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Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Objectives: 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
donTbone: 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by igwe44(m): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Let her listen to her parents,if the guy decided to leave her along the line she would have no one to turn to,i will advice let her convince her parents so that they should see reasons with the guy and go on with the marriage 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Edunwa302(m): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
The OSU thing is really big issue, since she made this comment " She told me she rather dies than not marry him" So what else ? 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by fromnigeria(m): 5:13pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
fpeter:what did you read ![]() |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by JuanDeDios: 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Basildvalour:This is way more serious than you realise. If you have Igbo friends, ask them. It's not about being Christian or not - they fear social rejection if they let their daughter marry an Osu. Not even a bishop would risk it. funkyibodude:Well, it's her decision to make. She needs to consider the consequences of whatever she decides to do and ask herself if she can live with it. If she marries him her children will be deemed outcasts forever. Is she the type of person who can handle that prospect, can handle social rejection? If she can, kudos to her because we need people to blaze the trail and break this Osu caste thing. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by nikz(f): 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
I pity her. She has to marry d guy cus she is fews gone. She should go with a pastor and tell her parents she is expecting this guy's baby. There is nothing wrong with the guy's family is dat OSU thing still in existence? Some families sha na wa oh see digging into one's past! Pls both parties should go for deliverance and marry. She can't die for no reason and can't marry sm1 she doesn't love not marrying the person u love affects marriages except the holy spirit helps u. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by kateskitty(f): 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude: Someone clearly did a piss poor job in the initial investigations, now they've gone as far as doing the introduction. Well in my opinion, family comes first 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by tiredface: 5:14pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
HE KNOWS HE'S OSU AND KNOWS THE IMPLICATION BUT WENT AHEAD TO IMPREGNANT HER THINKING IT MAY HELP, IT CANT, IM SORRY. THE STU PID GIRL GOT PREGNANT EVEN BEFORE THE NORMAL INVESTIGATION IS COMPLETED. MAYBE YOU BOTH DESERVE EACH OTHER |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
But the Girls Family sabi Investigate sha. Their expertise would be very Useful in CSI. Very Delicate issue! *scratching my Head* |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by anytaij: 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Osu kor. Osu ni how I wish Osu Persin come my way sef I go marry put jare cos na dem pure pass sef. ![]() ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by robosky02(m): 5:15pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Nubian113: ok |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Caliph69: 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude:Shouldn't investigation come before introduction? Why will I go for introduction without knowing first the family I want to marry from? |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by opetu: 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
left to me i will say she shouldnt marry him ...since your parent refuse..as 4 me..my parent had another girl 4 me, but i got someone else pregnant in school i married her against my parent wishes nd i faced d consequences..i am still married though but it was a tough marriage |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by oshoa: 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Very easy to give advise. If you have not experience it, you won't know. Try and follow your mind. Nobody will go through it with her even you as a friend. Its easier said than done. The pregnancy makes it complicated. Let her seek the Lord with a sincere heart. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Soteriahascome: 5:16pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Break Which News? So A Supposed Graduate Can Still Be Enticed With Archaic Osu Bullshit? Pathetic & Silly... |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by serendipityF: 5:17pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
She should tell her parents she is pregnant for the guy afterall committing Abortion is even worse than the Osu shii, this 21st century, pple should develop biko funkyibodude: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Fourwinds: 5:17pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Crocz: was evil about it ![]() ![]() |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Caliph69: 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
TunjiMsp:I wonder oh! And that's months after the introduction. Shouldn't investigation come before introduction? All this quick quick marriage mentality. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:18pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Sunnycliff: Suit ursef i will do wat pleases me nd av my marriage d way i want it Even if my family approves him nd i dont M nt marrying. M crios i av several personalities nd strike in a manner u least expect M scared of mysef ![]() |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Hardeybohwarley(m): 5:19pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude:Nigeria traditional belief sha..the last time I came across the word OSU was when I am preparing to write jamb...if you read the Potter's wheel you will know what am saying...thought it was fiction...not until now..My advice for the lady is to meet their spiritual leader either Alfa or pastor explain what is on ground and what is at stake..so that he/she can solve the problem and let the parent knows that we are no more in Stone age... 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by oc2fish: 5:19pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Marrying an Osu in a society that practice cast is like two people with AS genotype marrying. Because they will eventually produce offspring that would be discriminated against. Dont allow your children to hate you for bringing them to the world. 2 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Kaydayo: 5:20pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
funkyibodude: |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Chanchit: 5:20pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
emorse: This just makes it better, they should all fvck off. That's why I love whites, na for fb you go see say ur pikin don marry. 3 Likes |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by banio: 5:20pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
Am not Igbo so I don't know the far reaching implications. The truth remains that we rant over things that shud be taken seriously. Am a christian but I avoid totems and taboos especially those from my parents. Pple go to quiet places to carry out fasting. If U ask people ranting to go to cementry to carry out a three day fast, I bet U nobody will consent. If a particular traditional believe is still active then it's better to avoid marrying a mad woman than trying to cast out the demon from your spouse |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by JuanDeDios: 5:21pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
freshvine:So true. But, unfortunately, it's not just the parents but the entire clan, village, and community. What we have here is that some ancient priests who thought the sun rose out of the river in the morning are still controlling supposedly learned and free people from their graves. |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Truth001(m): 5:21pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
OP pls tell her to calm down, this is not the first time of hearing things like this. She needs to be prayerful, and try to tell her fiance and let's hear his thoughts about it. All will be well, and concerning the threats of killing herself, she should remove those thoughts from her mind. She won't die but live, everything will be fine. 1 Like |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:22pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
I always tell. Dem. That osu case is more serious when is the girl is an Osu...... But this is the reverse... It shouldn't bother her.... Osu is for villagers... Once they are not in East... It won't matter |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by Nobody: 5:23pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
mexioni:i feel that tradition is crap .this is 21st century for crying out loud |
Re: How Can She Break This News To Her Fiance?!! by schumastic(m): 5:25pm On Dec 22, 2015 |
igwe44: is hard to convince the parents as regards issues like this cus it goes beyond the family and it extends to the relatives and kinsmen. if she goes ahead with the marriage, she will be cast out and won't be allowed to associate with the family.that's the problem here. so is more or less like having two AS genotype couple getting married...they can go ahead getting married but the stigma will still be there and will continue |
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