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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by omonnakoda: 4:01am On Jan 03, 2016
sammyxclusive:


Go back to read the story again. English dey worry u? U wan blow grammar yet u no understand her simple English. "he OFFERED to assist me"
Whatever ails your parents I hope they recover before long.....Even if you live another life time we are not coevals whether in English or any other language for that matter so leave English.
Your THINKING or rather poverty of thought is what is at issue here. Certainly you are of the number of those with a warped and idiosyncratic understanding of the words "assist and help". Save your explanatory notes for your cohort of dolts

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by diva90: 4:13am On Jan 03, 2016
There's no guarantee that you will get the money after you sleep with him. I'll advice you to desist and look for an alternative option to fund your accommodation
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by mradjoy(m): 4:41am On Jan 03, 2016
guiddoti:
A responsible father will provide for his daughter likewise a responsible daughter will depend on God when the father cannot provide rather than depending on fb
Yes a responsible father will do such when he has the capacity to do so, what if he does not have the capacity to do so will he kill himself on that?

Yes a responsible girl will depend on God when the father couldn't provide, but remember that God our creator who can do everything still ask us to ask and it shall be given.

In this case, this lady claimed she never asked the man, but he offered to help her pay for the accommodation but unfortunately, he's asking for sexual gratifications which to me personally is wrong.

Now, let's look at it from a different perspective, do you know that the man in question could still have his way several times after helping this girl first? Rather than asking for instant gratification, why don't you do your bit first, then let the game play itself out naturally?

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by mradjoy(m): 4:49am On Jan 03, 2016
Emeskhalifa:

why wont girls jus alow guys to bleep dem wthout askin for money first?
bros u sef reason am na
So you can't help a lady if you have the power to do so without bleeping her? Naija guys this isn't too good brother.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by mradjoy(m): 4:53am On Jan 03, 2016
Naughtysite:


Kukuma pay for the poster's accomodation fee, i heard its N45,000. Oya fast !

Just help her as a person.
I will do so ten times over if I have the capacity to do so without looking back, I have power to control what I do and what I don't want to do.

I am definitely different from some guys who would want to sample everything inside the skirt.

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by omonnakoda: 5:00am On Jan 03, 2016
mradjoy:
So you can't help a lady if you have the power to do so without bleeping her? Naija guys this isn't too good brother.
Please stop misusing the word; HELP

It is only in Nigeria I see this . This is not help. Help is pushing a car or changing a tyre not giving someone the equivalent of several months salary for NOTHING. Only a thief will accept such in the name of help. yes it may be immoral to demand sex but it is immoral to receive such money and not think deeply.

Where does he get the money?
How much is his salary?
Does he not have responsibilities and family.wife kids mother father brother sister etc No one left in his family to help that he will be helping someone he does not know and she too will accept if he gives her?

Working class families in the so called developed world will not give their kids such money they will have to borrow it and pay when they start working. Even the poorest girls will go out on a date with you and pay for what they eat so why this parasitic HELP me attitude?
The truth is if you do not have the cash you cannot afford it so go and learn a trade or get a job. It is morally and spiritually wrong to expect something for nothing and then call that HELP

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by mradjoy(m): 5:08am On Jan 03, 2016
Cesclxg:

As I said before, I really think it is a good bargain. A night of hot steamy sex for #40k. That's some people monthly salary. Mind u, I am not saying u sud do the act. Far from it. The Scientist in me is just weighing the scale. I do that alot. However, if u eventually do succumb to the pressure and end up taking the man up on the deal, take consolation in the fact that he says he loves you. Who knows, one night of sex may make u feel the same way about him too. Who knows, he cud end up being ur husband. God works in mysterious ways!
How are you even sure the man is gonna pay her after having his way?

That is even riskier, the man could easily had sex with her and never fulfill his own side of the bargain or you wanna tell me this hasn't happened before?
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by mradjoy(m): 5:20am On Jan 03, 2016
omonnakoda:
Please stop misusing the word; HELP

It is only in Nigeria I see this . This is not help. Help is pushing a car or changing a tyre not giving someone the equivalent of several months salary for NOTHING. Only a thief will accept such in the name of help. yes it may be immoral to demand sex but it is immoral to receive such money and not think deeply.

