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10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Tunchi101(m): 1:36pm On Dec 21, 2015
1.Family Detachment

One sign that she may be cheating is that she detaches herself from your family. She may also stop hanging out with your friends as well. The reason women do this is out of remorse. Basically, she feels guilty and will feel less pain if she isn’t immersed in your life- including family or friends. Remember, the less mental baggage she has holding her back, the easier it will be for her to commit the deed.

2.Consistent Nagging
The days of harmonious communication are
gone when a women decides to do nothing but nag. Basically, she will find every excuse to lash out and argue with you. The reason a woman will do this is to justify her deed by rationalising that it wasn’t working out with your anyway. It helps eliminate a lot of her guilt. So if a woman starts to point out every flaw and starts arguments about every little thing then it could be a sign that she has been unfaithful or is going to.

3.The Mysterious Friend

One telltale sign that a woman is being unfaithful is that she has a mysterious friend who slowly makes a bigger impact in her life.
Whether it is a co-worker or someone that she knows from school, she may keep him a secret as well as may be hesitant to share information about him with you. It really doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that something out of the norm is happening here and you should speak with your significant other about it be.

4.Deflecting Simple Questions

When your girlfriend starts acting suspicious and starts to avoid very simple questions then this could be a sign that she’s hiding something. If she immediately repeats your questions back to you before answering then
chances are good that she’s searching her mind for a lie. On the same token, she may become very defensive when you ask her questions about her whereabouts or future plans. As a general rule of thumb, if she starts to deflect information that she used to volunteer in the past, she is hiding something that she doesn’t want to tell you about.

5.Shift in Priorities

If a woman is involved in heavy romance with another man then she will definitely start to shift her priorities away from yours. All of a sudden, she won’t have time to see you and she will start to break-off regular meetings that you used to have with her. Also, if there is a sudden switch in dates for particular events like dance-lessons or work schedule then she's probably making them to see her new fling.
Basically, anything action that is designed to create distance between you and her could be a sign of infidelity.

6.She Looks Sexier More Often

A woman who is cheating will go way out of her way to make sure that she is looking as best as she can before leaving the house. The reason she does this is to dazzle and impress her new fling as much as possible. Remember that way that she dressed at the beginning of your relationship together? That is how she is going to try and present herself when she does something wrong. She’ll wear new jewelry, clothing, and even makeup. She’ll even wear
these things to places where there is really no need for them like the mall for example.

7.She Becomes More Independent

Part of trying to break it off with you and having her romance with her new guy is that she wants to be independent from you. The earlier she starts doing this, the less of a burden it will actually be when the time comes to leave you (if and when she decides to do it). Basically, she will start to drop her vocabulary from “we” to phrases that favor “I”. However, what is more important to watch out for is that she will stop speaking with you about future
plans. In short, she will start acting a manner that dictates that she no longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether or not she is actually going to leave your or simply create more space for your “double life” it is safe to say that she
doesn’t want you in the picture. The reason she does this is because she can’t build up the nerve to tell you that it is over and that she wants to start over with someone new.

8. Have Low Sex Drive

This is probably one of the biggest telltale sign that a woman is unfaithful. Essentially, she won’t be interested in having sex with you anymore. And if you do make love then it will only be when she wants it. Another reason why
she will have a lower sex drive is because she doesn’t want to continue and string you along. Chances are good that she’s already engaging in sexual activities with her new partner if she isn’t sleeping with you anymore.

9. Have Secret Schedules

A woman who is being secretive about her schedule is more than likely hiding something. For example, does she hide her whereabouts when you call her? Does she always “go away on businesses”? If she is gone a lot of the time
and not telling you where she is going or when she’s coming back then chances are good that she’s seeing someone else. As a general rule of
thumb, the less you know about her itinerary the more worried you should be about where she is and who she is spending her time with.

10.You Become Irrelevant

What is worth than a girlfriend who nags about every little thing? How about a girlfriend or wife who doesn’t even know that you exist? While it may be hard to imagine, it does happen to a lot of guys. Their significant other simply pretends like they are not even there anymore. Keep in mind that this may happen right away or little by little. A woman who is no longer interested
in you and becomes interested in another man will automatically start to pretend as though you don’t even exist.

