few days back, someone asked me

" I am a 20 year old boy. I don't have any girlfriend
and I want to find a nice girl, say between 18
and 45 years of age, from the United States of
America or another American country. So what
should I do to find her?"

well, I believe many young Nigerians think like this boy. If you're like this boy well, here is what I have to say;


Let me first warn you, there are a number of
young men in the same situation as you. Your
desire for a future wife in another country is
both hard to accomplish and leaves you
vulnerable to scams. There are a number of
people who are eager to take your money and
make you promises they will never fulfill.
The purpose of having a girlfriend is to find
someone who will be your companion and friend
for the rest of your life. This means you need to
met people to get to know them and they to get
to know you. That is hard when you are in one
country and they are in another country. It can
be extra hard if you have trouble conversing in
each other's languages. While the Internet
makes it very easy to talk to people all around
the world, the Internet makes it far too easy to
pretend. A lot of people are not who they claim
to be and since you can't see them, you can't
tell when someone is lying to you.
The best way to meet someone is to go places
where you have interests because other people
with the same interests will go to those same
places. If you want to met Americans and can
afford to go to one of the American countries for
visits, then find out where visitors come to see
your country. If you can, get a job that puts you
in contact with people visiting, such as a tour
guide. Such jobs will also force you to improve
your language skills.
Whether you find a girl locally or elsewhere, you
need to also consider what you offer the
relationship. Do you have a good job that allows
you to support a family? Do you prove to be a
hard worker? Do people know you to be honest
and caring? In other words, think about yourself
from a woman's viewpoint and ask yourself what
you can do to make yourself a better man whom
a woman would want to marry. If you have no
ideas, ask your mother or some other women
you know for suggestions on how to improve
yourself to be good husband material.
In your eagerness, never rush a relationship. Get
to know the other person well and let that
person get to know you well. It is when you rush
that you make mistakes.
Finally, be yourself. Too many young men, in
their eagerness to find a wife, pretend to be
someone they are not. It makes them look
artificial and unattractive. But even if you do
find a woman who falls in love for whom you
pretend to be, what happens when she finds out
the truth? I know you want to impress a woman,
but impress her with your actual good qualities.

for more info, contact 09093004542 so I could add u up to the whatsapp grp consisting of young Nigerians and Americans. Ladies too might find themselves soulmates in the group.

@op u be mumu d boy na dollardinus

Oh really? Ipledge10, MrsChima and Pinkycute is this how you roll in Yankee.

ronald4lif:
Oh really? Ipledge10, MrsChima and Pinkycute is this how you roll in Yankee.

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ronald4lif:
Oh really? Ipledge10, MrsChima and Pinkycute is this how you roll in Yankee.

Is that how you roll in the UK , Mr. Sambo?

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MrsChima:


Is that how you roll in the UK , Mr. Sambo?