betsy96:
TBH even if none of these is done boys will still be quick to tag one a love peddler

octopusfreaky:
nope,,i will just wait and pray for my man or change location to meet better guys...

PushMusic:

Nigerian guys are not that bad.
It's the empty barrels that sounds the loudest.

falconey:


5. Exposing body parts to entice another
lady's man


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7. Purposefully starving him of sex
because he didn't meet your financial
demands.



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octopusfreaky:
well,ive bn unlucky with Nigerian guys.

PushMusic:
You probably should work on yourself. Like minds attracts.

PinkBarbie:
Your number 2 though.

Suigeneris93:




You've been noticed

octopusfreaky:
i disagree ,opposite attracts

PinkBarbie:
Your number 2 though.

ronald4lif:
Nicely written but I have a reservation with number 7. It appears as though cheating is justified when a man cheat coz his wife 'deprives' him of sex.

Although could be true if the reason behind her withdrawal from sex is justifiable but not always the case. We can argue that sex is a conjugal duty of a married woman and thus must be performed at all times but it's also not an absolute right.

It is my believe that before a woman refuses to mate her hubby something is not right on his part. How does he treat her? Does he treats her like the love of his life? Entice her with surprises, pets her etc?

There are somethings that triggers romance and a woman should be treated nicely if you want her in the mood. It's not just a case of treating her with utter disregard and expect her to spread legs when you're sex-hungry.

Whatever led to her depriving a man of sex doesn't justify cheating, if they can't resolve it then they should consider moving on. And there are cases where men deprives women of sex too, should the woman cheats too?

emusmith:
You're generalizing. I am specializing. One major point about thread creation is specializing. I consciously wont hit all points to score a point. Thanks tho

PushMusic:

That's true but you also have to be like minded.
Being opposite is quite different from like mindedness.

mzvyne:
I disagree!

octopusfreaky:
enlighten me on "mindedness"

ronald4lif:


Ya true but it's also pertinent contributors like myself and others highlight other areas the original post didn't address. You know, it's possible that some might think it's alright to philander provided their wife deprives them of sex without finding out what could had propel her to do so. All good bruv.

PushMusic:

You both have same interests, you both think the same way. Same hobbies, ideologies, beliefs e.t.c.

octopusfreaky:
let us nt derail ds thread,i havent exhibited such traits the op stated above ,my only p is dat Nigerian guys are obsessed with physical attributes of a girl,,its sickening..

betsy96:
TBH even if none of these is done boys will still be quick to tag one a love peddler

PushMusic:
That's the mistake a lot of guys make.

octopusfreaky:
including you

dollyjoy:
Well said!

emusmith:
Mhizizzy, where you been?

Mhizizzy:


Nigeria o..lolz happy new year

MRBrownJ:
@emusmith we men must ALSO take responsibilities for the poor choices that we make....

2. Breaking up with boyfriend just because he's temporarily broke and later returning when he's rich.
it all depends on whether that foolish bf attracted this damzel with money, because if he did, then this lady has all the rights to leave if she doesnt get the requirements of that said r/ship. you cant catch a bee with honey and expect it to stay if there is NO more honey.

3. Sleeping with his friends to get at him or for lustful pleasure
this is called REVENGE, and if done once to get back at cheating bf, it cant/shouldnt be compared to love peddlers

4. Dating married men (for money)
s if the gal dates a married guy because he is "cute", will you still consider her a love peddler? and if the guy aint married, is that ok to date men for money?! be careful of what you are saying

5. Exposing body parts to entice another lady's man
ladies will always use what they have to get what they want... whether it be their brains, status or sex appeal. you cant blame women for the poor choices that these men will make.


6. Going diabolical to snatch a guy
being diabolical has nothing to do with being compared to a love peddler


7. Purposefully starving him of sex because he didn't meet your financial demands.
so a wife is considered a love peddler because she uses what she has to get what she wants!? you are a comedian.... let that man be in charge (for a change) and put clear rules/directives in his household

8. Sex-chatting with guys for money or airtime.
call them desperate, broke, cunning etc but they certainly cant be compared to love peddlers

Laveda:
That's not you..right? Or?

PinkBarbie:
It's me.