Where does he get the money?
How much is his salary?
Does he not have responsibilities and family.wife kids mother father brother sister etc No one left in his family to help that he will be helping someone he does not know and she too will accept if he gives her?

Working class families in the so called developed world will not give their kids such money they will have to borrow it and pay when they start working. Even the poorest girls will go out on a date with you and pay for what they eat so why this parasitic HELP me attitude?
The truth is if you do not have the cash you cannot afford it so go and learn a trade or get a job. It is morally and spiritually wrong to expect something for nothing and then call that HELP

Look my brother, it doesn't matter how much you earn or make monthly, it doesn't matter the number of family members you cater for if you have the capacity to help as many people as you wish.

What matters is ur willingness and enablement without strings attached, See I've done it several times without asking for anything in return regardless my monthly responsibilities, why, because I have the capacity to do it at that point in time.

But you know it isn't a sin to ask for help when you're in need, in this case the man offered to help her and not the other way round.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by dBard: 5:37am On Jan 03, 2016
doveda:

You need to have your brain examined!


Its Sunday...Am sure ur going to church, it being the first and all..make good use of the opportunity and pray/anoint yourself to receive sense.........


And Grace to control the long throat.....


Agbaya.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by omonnakoda: 5:38am On Jan 03, 2016
mradjoy:
Look my brother, it doesn't matter how much you earn or make monthly, it doesn't matter the number of family members you cater for if you have the capacity to help as many people as you wish.

What matters is ur willingness and enablement without strings attached, See I've done it several times without asking for anything in return regardless my monthly responsibilities, why, because I have the capacity to do it at that point in time.

But you know it isn't a sin to ask for help when you're in need, in this case the man offered to help her and not the other way round.
He did not offer to "help" he made a proposition and she is twisting it. He offered her an ashawo proposition which she is free to turn down .That kind of thing happens every minute and all she need do is say no ,does that make her Mother Theresa. She is coming here with this tale suggesting he should HELP her and my issue is why? The fact that she expects such help makes me question her inner person. Anyway my definition of help is different from yours. I do not think it is help to give people money fr nothing everyone is in "NEED" of something so all that sermon is meaningless. Helping people is not giving them fish but teaching them to fish. Where will the next rent come from? Giving this sort of money only helps to cement the wrong kind of attitude and expectancy of life.
There is no shortage of people to help in hospitals who cannot pay their bills not lazy girls looking for an undeserved windfall
The fact that you give money away does not make you better than those who do not not one single bit!! So please spare us the pontification.
I raise the question because of affordability. How many Nigerians can afford such.She just said her mum cannot. What sort of job is this guy doing to pay for rent for another person. Her description did not suggest a person swimming in cash

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by dBard: 5:47am On Jan 03, 2016
omonnakoda:
Please stop misusing the word; HELP

It is only in Nigeria I see this . This is not help. Help is pushing a car or changing a tyre not giving someone the equivalent of several months salary for NOTHING. Only a thief will accept such in the name of help. yes it may be immoral to demand sex but it is immoral to receive such money and not think deeply.

Where does he get the money?
How much is his salary?
Does he not have responsibilities and family.wife kids mother father brother sister etc No one left in his family to help that he will be helping someone he does not know and she too will accept if he gives her?

Working class families in the so called developed world will not give their kids such money they will have to borrow it and pay when they start working. Even the poorest girls will go out on a date with you and pay for what they eat so why this parasitic HELP me attitude?
The truth is if you do not have the cash you cannot afford it so go and learn a trade or get a job. It is morally and spiritually wrong to expect something for nothing and then call that HELP


Don't mind them bro...
Nigerians have gotten so used to this awoof mentality they don't bother to stop to reason.
Girls go on dates without even 'vex' money or not considering the guy they're chopping isn't known to them from Adam..
Peeps be jumping into cars that stop f them on the road not caring..
or RECEIVING HANDOUTS FROM TOTAL STRANGERS claiming favour

It's even courteous to first seemingly reject the offer, in case the person was just bin polite.

