Trying to choose the sex of your baby, boy or girl, is a very old practice. Old customs were centered around the woman, because it was not understood that the determination really lay with the man. Though as wisdom grew, the practices changed to include men in the process of deciding, but the methods were still really out there, like tying up one testicle, believing that boys had one side, girls the other; sleeping with certain objects under the bed to influence the sex of the baby; or even medicines and poultices of odd combination including animal feces. The desire to choose the sex was that strong.

Today's desire is just as strong. In fact some places report that up to 90% of people would choose the sex of their baby if it were easier. The biggest change in the minds of sex selection is that girls are a high priority in some locations now, previously there was a high need for a boy. In fact, in some countries they still have very high preferences for boys. There are even places that have banned ultrasound determination of the sex of a baby to prevent sex selection via termination.

How Sex Selection Works

Each parent contributes half of a baby's genetic make up. The female or mother is genetically an XX, so she is only able to contribute an X to the future baby. The father of the baby is XY and can contribute either an X or a Y. This means that sperm is the deciding factor in how your baby's sex is determined.

Over 200 million sperm are ejaculated into the vagina during intercourse, a mixture of X and Y. Most likely only one will be the one to penetrate the ovum.

Shettles Method

Dr. Landrum Shettles is known for his popular book on how to use low tech ways to conceive a baby of a particular sex, but particularly baby girls. Though the method can be used for a girl or a boy. The theory behind this method for having a baby boy is that Y bearing sperm are faster but die more quickly. This means that by the time the egg is released you should have no sperm near the egg and quickly have intercourse to have the biggest concentration of Y bearing sperm. The basics are as follows:

    * First you must know your menstrual cycle and chart it using your basal body temperature (BBT) charts.
    * Once you have done this for a few months you can more accurately pinpoint ovulation.
    * Men should avoid ejaculation for 4-5 days before ovulation.
    * Your goal would be to time sexual intercourse about 12 hours prior to ovulation, based on your basal body temperatures, or other methods.
    * Use positions to place the sperm as close to the cervix as possible, including rear entry positions.
    * Females should have an orgasm to help move the sperm towards the egg.

doesnt matter if its boy or girl. . .a child is a blessing

thank you!



so everything else leads to a girl, right?

i do wonder if anyone has tried this and what were the results.

tpiah:

thank you!



so everything else leads to a girl, right?

i do wonder if anyone has tried this and what were the results.

i was reading a review of the doctors book and saw how ppl were saying it worked for them and others say it didn't work, it could all have been a coincidence for all i care. they did the crap and coincidentally they had a boy or girl which they were destined to have anyways and they attributed it to this crap they did.  i don't believe this gibberish either do i buy the crap loads of bs if u ask me.

@tpiah

The opposite doesnt really follow for female child conception. You can read more about that and much more by visiting the site all about women issues mention below.

@ Sissy

A trial will convince you!

what is the essence of this write up? nobofy van dtermine the sex of a baby before hand. stop deceiving people and giving them false hope.

yemibabe4:


@ Sissy

A trial will convince you!

no need to try cox i personally dont believe this BS.

God uses the little things of this world to convince the wise.
Who are u to determine the sex of a child except God has hand in it
Every child is a blessing. there are some female child that are better off than a male child tis days

Thank you all for your responses which is highly appreciated.

Even has we all know that every child is a blessing,statistics have shown that some of we women silently wish for one particular gender over the other especially women who already have all female children praying for a male child or all male children praying for a female child.

This write up is just for enlightnment purpose because i still believe that Man proposes but God disposes.

@OP
Your thread is too sexist.it should have read "How to determine the sex of your baby".
That way,you leave the door open for readers to make their choice/s

this topic is for the dity nigerian man who is insane of having male child

To conceive a baby boy or girl,the parent will come together to agree on the sex of the child before sexsual intercause.

It,tte,best,easiest,understandable

Is God that determines the sex of baby? Whether girl or boy. We should give thanks to God, he give us. Some doesn’t have any at all.

Girl or boy, just be grateful.

nice one ibkaye, may u have twins amen

Hi all,

Read more interesting articles at the site below.

Forget the gender of your child - the child in itself is the best gift you have.

Why manipulate the helpless beautiful child, boy or girl, who is totally dependent upon you and treats you as the next God? Oh no, be a human, and be a human.
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Forget the gender of your child - the child in itself is the best gift you have.

Why manipulate the helpless beautiful child, boy or girl, who is totally dependent upon you and treats you as the next God? Oh no, be a human, and be a human.
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Why is the gender an issue in Nigeria

The opposite doesnt really follow for female child conception. i got this link from google
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Well its true dat only God gives but d reality is dat most men, especially African n even Whites sometimes prefer a boy not because they hate girls but because only a boy can continue to carry their name n keep their legacy going. In d eastern nigeria, it is called Afamefuna ie my name shld not b lost cuz girls marry n leave d home bearin their husband's names but boys wil always remain at home.so poster is correct n lots of homes will remain intact wit dis information by d special grace of God

coolviv: Well its true dat only God gives but d reality is dat most men, especially African n even Whites sometimes prefer a boy not because they hate girls but because only a boy can continue to carry their name n keep their legacy going. In d eastern nigeria, it is called Afamefuna ie my name shld not b lost cuz girls marry n leave d home bearin their husband's names but boys wil always remain at home.so poster is correct n lots of homes will remain intact wit dis information by d special grace of God

Na true talkoo0 buh in this civilized world, females can inherit and still take care of their father's property without any stress.

tpiah: thank you!



so everything else leads to a girl, right?

i do wonder if anyone has tried this and what were the results.

Me I tried it&it didn't work 4me.2 of my other frnds tried it&it didn't work 4dem.My sister tried it&it worked 4her.Don't knw if its science dat worked 4my sister or God but bottomline is;wen u tel God u hav an alternative 2him;he'l show u his power.If anyone wants a particular sex;pray abt it then use faith&buy baby cloths 4dat particular sex u want&God wil surprice u.

dyoung: To conceive a baby boy or girl,the parent will come together to agree on the sex of the child before sexsual intercause.

hmm, interesting.

any testimonials, feedback, etc?

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