work on your communication skill then, being introvert doesn't necessitate bad communication, Introvert pick selected few and people they feel home with before they talk. You need work on ya communication skills..
Goodluck

thankz

E383:
Oh I remember, I used to be introverted. Now, not so sure which I am.

Maybe you're in transition and this describes you...

Bamz:
Ambivert here

adesbreath:



That word cherish our me time" carried enough selfishness that will make the devil grin. Most introverts are selfish people they do not know the other way out n if they do they simply don't care...the worst part is that when they are in a relationship they find it hard to give and openly show love which hurts their partners.. being an introvert is not a good thing atall because you are all too much of one thing and that is selfishness..Pls try and change cos as we all know too much of a thing is bad- very bad.

Thank you. U can move on now

adesbreath:



That word cherish our me time" carried enough selfishness that will make the devil grin. Most introverts are selfish people they do not know the other way out n if they do they simply don't care...the worst part is that when they are in a relationship they find it hard to give and openly show love which hurts their partners.. being an introvert is not a good thing atall because you are all too much of one thing and that is selfishness..Pls try and change cos as we all know too much of a thing is bad- very bad.

Thank you. U can move on now

Richiy:
They hardly say I love you

lol.. This tho.. Introverts sometimes do find it hard to say so.. From my experience, I only said that to my ex when she needs to be reassured (u know ow girls can be sometimes). Lord knows I miss her tho

EMEKA1MILLION:
Nope.. Am around till January. I no see ur contact again for whatsapp... . Check ur dm

Sent you a pm boss,please kindly respond!

Dats jst me...nt totally tho.I can actually hav fun wit dem if I want 2

i join sha

cant luk at a girl's eyeballs

Oga u are timid.
Introvertedness is not something to appraise one's self of...