Tunchi says so
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by kvngtxnde(m): 1:39pm On Dec 21, 2015
Well in most cases, this is accurate.
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by misspicy(f): 1:41pm On Dec 21, 2015
undecided
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Monalisa185(f): 1:44pm On Dec 21, 2015
it's obvious na
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Nobody: 1:45pm On Dec 21, 2015
So says Tunchi.grin
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Tunchi101(m): 1:45pm On Dec 21, 2015
Monalisa185:
it's obvious na
smh smiley
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Monalisa185(f): 1:46pm On Dec 21, 2015
Tunchi101:
smh smiley
for?
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Tunchi101(m): 1:48pm On Dec 21, 2015
Monalisa185:


for?
seems to me like you broken a lot of hearts grin
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by flawlesRebirth(f): 1:51pm On Dec 21, 2015
.T
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Monalisa185(f): 1:52pm On Dec 21, 2015
Tunchi101:
seems to me like you broken a lot of hearts grin

nah...on the contrary... I amend a broken heartcheesy
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Tunchi101(m): 1:59pm On Dec 21, 2015
Monalisa185:


nah...on the contrary... I amend a broken heartcheesy
wink hmm, I hear you grin
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Pheals(f): 2:24pm On Dec 21, 2015
What of cheating bf
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by RoastedCorn(m): 2:42pm On Dec 21, 2015
just incase
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by VampireeM(f): 2:46pm On Dec 21, 2015
Nonsense undecided
Cause she might be doing all these and still not CHEATING
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by onismate: 4:37pm On Dec 21, 2015
most likely true. All these una top ten list shah...
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by MrBasketball: 5:27pm On Dec 21, 2015
VampireeM:
Nonsense undecided
Cause she might be doing all these and still not CHEATING
If she do 70% of that list, she's cheating.

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Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by VampireeM(f): 5:55pm On Dec 21, 2015
MrBasketball:

If she do 70% of that list, she's cheating.


IMO, mostly mean she has lost INTEREST not necessarily that she has a new guy(s)
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by judey1992(m): 6:46pm On Dec 21, 2015
OP you are so on point. my gf exhbiting almost 80% of these acts. i know its over but she wont just say it. we lost it.
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by eroticecstasy: 6:48pm On Dec 21, 2015
Monalisa185:

nah...on the contrary... I amend a broken heartcheesy
i need you please, am brokenhearted
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Tunchi101(m): 7:52pm On Dec 21, 2015
eroticecstasy:


i need you please, am brokenhearted
lol. That one sef dey
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Nobody: 9:52pm On Dec 21, 2015
Tunchi101:
1.Family Detachment

One sign that she may be cheating is that she detaches herself from your family. She may also stop hanging out with your friends as well. The reason women do this is out of remorse. Basically, she feels guilty and will feel less pain if she isn’t immersed in your life- including family or friends. Remember, the less mental baggage she has holding her back, the easier it will be for her to commit the deed.

2.Consistent Nagging
The days of harmonious communication are
gone when a women decides to do nothing but nag. Basically, she will find every excuse to lash out and argue with you. The reason a woman will do this is to justify her deed by rationalising that it wasn’t working out with your anyway. It helps eliminate a lot of her guilt. So if a woman starts to point out every flaw and starts arguments about every little thing then it could be a sign that she has been unfaithful or is going to.

3.The Mysterious Friend

One telltale sign that a woman is being unfaithful is that she has a mysterious friend who slowly makes a bigger impact in her life.
Whether it is a co-worker or someone that she knows from school, she may keep him a secret as well as may be hesitant to share information about him with you. It really doesn’t take a rocket scientist to figure out that something out of the norm is happening here and you should speak with your significant other about it be.

4.Deflecting Simple Questions

When your girlfriend starts acting suspicious and starts to avoid very simple questions then this could be a sign that she’s hiding something. If she immediately repeats your questions back to you before answering then
chances are good that she’s searching her mind for a lie. On the same token, she may become very defensive when you ask her questions about her whereabouts or future plans. As a general rule of thumb, if she starts to deflect information that she used to volunteer in the past, she is hiding something that she doesn’t want to tell you about.

5.Shift in Priorities

If a woman is involved in heavy romance with another man then she will definitely start to shift her priorities away from yours. All of a sudden, she won’t have time to see you and she will start to break-off regular meetings that you used to have with her. Also, if there is a sudden switch in dates for particular events like dance-lessons or work schedule then she's probably making them to see her new fling.
Basically, anything action that is designed to create distance between you and her could be a sign of infidelity.

