Story of a friend: I have a friend who had lived his life trying to keep his home in good shape. He gave his time to struggle with a lady he loved, along the line they had a child at their early twenties. He had many chances to return to school but he felt he needed to work so as to give his daughter and wife a better life . He had some chances of either traveling or return back to school but he felt he need to work and make sure his wife and daughter can be fine. They lived for long time together and a lot happened between those years, the lady left him all in the name of going back to school but all was just untrue as she had that time to roam with friends and he got to know she had a romance with her ex when she left home, now again she said she wants to go back to school and their 4yrs old child should be kept in the boarding house , she started showing some acts like flirting with a guy via phone and the guy felt she's up to something again. They both agreed on setting her up with business which she said it was ok as she believed she will never work under anyone. He had plans to travel with his wife and daughter but he's very scared this same woman will betray him. What do u think he should do ? Please boss lalasticlala help push to frontpage. Thanks

@OP, I sympathize with you because you made a wrong decision by not furthering your education. In the past 4 yrs, u would have had a degree at least and u will be making more money. And ur babe would have been loyal. Now its shop abi business you want to open. Smh.
You are still young probably 25 or 26, its still not late for that degree.

U don't beg pple 2 stay with u. He shud av simply moved on immediately she messed up d oda tym.its not late thou or 4 how does he intend 2 hold on to an insecure 'home'?