Anyway, it seems common sense traveled sometime ago n left his younger cousin home cos peeps now seem completely bereft of it.



To cut a long story short; Ppl, CONTROL UR LONG THROAT
Shikena.

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by omonnakoda: 5:56am On Jan 03, 2016
dBard:


Don't mind them bro...
Nigerians have gotten so used to this awoof mentality they don't bother to stop to reason.
Girls go on dates without even 'vex' money or not considering the guy they're chopping isn't known to them from Adam..
Peeps be jumping into cars that stop f them on the road not caring..
or RECEIVING HANDOUTS FROM TOTAL STRANGERS claiming favour

It's even courteous to first seemingly reject the offer, in case the person was just bin polite.

Anyway, it seems common sense traveled sometime ago n left his younger cousin home cos peeps now seem completely bereft of it.



To cut a long story short; Ppl, CONTROL UR LONG THROAT
Shikena.

It all comes down to poverty.If you check the background of people who reason that way they grew up on food cooked with Karosin ,too much of which can be harmful to the brain. Where is the dignity? Someone will come and pay my rent and I will accept that with no shame ,no sense of personal failure but even more shocking is a sense of entitlement?
We really have got thinks back to front in Nigeria

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by gulfer: 6:03am On Jan 03, 2016
And you barely know him but you are asking him of money or you agreed for him to help you.

Face your studies and leave men alone.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by vexing(m): 6:03am On Jan 03, 2016
reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...
Don't be disappointed. You expected a guy you just met a month ago to pay your house rent when he is not your brother, boyfriend or father and you don't expect him to ask for something in return. You must be one hell of dull lady. Smh

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by marleyboy1991: 6:11am On Jan 03, 2016
reminiscing:


Why would I want to use the guy?I just think he wants to play smart by trying to act on the fact that I really need a to pay for my Hostel accommodation fee.I never asked him for it in the first place,he offered to give me the money when I told him that I had payed my fees and internship fee with my Accomdation fees left

I smell lies, watch out lil b
Leave the trash for lawman
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by dBard: 6:13am On Jan 03, 2016
omonnakoda:


It all comes down to poverty.If you check the background of people who reason that way they grew up on food cooked with Karosin ,too much of which can be harmful to the brain. Where is the dignity? Someone will come and pay my rent and I will accept that with no shame ,no sense of personal failure but even more shocking is a sense of entitlement?
We really have got thinks back to front in Nigeria

Lol@ sense of entitlement..the type that'll warrant the opening of a thread such as dis..
Issorait.

Glad dre are still peeps like miss spicy that commented earlier.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by kaziblake(f): 6:31am On Jan 03, 2016
That the reigning things with guys now,i was also surprised when someone offered to pay my school fees cause I barely know him,his brother introduced me to him.
I was happy,i thought manna already came from heaven.
When I called him to ask of the money,he gave me hotel description,i ask him,hotel for what?he told me if I needed the money I shld come dere,that was how I left him.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by omonnakoda: 6:35am On Jan 03, 2016
karosin people
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by duplexDan(m): 7:07am On Jan 03, 2016
Word is U've always had a way of paying Up for ur accomodation b4 this guy... So except U want to really sleep with him, i would advice U just chill Oluwa will provide...
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by Nobody: 7:31am On Jan 03, 2016
mradjoy:
I will do so ten times over if I have the capacity to do so without looking back, I have power to control what I do and what I don't want to do.

I am definitely different from some guys who would want to sample everything inside the skirt.

What if he is single and loves her for keep ?

Why judge ?
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by olaniyijulius: 7:34am On Jan 03, 2016
No free thing in freetown
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by Emeskhalifa(m): 7:40am On Jan 03, 2016
mradjoy:
So you can't help a lady if you have the power to do so without bleeping her? Naija guys this isn't too good brother.
even if a guy has d intent to help, bros wen u consider d character of our naija girls eh, u wont help. help them without askin for s.ex and see how they (ladies) will tag u as mugu. infact wan go even call u m.u.m.u sef.
so u see.....dat tit for tat is d best
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by Consula: 7:41am On Jan 03, 2016
So u were telling him dat that his is ur uncle or fada Or he is now the "listener" in Sword of truth series abi #smh
reminiscing:


Why would I want to use the guy?I just think he wants to play smart by trying to act on the fact that I really need a to pay for my Hostel accommodation fee.I never asked him for it in the first place,he offered to give me the money when I told him that I had payed my fees and internship fee with my Accomdation fees left
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by doveda: 7:50am On Jan 03, 2016
dBard:


Its Sunday...Am sure ur going to church, it being the first and all..make good use of the opportunity and pray/anoint yourself to receive sense.........