6.She Looks Sexier More Often

A woman who is cheating will go way out of her way to make sure that she is looking as best as she can before leaving the house. The reason she does this is to dazzle and impress her new fling as much as possible. Remember that way that she dressed at the beginning of your relationship together? That is how she is going to try and present herself when she does something wrong. She’ll wear new jewelry, clothing, and even makeup. She’ll even wear
these things to places where there is really no need for them like the mall for example.

7.She Becomes More Independent

Part of trying to break it off with you and having her romance with her new guy is that she wants to be independent from you. The earlier she starts doing this, the less of a burden it will actually be when the time comes to leave you (if and when she decides to do it). Basically, she will start to drop her vocabulary from “we” to phrases that favor “I”. However, what is more important to watch out for is that she will stop speaking with you about future
plans. In short, she will start acting a manner that dictates that she no longer needs you to hold her hand. Whether or not she is actually going to leave your or simply create more space for your “double life” it is safe to say that she
doesn’t want you in the picture. The reason she does this is because she can’t build up the nerve to tell you that it is over and that she wants to start over with someone new.

8. Have Low Sex Drive

This is probably one of the biggest telltale sign that a woman is unfaithful. Essentially, she won’t be interested in having sex with you anymore. And if you do make love then it will only be when she wants it. Another reason why
she will have a lower sex drive is because she doesn’t want to continue and string you along. Chances are good that she’s already engaging in sexual activities with her new partner if she isn’t sleeping with you anymore.

9. Have Secret Schedules

A woman who is being secretive about her schedule is more than likely hiding something. For example, does she hide her whereabouts when you call her? Does she always “go away on businesses”? If she is gone a lot of the time
and not telling you where she is going or when she’s coming back then chances are good that she’s seeing someone else. As a general rule of
thumb, the less you know about her itinerary the more worried you should be about where she is and who she is spending her time with.

10.You Become Irrelevant

What is worth than a girlfriend who nags about every little thing? How about a girlfriend or wife who doesn’t even know that you exist? While it may be hard to imagine, it does happen to a lot of guys. Their significant other simply pretends like they are not even there anymore. Keep in mind that this may happen right away or little by little. A woman who is no longer interested
in you and becomes interested in another man will automatically start to pretend as though you don’t even exist.

Tunchi says so

11. She starts locking/passwording her phone(s)
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by MrBasketball: 9:54pm On Dec 21, 2015
VampireeM:



IMO, mostly mean she has lost INTEREST not necessarily that she has a new guy(s)

Lost interest after seeing another.
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by ChappyChase: 10:05pm On Dec 21, 2015
kvngtxnde:
Well in most cases, this is accurate.
Its obvious in all and not most cases..
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Fourwinds: 10:05pm On Dec 21, 2015
VampireeM:
Nonsense undecided
Cause she might be doing all these and still not CHEATING
it is impossible ...she must do one or two..
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Monalisa185(f): 11:54pm On Dec 21, 2015
eroticecstasy:


i need you please, am brokenhearted

ehhhh...lemme get my needle and thread...what color is your heart so that I can get the same color of thread tongue
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by eroticecstasy: 7:27am On Dec 22, 2015
Monalisa185:


ehhhh...lemme get my needle and thread...what color is your heart so that I can get the same color of thread tongue

baby-pink, please hurry, i will sent my house address to you
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by pxdaniel(m): 8:18am On Dec 22, 2015
She becomes defensive. Due to her guilty conscience, anything you say or ask will be interpreted by her as an accusation. You have said the rest of them
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Monalisa185(f): 9:22am On Dec 22, 2015
eroticecstasy:


baby-pink, please hurry, i will sent my house address to you

your address?... won't be necessary... just drop you broken heart here, after the amendment, you can come pick it....
Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by eroticecstasy: 12:29pm On Dec 22, 2015
Monalisa185:


your address?... won't be necessary... just drop you broken heart here, after the amendment, you can come pick it....

here is it, please bring it to the house by 8pm when you are through.

thanks

Re: 10 Things Women Develop When They Are Cheating by Nobody: 1:26pm On Dec 22, 2015
This also apply to men too

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