C2H5OH:

oyin, when was the lst time you had suya? i'm eating some suya right now and i almost forgot how good it tastes.

C2H5OH:

oyin, when was the lst time you had suya? i'm eating some suya right now and i almost forgot how good it tastes.

oyinda.:

same age range, knack for creating romance topics, and worst of all, you are both MUSHYYYYYYYYY  
if you start paining your posts (brown will complement the teal), you would be just perfect for each other.

SeanT21:

OYINDA and C2H5OH

GET A ROOM ALREADY!!

oyinda.:

who gave you suya? haha pls don't spoil the girl's thread

Diva1:


When was the last time I ate suya? sighs,  can you mail some here?

SeanT21:

Jealous?

I already own U.I am leasing U to Oyinda for 3 nairas an hour!!!

SeanT21:

Jealous?

I already own U.I am leasing U to Oyinda for 3 nairas an hour!!!

oyinda.:

lol ok then i don't feel as jealous. I really thought you were having suya. it must be bad if you're making it yourself

wow that's dirt cheap rate. you are not profit conscious at all. smh

SeanT21:

C2H5OH is not that worth it!!!

C2H5OH:

What the    Why am I being pawned off like property 

SeanT21:

C2H5OH is not that worth it!!!

oyinda.:

if sean is leasing you to me for 3naira/hr I wonder how much topup or diva will charge. lol it won't be in sean's interest to do that so pls rule it out. srry

oyb:

i have been told that one of the ways to get under the skin of a gal you are toasting is to focus your attentions somewhere else

And then when you bring your attention back to your original focus point, you'll only find an insect there because the object of your desire has walked away.
Some guys seem to forget that if you see something and you like it or think of it as very desirable, others are seeing it as well.

spikedcylinder:

And then when you bring your attention back to your original focus point, you'll only find an insect there because the object of your desire has walked away.
Some guys seem to forget that if you see something and you like it or think of it as very desirable, others are seeing it as well.

spikedcylinder:

Your "two different chicks" are confused beings. What do they know anyway? They are just chicks.

of course, it has also[b] been said (by women for that matter ) that you cannot understand women,[/b] so its more of an artform than a science

topup:


One guy in particular has been flirting with me on and off for the past year. . .

. . . so of course I get the impression that he has a crush on me (he occasionally tells me I'm beautiful and compliments me too).

topup:


However, in this discussion he admitted that he found my friend's figure to be incredibly sexy, she's slimmer than me, more toned, and has large breasts, however her appearance is more slim than curvy. He reiterated that he liked her look because she appeared very flexible (LOL kinky guy).

topup:

I was shy, and unsure if he was being serious because of the fact that he was flirty with every one too.

topup:


When he's tipsy he can be very flirty, but I'm usually just grateful when he compliments me, and I return the favour. My usual response is to just say thankyou, nothing more, it takes more than compliments for me to fall head over heels.

topup:


it's just made me wonder if it's possible to really like someone but then like their friend's body more.

topup:


He was never consistent with the signals either.

topup:


This guy has sent me numerous signals, but we've mostly been out of sync, when I was willing to reciprocate, he would be more focused on the 'single life' and dancing with random girls on the dancefloor and chatting up girls and collecting numbers, and when I lose interest, he compliments me about being beautiful and being too good for my ex. He wanted me to break up with my ex and he did give me the vibe he was really interested, but when it came down to it, he didn't initiate anything.

topup:

It wasn't just me who was dwindling.

topup:

Who knows maybe he actually has no idea of how I feel. . does that matter though?

I know most confident guys would chase the girl of their dreams, and maybe others wait for encouragement, but really, I don't feel to encourage someone who seems to lack focus. I don't want to pick him, I want him to pick me.

So, does that mean, if a guy likes you, he'll always like everything about you??

topup:

Can I just give a HUGE applause to the replies here, you guys have truly thought this through and some good and great advice here.

The situation thus so far,

Nothing, nada.

I know I tend to be vague when I'm describing certain things, and at times completely over-descriptive - and I'm usually like this because of paranoia, I think if I'm too specific, that I'm just a google search away from being found out - and the SHAME that would come from it .

Anyways, it's cool, nothing's happened, and I was probably bored to begin with. I think Feelitx you're very close, I believe I didn't encourage him at the time he may have had the most feelings for me and now, they've plataued.

As for everybody who asked questions about why he was admitting these things, we were playing a very immature game called 'Truth or Dare' .

You tend to think, once you're over 20, you can handle the game, or take it to the next level, but really, it's just as childish as it was back in primary school or whatever.

I have a very very interogative friend, she is more analytical than ME!! And she made it her mission to find out what the guy's thoughts were - mind you he had no clue that this was her intention as we all played. I admitted to her a couple of nights before that I had a crush on this guy, and in this game, she asked him to rate the girls in the room, and it wasn't who he was most attracted to like I mentioned earlier, it was infact, who he would have sex with (where I came third), who he'd like to kiss (where I came first) and who he'd like to marry (I also came first).

She asked more questions too.