i have been going out with my girlfriend for 4years now and she said she cannot do without me. she said that if anything should come between us and we don't get to marry, she will be cheating on her husband with me. does this means she really love me? I love her too and i pray we get married

dis one is serious oh. i think she loves you for sex

Some people are damn lucky _{you must be shinning that kongo real nice}

dude dont be decieved, all women come up with such tales when blinded by gud sex.
but remeber, kaka was once world beats footballer, now ronaldo. messi at the end of the year.
ur dominace will not reign for ever. lol
_{shine shine bobo}[color=#000099][/color].

hmm i dont know - dont tie yourself into a r/ship for life because she says she will cheat on her husband with you

that one is just to boost your ego - as for me, any woman who will consider cheating in her martimoinail home BEFORE she even gets married should have her ethics and moral code reassesed. it is one thing if she is married and 'it just happens' - its another thing for her to plan it in advance and use it as an emotional blackmail for you

who knows - a woman that considers marrying another man and cheating on him - might even do it to you

thats my 2kobo on d matta

luxoire:

hmm i dont know - dont tie yourself into a r/ship for life because she says she will cheat on her husband with you

that one is just to boost your ego - as for me, any woman who will consider cheating in her martimoinail home BEFORE she even gets married should have her ethics and moral code reassesed. it is one thing if she is married and 'it just happens' - its another thing for her to plan it in advance and use it as an emotional blackmail for you

who knows - a woman that considers marrying another man and cheating on him - might even do it to you

thats my 2kobo on d matta

na true
this is happening to me.My ex still wants to shine my congo despite thet fact that she knows my babe, i tire oooo

nethacker:

na true
this is happening to me.My ex still wants to shine my congo despite thet fact that she knows my babe, i tire oooo

you get women like that - but you too must be encouraging her somehow - though not overtly - but by not telling her STRICTLY where the line is, you are encouraging her . if you love your babe, and dont want to ruin your r/ship you should tell your ex where to go shove it - or you cut all links with her - afterall she be your EX not your PRESENT - let the future plan itself

luxoire:

you get women like that - but you too must be encouraging her somehow - though not overtly - but by not telling her STRICTLY where the line is, you are encouraging her . if you love your babe, and dont want to ruin your r/ship you should tell your ex where to go shove it - or you cut all links with her - afterall she be your EX not your PRESENT - let the future plan itself

hey dear,i told her but she felt she could have her way by initialising her feminine antics.I did not fall for any though.I told my girl everything without ommission.wenever my girl is with me and she(my ex) calls,the fone will be on speaker and my girl do hear our conversation.I hide nothing from my babe n i nvr for once encouraged her to keep coming.My babe even told her that she is doing watever she is doing at her own risk, so my dear i am not in anyway encouraging her .thx sha for ur opinion

the truth is that we are both seriously in love. she once told me that she will want to have my baby even if i don't want to marry her. somebody asked the mum for her hand in marriage and she told the person that her daughter already has somebody even though I am not finacially buoyant now, not only that, she always settles us whenever we have little misunderstanding.

LWKMD!!!!!! I truly have missed Nairaland. Meanwhile @ post I've heard that b4 I'll advice that u be a bit cynic in this matter. Just like the above a boost of Ego and good sex are highly probable reasons for that proclamation, Just be on your guard. Be Easy Bro

well to me for her to have said she want to carry your baby, i think she really loves you

nethacker:

hey dear,i told her but she felt she could have her way by initialising her feminine antics.I did not fall for any though.I told my girl everything without ommission.wenever my girl is with me and she(my ex) calls,the fone will be on speaker and my girl do hear our conversation.I hide nothing from my babe n i nvr for once encouraged her to keep coming.My babe even told her that she is doing watever she is doing at her own risk, so my dear i am not in anyway encouraging her .thx sha for ur opinion

noe your gf is putting up with it because she thinks she is in the picture - soon she will be fed up of having a 3rd party in the rr/ship - talk to your babe and tell her how you feel and tell her how you feel. next time your ex calkls tell her if she doesn't stop with her attitude you will stop taking her calls - and stick to this - it is only A matter of time before your babe starts feeling like your ex should be exactly that and you shouldn’t be entertaining certain things – whether she knows or not – women can be possessive like that – I should know – I am a woman and there is only so much understanding I can give in certain situations

You’re welcome though

vizzy09:

the truth is that we are both seriously in love. she once told me that she will want to have my baby even if i don't want to marry her. somebody asked the mum for her hand in marriage and she told the person that her daughter already has somebody even though I am not finacially buoyant now, not only that, she always settles us whenever we have little misunderstanding.

Not disputing that y’all aren’t in love – you must be – but all I am saying is that be careful of a woman who even harbours such thoughts as cheating in her matrimonial home before she even knows who her ‘future’ husband is – no reason to say she wont execute such thoughts if she met someone else she loved more than you whilst she were married to you!!

Good luck though – but be careful

emotional blackmail! just tryin 2 hold u down ow will u feel if u catch ur wife cheating?

That is what good sex causes.

tope5000:

That is what good sex causes.

Eh, u no know sey Pastor dey here abi? Ok, on ur kneels for prayer

tope5000:

That is what good sex causes.

so tope u agree?   u r da bomb, thats y i dey service my madam wella with maximum strength and honour.   2nd stanza of our national anthem , to lofty height i must attain so as to build a relationship where peace and sincerity shall reign  

@Poster
Be ye not be decieved!

@Poster, is her name Jessica?

no, her name is not Jessica. why do you ask?

That statement may not really mean that she loves you dearly. If U are good enough 2 understand and overstand, there are many things you need to watch in a lady to know if she really loves you.

Congo shining prof! How far? Mind u, na so other profs dey follow u shine dat congo at the same time.

~ Tales by Sunlite ~ The sun's too hot! I beta get insyd! ~

Czarskit:

~ Tales by Sunlite ~ The sun's too hot! I beta get insyd! ~

Urs is cool. Its raining over here as well and don't have any sort of protection. Let me get insyd 2,