CULLED FROM LAILA'S BLOG

"This happened live and direct in my church.
There is this woman in her 40s who usually sits at the pastor's office. I noticed she behaves like someone undergoing mental deliverance. I remember few times when church prayer warriors organize special prayers for her.
She was healed yesterday and our pastor was happy. I am very close to the pastor. When we were together, in his happy mood he told me what happened to the woman.

The woman was a Deeper Life member (this is not intended to paint any set of people bad. This is a real life story. I have to state out all the facts. Apologies to Deeper Life Christians).
She met her man in the same church. They were both virgins based on their Christian values - No sex before wedding.

After wedding, she expected the man to start making moves, nothing was happening. The husband is like a serving junior pastor in the church.

She started making the moves. And whenever she does, the man was always giving excuses.
"I will minister today, I have to prepare my sermon notes"
"Its a prayer night...I want to be clean before God"
"Blah blah"
The woman could not longer take it. One day, she closed the door, forced herself on him, brought out his pinis, tried to arouse it, nothing happened.

That was when the woman started asking questions. After a lengthy argument, he confessed that he is impotent. And he has been keeping it a secret from his wife (A pastor for that matter).

This lady is core believer (You know deeper Life people na). She decided to stay. No divorce in Christianity. Once you swore an oath on the alter, you are in it for life. Based on her own believe ooooooo. Not mine. Because some churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed especially when they are endangering their own lives through fights and others.

She stayed in the marriage for 20 years. Her younger sister who got married after her now has 3 kids. She is still single and a virgin.
Her ability to bear all this tribulation started running down. She started having mental issues.

The first one happened, when her sister was celebrating her daughter's birthday. They had a little disagreement and she scattered the whole party. When they called family meeting to settle the issue was when she busted out and told her people "Can you Imagine, I am still a virgin". It was like film trick to the family.

Ever since then, she will be walking on the street, talking alone. If you ask her a question, she will be saying something else.

To cut the story short, someone brought her to our church. Where she has been undergoing reform. My pastor summoned her husband. As pastor to pastor. He told him "You are a wicked human being". "You have sinned against man, and God". Its true you have a problem. You are a pastor, spill your problem out, let the world help you. You kept it secret and even subjected your woman to a marital bondage for years. You have wasted her life. Where do you want her to start from?

The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a way to know your partner during courtship.

Its either you marry an impotent or a sexomaniac. I remember a man that have sex with his wife 8 times a day. Whenever he is coming back from work, his wife will be crying."

www.lailasblog.com/2015/10/no-sex-before-marriage-is-it-advisable.html?m=1

I did not read your epistle but to answer your question, it's not advisable to have sex before marriage. It's not right.

Which kyn Long thread be this??

Strahovski:
I did not read your epistle but to answer your question, it's not advisable to have sex before marriage. It's not right.

Why is it not advisable? Why isn't it right?

this dey really happen sha

Decker:


Why is it not advisable? Why isn't it right?

It is against the will of God

Old story,this made fp somtime ago

Mtchewwwwww.........

Yea we all agree it is not right but about 80% of the problems in marriages today are due to sexual compatibility... If you don't correct it before marriage u are screwed for life... Advice urself

Strahovski:
I did not read your epistle but to answer your question, it's not advisable to have sex before marriage. It's not right.

read it b4 u decide inconclusively like inec

Strahovski:
I did not read your epistle but to answer your question, it's not advisable to have sex before marriage. It's not right.

How do u cope in sch if you can't read?? Lol

Strahovski:


It is against the will of God

Is that a valid reason? The will of God that you are implying is actually the doctrines of the new testament Christianity. And the doctrines where inscribed in the letters that Apostle paul wrote when he was held captive.

Paul was writing to these people and instructing them according to their cultures and traditions they they had at that time.

Now we live in the modern world, not in medieval times. Don't you think it's unwise to still cling to such ancient jewish practices, knowing fully well it's consequences in the later run?
I mean, the world we live in today is fast paced and lots of things happen and the isuue of marriage isn't one to be dealt with lightly.
In choosing the person you are going to marry, you have to be sure that you are compatible with that person in every area so you won't end up having issues and regretting your decision to marry that person.

Hmm,A food 4 thought.That is why I love men of 21st century THEY ALWAYS LOVE TO SAMPLE D PRODUCT B4 BUYING IT. .

obiorathesubtle:
Which kyn Long thread be this??

u beta read ham b4 u go cum Nl to start seeking 4 advice. Prevention is better than cure..

gunners160:
u beta read ham b4 u go cum Nl to start seeking 4 advice. Prevention is better than cure..

the last thing I go do for this world na to come NL dy find help.

story for the gods

Strahovski:


It is against the will of God

It's also against the will of God to call people ugly.

skyfullofstars:


It's also against the will of God to call people ugly.

What concerns your comment with my post that you quoted and with the topic?

Stalking me from the other thread

Mofo!