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I'm Mourning The Death Of A Loved One. . . .in Advance by Ceekay(m): 9:06pm On Jun 09, 2009 |
It may sound stupid, crazy or irresponsible, but i've decided to mourn the death of my loved ones in advance. Dont blame me. Its not something i really decided, it could be a problem. It has even made me withdraw a bit from them. I dont wish death on any of them, i couldnt have loved any of them more dearly. My reason is this, i've been with my friends on certain occasions, long time friends, not once not twice, when all of a sudden they recieve a call announcing the death of a loved one, mother, father, sibling or relation. I can see the agony. Some of them are sacred for life, like a friend of mine who was called to inform his mum and dad had died in a car crash. People i knew so well and loved too. Today he can pass for a deaf/mute because he doesnt talk to anyone. I cant imagine the devastation i would go through if a member of my family died after so long together. I will NOT be caught unawares. I refuse to be caught unawares, and since they say death is inevitable, maybe one day if the misfortune befalls me, i'll look back and say 'I was prepared'. |
Re: I'm Mourning The Death Of A Loved One. . . .in Advance by noetic2: 1:35am On Jun 10, 2009 |
you need serious help. |
Re: I'm Mourning The Death Of A Loved One. . . .in Advance by mohawkchic(f): 3:23am On Jun 10, 2009 |
~Oh Dear! Now what you're doing is "Mental Torture" That can Fork You Up Bigtime!! ~Enjoy & Appreciate every moment you have w/ your loved ones now,they count for something when they are no longer w/ us!!:Even people who are dealing w/ terminal illness & know they are going die make the most of the time they got left. . ~You cant Pretend to grief for something you havent lost!!You can NEVER be "Prepared"! ~What you are afraid of. . That Fear of losing a loved one to Death,i have already experienced that! You know what brings me out of my dark days? Those moments made into Memories I had w/ my Dada . . .So Snap out of this "Hypothetical-Grief-Process" & make every moment count you have w/ your family/Loved ones & be Thankful they are still here w/ you!! |
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