sexyLeamon:

I'm lucky to be with one but I know very few guys who are good. Meaning they treat their women well, don't cheat respect them and aren't abusive and all around good guys. Why are there so few of them?

whitelexi:

Its cos there's so many women nowadays who just "cant be bovverred" with anything!
Dont care about your home, your man's wellbeing, and there are others who do - only they're outside your relationship or marriage

deji2005:

some girls prefer bad boys I mean really bad ones,  

justwise:

Some guys will not give a monkey about ur looks if u got hurrible attitude. Take for a example, some girls want to date a guy who got a good job but she is jobless, how does that work? U want to date a guy with 6pack but u are bloody FAT, what do u expect?

opuro:

when you hear a woman tell you
my husband is good, that means the man don fall mugu for the wifey be that
na him de cook, wash cloth, take children to school, pay for every thing
and to top it all HE CALLS HER MUMMY
infact she has turn him into a complete JACKASS

sexyLeamon:

every  women want to be loved and reapected. yes some girls love guys with bad boys image but no woman want a
bad man

Sasha009:

Reason why there re few good men around is because the really good men re all taken. The rest re probably still unlucky enough. You know a lot of girls prefer bad boys? That's just the way it is,  bad boys make them feel good. bad boys re charismatic, full of crap, smooth words, lies and they re obviously better in bed, so the girls automatically(like robot) fall for these bad boys, thus leaving the good guys.
You always want what you cant have, so the bad boys always get all the girls, this attract girls, seeing he ha a lot of girls at his beck and call, making them fall more in 'lust' with him , until he uses and dumps them of course.
That's the cycle of life, i don't think it can change.

C2H5OH:

There are plenty of good guys out there. Women just don't appreciate them when they come around. When they're done rubbing his nose in dirt and treating him like an effeminate piece of shit, they leave. That alone is enough to make him go bad.
And then there are those women who do have good guys in their lives, but since they're not ready for what the good guy has to offer, they take him for granted and do things to push him away. Then there are those women who make the excuse that a "good guy" is not "bad enouh" . They are confused souls. It's either you want a goodie or a baddie. make up your mind.

Secretz:

there are some people who BLATANTLY take the piss and treat people like utter SHIT. Both men and women.

Joey82:

@poster
reason is simple, there are so few good guys cos there are very few good girls. think,

C2H5OH:

That's why they distinguish the goodie from the baddie.

There are plenty dudes out there with enough respect for themselves and for you, to recognize that you deserve to be treated like a gem and are ready to do right by you.   Then there are those boys whose fatal habits would drive almost anyone insane. They could give two royal focks about how they treat you.  Their words are one way, their actions are another.  They cheat on you, whoop yo ass, disgrace you in public, you name it and in the same light expect you to believe that they love you/wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

Sometimes I don't blame them for turning out the way they did.  Some women are cruel.

lol . good answer bro

ibkaye:

The same can be said for some women

Anyways sha, I don't know.

Secretz:

True, I hear that, but really? How many men and women are really as you described above?

And who also defines what is truly 'good'? (the individual I think).

iice:

There are around, if one bothers to see

justwise:

Totally agree with u. Then again it depends on her definition of 'good' guy