edogram:

r u male or female?

OBNOXIOUS:

Bull***SH**T!

I am over 30 and i dont give 2 flying F***ks about love! You dont have to waste your time trying to sacrifice your emotions for one B***TCHSomeone sounds bitter!!

! Just go with the flow and continue to F***K them.

Nothing is wrong with you and dont let these chicks convince you other wise. they will just start bombarding you with reasons why you should fall in love but when the chick gives you a middle finga in the middle of the relationship, they will be the first to offer their condolensce.

Just ignore them, meet a woman with no strings attached, Yansh her well till your tired, move along and repeat the whole cycle.

The day you decide to invest in Love is the day the love stock market will so crash down badly on you that you wont be able to get out of any love recession for the next 100 years. Save your self the stress and plan for your own future alone and no one else. Adding a woman to the equation is just a one way ticket to hell for you!

Your better off than Millions of Men that have invested in Love and their hands are burning badly because of that fatal error of falling for the saggy boobs and drooppy Asses!

Wake up My Guy!

In fact think deeply, how many of these nairaland chicks that your waiting to advise you are presently in love?Not presently, no.



How many of them have actually broken up with someone that loves them to death?Never.



How many of them toyed with a Man's heart and desire while they were pretending to love him backNever.



And how many of them would honestly say they give 100% in any relationship they have ever entered?Hand on heart, ALWAYS!



How many of them have bled a man to death financially?Never.



Are these the ones you are looking up to to advise you?No, she [/b]shouldn't be looking up to us to advise her, she instead should just use her own wisdom. We can all discuss but at the end of the day, it's what feels right to her.



If yes, i feel sorry for you and anxiously wait for your post 6 months from today after you might have been brutally tortured emotionallyand shown what true love really means!

[b]So just continue F***king them (Use protection sha!) and plan your own life without them. So far so good, it has worked well for me after i learnt my lesson years back and today, i am more stable, financially okay, no stress or wahala of women or marriage, abortion wahala, bitterness, money problems, greed, jealously, nagging or any of those stupid things that can make a Man die of a heart attack.

Any woman pushing you for lnstant love or marriage is just doing it for her own selfish greedy reason to protect her self from societal and parental scorn to become a (mrs) ad not because she desires you! And the moment you fall for that age old scam, Men you are totally done for and i would really cry a river for you like justin timberlake!

You are in controland you should keep it that way!

gentleogoo:

What is love? Im a female and at 26, i haven't  loved anyone, i have gone into relationships but i realize i don't love and don't even know what love is? Could this be a spiritual problem? Or certainly not met someone to love?

Please i need advice

Don't worry about it, don't try and force something if it's not coming natural.

I think it could do with the guys in your area, or your expectations (which could be unrealistic) - hopefully soon you'll meet that guy who'll make you stop and think.

Everyone's always trying to figure out what love is, but for me, my husband will be as close to my best friend as possible. We'll laugh and cry together, and with that as a foundation, anything extra will be a bonus .

gentleogoo:

What is love? Im a female and at 26, i haven't  loved anyone, i have gone into relationships but i realize i don't love and don't even know what love is? Could this be a spiritual problem? Or certainly not met someone to love?

Please i need advice

sexyLeamon:

JESUS Love is the most common emotional feeling. It drives a person to continue living and giving value to oneself. It is the foundation of life to become emotionally mature and to achieve belongingness. Love is your own meaning. Love is what you make it.

walestar:

Define this Love I make love to baby-mi last night,is that the love you are reffering to?.

topup:

Well, I won't wish you good luck with that because I highly doubt that every woman you've 'yanshed' has not been heartbroken, you've probably done more than your fair share (if you really have been in the cycle you advised). Unless you sleep with women who are into no-strings attached-type relationships, how many woman have you uttered the three words to just to get into bed for your own satisfaction?

And, it works both ways Mr., just because you're not uttering the words doesn't mean that your emotions are completely separated. There will come a day you will meet love face to face and if you decide to carry on in denial that it exists, then you may just lose the best thing that could possibly happen to you.

We need to really understand what love is; I don't believe that true love hurts, I believe that true love is similar to giving without expecting to receive. Everyone associates love with heartbreak but in all honesty, the signs for heart break are usually there early into any relationship. It's a challenge to learn about yourself, learn how to love yourself, learn what you can and can't tolerate from others, then you can release the pain and guilt that comes from a naive heart.

Everyone has free will and just because another person chose to deal carelessly with your heart doesn't mean that the next person will. We're all vulnerable human beings, becoming more and more synical as the days go by.