I met

did you get the girls side of things ?

Pittbaby:

did you get the girls side of things ?

Very good question.

No i actually haven't spoke to the girl
I just felt i shouldn't invade since she didn't tell me about them initially and i've always been trying to make a smile or at last try to be close with her and she only ever told me about one other guy no mention about him ever,

wats ur problem?

@ bluespice
Idon't understand ur question
What's my problem like how
they both still leave under the same roof
He still gets her stuff that she need as she said whenever she moans about any particular item either bag or shoes he gets it for her dats before i even knew they had anything,i just felt they must have lived together for so long that they've grown really close.

They live togerther, and he still buys things for her. Hmmm, if you enter into a relationship with him she will always be a third wheel. Proceed with caution. If it were me I will leave him alone

Bim4u:

@ bluespice
Idon't understand ur question
What's my problem like how
they both still leave under the same roof
He still gets her stuff that she need as she said whenever she moans about any particular item either bag or shoes he gets it for her dats before i even knew they had anything,i just felt they must have lived together for so long that they've grown really close.

This is more than complication. . . . . .  why would you want to be with someone who is doing all this for another woman? really? They have history, but yet they still remain close. . . . .and their history no be small one ohhh, it involved pregnancy and everything?  

It's still early days. . . . . . Cut your losses, if you like that is.  

Na wa o . . . you just sauntered between two involved individuals and you're surprised the girl is giving you an attitude?
I cant understand a woman dating a man who has impregnated another woman.

But well . . . women can be desperate.

@davidlyan

She isn't pregnant right now,she was pregnant and lost the baby about a year ago so talk another,
Am not a desperado

Bim4u:

@davidlyan

She isn't pregnant right now,she was pregnant and lost the baby about a year ago so talk another,
Am not a desperado

Still it doesnt sound right . . . find another man. there must be plenty. For him to still go out of his way to do so much for her means his heart is still with her and not you. He wasnt even respectful enough to start your relationship on the page of trust.

Dont come here crying later.

davidylan:

Still it doesnt sound right . . . find another man. there must be plenty. For him to still go out of his way to do so much for her means his heart is still with her and not you. He wasnt even respectful enough to start your relationship on a the page of trust.

Dont come here crying later.

This is very true poster!

So if they hadn't lost the baby, they would have pretty much still been together?

@Davidlyan

Thanks all for the response jare
I just needed to know if i wasn't just been unreasonable and been my usual self and not trying but i've just called it quit,

@secretz

No she didn't want to be with him,she had a finance in naija dat she intended to marry all along,
Dats the chap she gisted me about becos when they broke up she cried so much i felt so much pity so this one came so much as a shock to me regarding that she didn't even mention him once.

Ummm, good example why men and women should not be flat mates , too much temptation

@op
thread with caution

excess baggage