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Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by gabicon: 4:55pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
chccho: To have a successful relationship with a woman one has to communicate always, instead of buying intimacy gadgets he should have asked his wife what he needed to do to take their sex life to the next level or how to satisfy her maximally same should go for the wife. It's all about communication all she may want is six packs or get away adventure. Different taste for different women, and communication should be a continuum, just because she likes a today doesn't mean she will like it tomorrow. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by dadebayo1(m): 5:08pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn: You have forgiven her.... Forget and forgive bro.... Life continues.... But if you seem to find it difficult to forget kindly register for counceling class.... All the best.... Shows she loves sex and you need to create time to satisfy her or else........ |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by tonquendo4u(m): 6:28pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Sleep with another woman |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by jaymony: 6:31pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Ask Google.... |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Khez: 6:48pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Bro good advice ehh, Buh you didn't get the part he lamented about the said guy being thicker and endowment..... Lol i think that is the problem....The wife wants it big This is why i don't advice anyone to share a girl you even hate with endowed guys They kill career o ![]() rickyalphonsus: |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Khez: 7:00pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Cheating is disrespectful Send her parking op Cos she go do am again repeatedly And the stance will forever be in your mind I mean, it's not your fault you ain't very Much endowed and thicker the way she likes it, so i guess you should look for who appreciates your package ,forget about love, you don't love her anymore, na your fear in you dey talk that one..... One time back then in school my gf picked a fight with me one evening, just to see my reaction, i definitely did what she wanted, ![]() ![]() Buh we all know love doesn't love same way twice... Offcos i forgave, did i Forget? NOOOOO spent 1month planning how to pay her back, which i eventually did ![]() Mad people |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Blossom25(f): 7:04pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Chai....Am dumbfounded....oga just take hrt |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by wale0911: 7:12pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
I can forgive many things done against me, certainly not a cheating wife! @Op you have the facts, send the bitch packing before you end up being packed! 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by josite: 7:51pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
as u said not forgiving her means u may end up being alone which u don't actually want.dont just forgive,bring it to her attention and forgive if she asks for forgiveness and if she is not remorseful,forgive all the same but knows that your marriage with her must now end cus very soon either of u or both will soon being in the morgue or prison |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by oludollar(m): 8:08pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Best thing is to dump ur wife my broda,cus luks lyk ur wife is already enjoyin wat d oda dude as to offer Hin bed..nd I tink u shld let her knw dt u ve seen al her adventures..pls let her go,cus she wld stil repeat d act.imagine fuckin anoda man on ur matrimonial bed...went for away match,den to home.she no dey fear@all.she can even kil u,jst to b wit dt dude |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by diva90: 8:49pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
If you have been faithful to her for the past 15 years then go ahead and divorce her... The reason i suspect that you are willing to forgive her so easily is probably because you have done the same to her Severally or could you just be a man with an exceptionally loving and forgiving heart? I doubt! Secondly there must be something really wrong. Confront her and talk to her. Women are extremely emotional creatures, she's probably just lacking attention on your end and has a man who is willing to go an extra mile just to keep her happy. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by jaymony: 9:05pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Ask google.. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by MrLeno(m): 9:05pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Estharfabian: Someone give this sister a gold medal! |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Flashh: 9:23pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
shugaboy6102:Lol... I dey look am for the question wey him dey ask na. When his wife slept with another man, he don't know how to discipline the bítch. Any decision he takes that would appease him is none of my bizness. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by therapistmrs: 9:36pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
sir this totally your call.you don't need anyone to tell you what to do because has a matured man the question to ask you is how do you feel and what action would you like to take? all the best. therapistmrs..com 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by tega4eddie: 10:21pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
IF U WERE A MAN HOW WOULD U FEEL IF YOUR WIFE CHEAT ON YOU daretodiffer: |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by eyinjuege: 10:24pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
LastProphet: In short eating egusi soup everyday for the past 15 years na long thing. Some oha soup by the side, and afang soup thrown in is allowed. Marriage things na wah o. Kai, OP. It's admirable you have forgiven your wife, and its also ok you don't wanna sleep with her. However, let her know you know about her dirty secrets and guard your evidence with all you've got. You never know when it'll come in handy. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by bitingcool: 10:27pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Confessng: Truer words were never spoken. Before a man can make love to a woman, he has already made love to her mind and senses. (unless she's after something else, olosho, karishika et al) |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by richiepolymer(m): 10:48pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
Realwvn: I know how you feel bro. This story sounds familiar to what happened to someone I know. If you're the guy, pls summon courage to wipe those memories off so you don't die before your time. You really loved that woman. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 10:50pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
tega4eddie: If I were an average man....I would send her away If I were an average man with common sense.....I would not because I know I have done worse/intend to do worse. I know that it would be hypocritical, selfish and stup.id of me to act like a saint when clearly I am not. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Fathai(m): 11:28pm On Dec 16, 2015 |
go to the makert square and tell anybody u see.. at least ur wife will feel ashamed and she will stop that bad act.... my 5 kobo plssss |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Bankky4: 12:36am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Kill her. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by ideology(m): 12:37am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Nigerian men needs prayers … ![]() |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by chronique(m): 12:51am On Dec 17, 2015 |
I'd forgive anything but cheating. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Nobody: 4:22am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Forgive her, u sent her on this errand when u chose ur job over her. She needed to meet her needs elswhere. She has been sampling dickss all her life and u didn't know cos u were only interested in boobs and ass. Ur lucky she didn't give u a disease ,just move on such is life. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by veraiyke(m): 6:32am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Left to my person I will sit her down and tell her how much I loved and how much I still love her even in the pains. Tell her you know all her escapades and then tell her to start packing her loads to go and either meet her sex parther or her parents. Then wait and see her attitude. If her attitude convinces you of her change for better then make your choice whether you can leave with her still. I really can't tell you exactly what to do because I am not in you shoe. But you are and your heart will direct you. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by veraiyke(m): 6:37am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Stop blaming the guy. Abi didn't you also see that despite his work he has been trying to satisfy the wife. The wife has simply been thinking of what she did even before she did it and am sure the friends she met finally pushed her by giving her the wrong advice. So please don't justify her act by blaming the husband. kaeforum: |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by veraiyke(m): 6:38am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Yea. I really don't think I can bear that. I can forgive but to still keep the woman is what I don't think I can do chronique: |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by veraiyke(m): 6:48am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Sometime I call women who partake in such life style fools. You've been living with a man for years and have loved up but because of a man who is just out there in a bit of hours doing every thing just to Bleep you and spoil your happy home n you are happy and calling your husband or wife as d case maybe a mumu. If that so called lover loves you why don't he marry you, why don't he like talks about you being a married woman. |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Chikare(f): 7:00am On Dec 17, 2015 |
[b][/b]It is too bad when spouses are cheating on their selves. Let the man check if he has not committed such thing before crucifying his wife just like Christ said "let any man without sin first cast the stone" I think forgiveness and repentance is the best |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by Memyselfu2009(m): 7:04am On Dec 17, 2015 |
Tell her what she has done and tell her you love her to matter what if she refused to change just give her Red card before you start having psychological problem |
Re: My Wife Slept With Another Man, What Should I Do? by sholexy1: 7:30am On Dec 17, 2015 |
If she cud do this to 15yrs marriage den she is a monster and she doesnt deserve u n i blive some1 out dere some where deserve u. Dont worry let her go u will b fine ![]() ![]() |
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