This is really serious! Most times I wonder why men beat their wife, not only getting physical with them, but also verbally destorying their emotion! It really hurt! When I see such cases, specially when the lady in question is crying it gets me really weak. Sometimes I feel like joining in shedding tears with such a lady.
Is it good for a man to to raise his hand against his wife in front of his children or even use abusive words on her when the children are around.



Pls fellow nairalanders...help me out. Am I just weak as a guy...to feel weak when I see a woman going through emotional times! Could feeling women weakness makes me a weak guy? And if it is, what can I do to overcome this?...thanks

U aren't weak, u just have a good heart

It breaks My heart too when a woman nags her man to death..

I feel like crying for him.. Chai

#say no to any form of abuse from any of the semester, physical or verbal

Na your type women dey control, dey pity us

kilokeys:
It breaks My heart too when a woman nags her man to death..

I feel like crying for him.. Chai

#say no to any form of abuse from any of the semester, physical or verbal

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kilokeys:
It breaks My heart too when a woman nags her man to death..

I feel like crying for him.. Chai

#say no to any form of abuse from any of the semester, physical or verbal

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kilokeys:
It breaks My heart too when a woman nags her man to death..

I feel like crying for him.. Chai

#say no to any form of abuse from any of the semester, physical or verbal

@Vick555
it is wrong for ANYONE (man OR woman) to abuse or raise their hand on their partner, period! but i certainly "understand" why many do it.

you are too emotional about the issue, and i suspect you have never lived with a woman in the past. if you have never "contemplated" knocking someone upside their head, then you havent lived long enough with the opposite sex. we are two different beings, and as much as we may love one another, we dont think/function alike, therefore there is bound to be frictions. the catch is to understand that, even though it may feel better to do so, it aint worth it to abuse someone emotionally/physically, and you might as well walk away or ignore that person.

MRBrownJ:
@Vick555
it is wrong for ANYONE (man OR woman) to abuse or raise their hand on their partner, period! but i certainly "understand" why many do it.

you are too emotional about the issue, and i suspect you have never lived with a woman in the past. if you have never "contemplated" knocking someone upside their head, then you havent lived long enough with the opposite sex. we are two different beings, and as much as we may love one another, we dont think/function alike, therefore there is bound to be frictions. the catch is to understand that, even though it may feel better to do so, it aint worth it to abuse someone emotionally/physically, and you might as well walk away or ignore that person.

Thanks...I share your veiw point too.

beegurl:
U aren't weak, u just have a good heart

Thanks Sis

kestolove95:
Na your type women dey control, dey pity us

Well, you totally wrong! Been compassionate doesn't mean been stupid.

vick555:

Thanks...I share your veiw point too.

i wrote that because many times we have women who also abuse men to the point where they snap, they use stuff that will bruise these men's egos, the will insult their manhood, OR god forbid, they will start raising their hands on such man (thinking that a man shouldnt "defend" himself because they are women).

just because men don cry in the open like women, doesnt mean we are not equally hurt by their actions.