And Grace to control the long throat.....


Agbaya.

Ode!
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by CuteEmma(f): 7:53am On Jan 03, 2016
reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...
So what?

You had better change your mind and fück him, before he finds someone who would give him... For Free cheesy
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by doveda: 7:57am On Jan 03, 2016
Odunharry:
doveda and manie nice one..
Oga manie I Lik ur maturity and doveda I'm happy you apologized.

Doveda will advice never to use any foul word on anybody here evn offline..Trust me it's a very dirty,ill mannered and repulsive attitude.
However, I must commend you for the apologies.

I don't use foul words offline, except in my mind

i am going to attribute it to the fact that I have never had the opportunity to be in the midst of scums.

I do not see these people as humans. Neither do I see them as humans. Therefore it is hard for me to treat them and consider them as humans not to mention respecting them or arguing with them civilly. I wish all of them the very worst! I wish God collect a arm and a leg for every favour he has bestowed and he will continue to bestow on them!

Aren't these the same morons that would call her ho.es, reduce her to nothing if she had opened another thread explaining how she had fvcked a total stranger for her accommodation fees? They deserve everything I have given to them and so much more. They are nothing but hypocrites.


I am sorry but my conviction to treat them as scums is stronger than my will to accept your advice. Nonetheless I agree with you and i will try to lipsrsealed

I am still fining it very hard to believe this
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by john650(m): 8:02am On Jan 03, 2016
reminiscing:

Thanks a lot.I was very shocked that he barely knows me and he is asking for sex
If he barely knows you, why are you pained that he won't pay your hostel fee? Strangers just don't hand out money to people they don't know well.
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by doveda: 8:04am On Jan 03, 2016
beeserious:


Please Lady Doveda control yourself.U can make your point without abuses you know.
So you think its ok for a girl to ask a practical stranger, a man,for money and for him to just give her just like that.When we were little,our parents beat us if they even heard that we begged for food from our classmates or worse, asked a stranger for money.
This scenario is no better. Thank you

It seems most of you do not know the type of person i am

I don't ask people for help!

My parents have always been able to provide EVERYTHING FOR ME right from the day I was born till date. I thank God for that!

I have always been the one offering help to others not the other way round. So you cannot lecture me about who or who not to collect money from

He bloody offered to help! even if he didn't, and she asked. It does not make what he is asking for right no matter how hard you try to rationalise it.

The lessons we received when we were young, were meant to guide us during the course of our lives not to stop us from acting humanly.

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by Rexnegro(m): 8:09am On Jan 03, 2016
reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...
until our girls/ladies understand that life is a give and take the better for Them ,u don't take without giving in life...for some guys/men they expect You to show gratitude/appreciation by gracing their joystick when they render any sort of assistance especially financially ... our girls should try not to always depend on guys for anything, they did be respected And wanted by serious guys.

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Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by doveda: 8:09am On Jan 03, 2016
Emeskhalifa:

even if a guy has d intent to help, bros wen u consider d character of our naija girls eh, u wont help. help them without askin for s.ex and see how they (ladies) will tag u as mugu. infact wan go even call u m.u.m.u sef.
so u see.....dat tit for tat is d best

I pray every person you meet in your life henceforth will consider what a typical Nigerian will say before helping you out grin
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by Nobody: 8:09am On Jan 03, 2016
Hopeless generation
Re: He Wants Me To Grace His Bed For My Fee by doveda: 8:10am On Jan 03, 2016
vexing:

Don't be disappointed. You expected a guy you just met a month ago to pay your house rent when he is not your brother, boyfriend or father and you don't expect him to ask for something in return. You must be one hell of dull lady. Smh

You must be one hell of a pauper

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