Pls I hv this frnd, he gets tired of one girl easily, non of his relatnshps has past one month. He claims he falls inlove at first sight and after getting to lay the girl once or twice, the love fades and nw he wnts to get married and dnt hv any relatnshp and is scared he might nt love his wife after marriage.

Please ur good advice is needed.

O.Y.O

Mature minded ppl needed pls

2cicily:
Mature minded ppl needed pls

your friend needs to devote more of his time in sambisa forest

but on a more serious note,why not try out no sex before marriage

him own na spiritual

He is yet to find his wife. He should strive, cos that girl is somewhere waiting for him, and when he finally finds her, he won't see her as he sees others.

Very selfish person. . Ditching his relationships for no reason. . So inconsiderate of others' feelings. ..


He should try and make his relationships more interesting so that he doesn't get bored easily. .

Wonder how he would feel if each of his partners dumps him after just one month!

Jimdonnet:


your friend needs to devote more of his time in sambisa forest


but on a more serious note,why not try out no sex before marriage

You made a valid point

Tell him to stop seeing gals as sex tools... He is after sex not love... Let him change his mindset on gals' matters

Lol.


Love at first sight.

Guy been they admire woman Arss and Boobs on first sight and he calls it love at first sight.


Tell you brother abii na your friend to grow up.

He has been picking these girls in the wrong place.Just before a month,he sleeps with them.

Your friend needs to change his specs,try something different.Let him try a long distant relationship,in this case the girl will keep him interested for a while ...... he will grow to like her personality and appreciate her for who she is and not what she has to offer(sex).

Please, when you get a good answer for your friend let me know. I seem to have this problem too

edwife:
He has been picking these girls in the wrong place.Just before a month,he sleeps with them.

Your friend needs to change his specs,try something different.Let him try a long distant relationship,in this case the girl will keep him interested for a while ...... he will grow to like her personality and appreciate her for who she is and not what she has to offer(sex).

Wil communicate the last paragraph to him that's a good one.
For the first, I dnt think he gets them from d. Wrng places, d tin is he is good looking and has a good paying job. I think girls easily jumps to him.

He's falling in lust at first sight, not falling in love at first sight. There're several foundations of a healthy and lasting relationship and pre-marital sex isn't one of them, so I would suggest he stops sleeping with them and see them as people (who have personalities, interests, hobbies, dreams and goals), not as objects he can use and throw away. He needs to search within himself and figure out why he gets tired of one girl easily, how to uphold a long-term relationship with one female, successfully, and most importantly, how to love himself. You cannot love anyone else until you love yourself.

Yieldings:
He's falling in lust at first sight, not falling in love at first sight. There're several foundations of a healthy and lasting relationship and pre-marital sex isn't one of them, so I would suggest he stops sleeping with them and see them as people (who have personalities, interests, hobbies, dreams and goals), not as objects he can use and throw away. He needs to search within himself and figure out why he gets tired of one girl easily, how to uphold a long-term relationship with one female, successfully, and most importantly, how to love himself. You cannot love anyone else until you love yourself.

That's so right. Good one yieldings

2cicily:
Pls I hv this frnd, he gets tired of one girl easily, non of his relatnshps has past one month. He claims he falls inlove at first sight and after getting to lay the girl once or twice, the love fades and nw he wnts to get married and dnt hv any relatnshp and is scared he might nt love his wife after marriage.

Please ur good advice is needed.

Pls marriage is not for him.
Not by force to get married.

Let him jeep yanshing babes. That's his calling.
Marriage is not for everyone

Your friend have been falling in love with women of easy virtues. Under one month, he laid them. Then discovers that they are love peddlers, hence the disgust and relationship breaks. Your friend needs to find that girl that would give him tough time. The kind of girl he attracts has alot do with his personality

bennyrazz:
Your friend have been falling in love with women of easy virtues. Under one month, he laid them. Then discovers that they are love peddlers, hence the disgust and relationship breaks. Your friend needs to find that girl that would give him tough time. The kind of girl he attracts has alot do with his personality

This is perfect. Tnx benny

Your friend is a weirdo, and he still can't differentiate between love and lust. When he finds true love he will know the difference.

Chillisauce:


Pls marriage is not for him.
Not by force to get married.

Let him jeep yanshing babes. That's his calling.
Marriage is not for everyone

OP this is the solution.