Cesclxg:

U sud consider the girl lucky that the man considers sex with her to be worth the accommodation fee.... Some of these hostel fees can go as high as #100k. I really think it is a good bargain. Just my 2 cents

reminiscing:

Thanks a lot.I was very shocked that he barely knows me and he is asking for sex

manie:
Apology accepted, you have earned my respect through your act of humility.

armadeo:



From an economic stand point. Indecent proposal comes to mind.

Btw your logic made me laugh.

Guys should free the baby parrot chirping up and down. Logic cannot be understood by the illogical.

In my opinion an offer was made and it was refused. Case closed.

efficiencie:


Mehn words define the man...if you cannot use words to get what you want in this world then i wonder what you will get...Its not hard bro, you meet a lady and ask, ''lady, you look hot and would not mind a taste'' and if she's into the crap your asking for she'll give to you, live and if not you te si waju...but using money to coerce a lady is not the mark of a man...

dBard:
Takes a particular character/personality for someone to accept an offer from a TOTAL stranger to pay for an accommodation that she'll stay in without batting an eyelid and yet come afterwards with the same self righteous hypocritical bullcrap..

Issorait.

P.s..Next time, politely reject. It's d honourable tin to do.


Nonsense and ingredients

Brugge:


My dear, I hope you get to read this and I hope you take it in good spirit. I don't feel bad for you neither do I have any reason to judge or condemn the guy.

Time and time our girls and youth in general has refused to learn. I know things are hard but please always make your plans according to your budget, in that way you won't find yourself in a situation like this.

Some people are going to call for my head for not knowing the full story but based on experience and cases we have seen and heard over and over again, most Nigerian youths do not plan according to their budgets. Our youth are in the habit of planing according to 'God-will-provide' budget. It is high time we stop such as not to expose oneself to pervs preying around looking of someone to prey on.

I hope that you learn from this and going forward start making plans based on what you and your parents can really afford.

jusRadical:



And you barely know him but you are asking him of money or you agreed for him to help you.


Face your studies and leave men alone.

safarigirl:
you and efficiencie are the only sensible people here.

Everyone saying what the guy did is OK is morally bankrupt. If God asked every human being for a piece of their humanity everytime He helped, what would be left of us.

There is nothing worse than taking advantage of a person at his or her time of desperation, it is the most disgusting thing anyone can do.

He offered, she did not ask. I have confided in many people who I barely know when I'm in need, but thank God I look more like Simi than Toolz, else, the serpents of the world would have bitten
me


I have never been so down that I accepted an offer from a guy I couldn't afford to pay back. I'm blessed enough that even when I have nothing, I pull through without demeaning myself for someone's change and I pray one day, I can help enough disadvantaged people to raise their heads even when they are down.



Shameless people everywhere

Tallesty1:
But you were not shocked when someone that barely knows you willingly offered to give you money?


Truth is, two of are the same thing.

You want to use love to enjoy the money you didn't work for and he wants to use money to enjoy your body.

It is a win win for you.

You both will enjoy the sex and he will still give you money.

Verdict! You two are compatible and must marry each other.

Cesclxg:

Don't blame the guy... The heart wants what the heart wants... Sometimes desire clouds one's judgement.

doveda:


It is going to happen to your daughter

JOESAJIB:

WOMEN AND MONEY. MEN AND SEX. NAWAOOOOOOOOO!
This is what we call TIT FOR TAT

armadeo:


The kudos would be on me to prepare her with enough sense and morals to be able to make good decisions and not depend on handouts from anybody.

What you fail to understand is that propositions are made everyday it's up to you to rationalize it for either 'aye' or 'nay'.

Bank loans
Job seekers
Promotions
Admissions.

The world ain't fair understand that you'll probably survive.

jusRadical:



And you barely know him but you are asking him of money or you agreed for him to help you.


Face your studies and leave men alone.

doveda:


I am literally boiling right now

I swear to God I had no idea that some Nigerian men are this low.

I am shocked!

armadeo:


The kudos would be on me to prepare her with enough sense and morals to be able to make good decisions and not depend on handouts from anybody.

What you fail to understand is that propositions are made everyday it's up to you to rationalize it for either 'aye' or 'nay'.

Bank loans
Job seekers
Promotions
Admissions.

The world ain't fair understand that you'll probably survive.

safarigirl:
struggle to provide her with money and connections. Sense and morals no dey feed pesin.

Many morally sound people have fallen to the hardship of life and malicious ways of men. No be by sense and morals. Tomorrow when women want hard working men that can provide, your likes will call them gold diggers

reminiscing:


Why would I want to use the guy?I just think he wants to play smart by trying to act on the fact that I really need a to pay for my Hostel accommodation fee.I never asked him for it in the first place,he offered to give me the money when I told him that I had payed my fees and internship fee with my Accomdation fees left

doveda:


Yeah

He will soon for his fvck his daughter because ‘desire clouds judgement'

doveda:


Yeah

He will soon for his fvck his daughter because ‘desire clouds judgement'

reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...

slap1:
From the little you posted, I can surmise you also want to use the guy the same way he wants to use you.

Ravenwolf:


Who made you the repository of manliness

If I do not share your perspective and leaning on the achievement of Sexual intimacy and satisfaction it does not make me less of a man. It simply makes me a different individual from you. You make the reprehensible mistake of assuming everyone shares your belief set.

If I offer money to a lady in exchange for sex, it is up to her to accept or not. I am not lost to the fact that it is not every girl you try to use money to attract.... Any girl I try to use money to get must have in some way put herself in that position.

reminiscing:
I have really suffered o.A guy who happens to b a manager of a printing press that offered to assist me with my hostel Accommodation payment stopped picking my calls last week because I have refused to sleep with him.He said he loved me and all he is making for is for me to allow him sleep with him and he will give me the money he promised.I was surprised wen he promised to help with the payment because I met him last month and now imagine the Option he gave.I feel really disappointed....I wonder where our generation is headed for...

reminiscing:

Thanks a lot.I was very shocked that he barely knows me and he is asking for sex

reminiscing:
We are all entitled to speak free but learn not to judge others.I have gone through almost all the comments and I've read a lot of things,most people calling me a beggar,greedy,and a gold digger.Well,i 'm not upset because life situations has a way of bringing tears or joy to the face of people.I am not the kind that beg for money,I was taught to be self dependent and that is why I can't ask people for money.
Most of you want me to pour out all d details of my family for you to understand my predicament but I only had the intention of coming here to express my feelings.You can judge me all you want if that will make you feel better but have it in mind that most times things happen for a reason.
Polite12 ,the fact that I had sex one time doesnt mean that I still languish in it.I am not better than prostitutes but I can't trade my body for 40k.

xpac01:

Daughter of God, even as I wish not to be supporting the man's lustful intention but now I'll like you think, if you're the one, do you think you could have just easily flinged your cash to someone you've barely known and not even sure of a future with her
Please I'll like you to see the man as simply natural human and seek for help from somewhere else.
PS: thinking from the shoes, why not promise him a pay back financially or promise him to be good female friend ever. Just create a deeper attachment this can work prolly.

slap1:
How much are you supposed to sleep with him for? Why does he have to give you the money? From the little you posted, I can surmise you also want to use the guy the same way he wants to use you.

Call Mesut Özil.