80% of relationships are for the wrong reasons, starting from the friends we keep to the ones we love. Referring to the latter, which has proved most powerful, LOVE.. a force whose field has no limit. Love is most painful when it is sweetest though it's stings are suppressed by its extreme values. But when love is faded.. it is hazardous like sodium arsenite.. every bit of it is lethal. He/she suddenly becomes a monster. He /she pills the wound over and over again with even knowing it. The heart is ripped apart . only if He/she could be at Least be reasonable we sometimes say. it's a hell of place to be. It's like driving your dream car in your dreams and u suddenly hear the bingo during NYSC days. It's a place of emotional touture. But wait a second... does he/she worth dying for? here are reasons to back this up



1. Thank God you are not married. A broken relationship is far better than a broken home. Let me put it in a rather simple way.. a dislocated bone is better than an amputated leg. "Yes.. but I love him" many say.. well, if only you could see the days ahead, you would have "evicted" him/her long before the ish happened


2. I am sure you 've spent longer days on earth without this person. If you kill yourself because of one guy/girl you just met some few months or years because of what you call love, I am sure on of the sins that will be laid to your charge is been careless with God-given breathe when you get beyond the sky if you actually made it in peace.

3. There are many people who love you in the real way, for who you are, for who you will become, and for what you will never achieve. You 've only bin passive about it. They will dare Achilles for you. Why kill yourself finding "love" when you have it all around you.

4. You are unique in your own way. Nobody will love you like you do. Look at your thumb.. no two persons on earth has the same print. God made you special, He spent his time creating you and if some man-also created... sees some flaws in you. well, he/she should rather create a stick man. You are special and deserve someone special.

5. God orders the steps of the righteous. God loves you more than you think. You slipped away from purpose. it's a way to set you back on track with his will. Don't fight it. it's supernatural.


6. Maybe he/she was a bit right., Just saying. However, take time to be thoughtful. build you person. Mould yourself to become a man/woman you
wish to see in the mirror. Make ends meet. be innovative. Love God.

* The strongest bond that tie souls together beyond mere affection is SEX. It is easier to leave him/her when nothing of such has happened. SEX is like antibiotics. when given by the wrong person, taken in the wrong time, or in the wrong dose. it becomes detrimental or rather impotent. more dose or something stronger will be needed to get d same therapeutic effect. Premarital Sex even with the right spouse is SIN.

Hope this helps

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