This happened last Christmas to an uncle of mine.
In the evening of that Christmas day, after the usual merriment and funfair of the day.. The wife was in the kitchen cooking their dinner, when her phone beeped, naturally he wouldn't touch her phone, but instinct told him to check who and what the beeped was. He guessed her phone password right, it was a whatsapp message, it was from a guy she once explained to him was her EX before they met 2 years ago (they have been married for 1year plus now) , after the usual festive greetings and all, his wife told him 'I miss you a lot, and no one has ever made me felt, the way you used to, how I wish we are still together' . Though the guy reply was LOL. Ever since, he has left home and hasn't returned home up till now, he has been staying with friends, he hasn't told his wife what he saw.. please what advice can we give to him coz he is considering divorce. They have a one year old son.

She came for the divorce first...

Dude should do her a favor...

Cc lalasticlala, seun and ishilove help to permanent site.

Both of them should sit down together and sort themselves out.

Adaure4ever:
Both of them should sit down together and sort themselves out.

You think it's that easy?
BTW love ur pm.

this one is strong

how did you know about the message.. ? your Uncle Told you...?

hmmmm it hurts am not married but had same xpirience on ma bae .... lyk seriously it hurts and here I dunt know wotta say .. but wot I did was cloud my memory with our fantasies that's all

Blanc8:
how did you know about the message.. ? your Uncle Told you...?

Yeah, he screen grabbed it nd sent it to his fone as evidence.

He should go back home, call his wife and tell her what he saw.


I'm not married so I can't advice

This one is really strong oooo

unilagfreshest:
This happened last Christmas to an uncle of mine.
In the evening of that Christmas day, after the usual merriment and funfair of the day.. The wife was in the kitchen cooking their dinner, when her phone beeped, naturally he wouldn't touch her phone, but instinct told him to check who and what the beeped was. He guessed her phone password right, it was a whatsapp message, it was from a guy she once explained to him was her EX before they met 2 years ago (they have been married for 1year plus now) , after the usual festive greetings and all, his wife told him 'I miss you a lot, and no one has ever made me felt, the way you used to, how I wish we are still together' . Though the guy reply was LOL. Ever since, he has left home and hasn't returned home up till now, he has been staying with friends, he hasn't told his wife what he saw.. please what advice can we give to him coz he is considering divorce. They have a one year old son.

....yo uncle want to divorce his wife coz another man call his wife phone?....how old is he?.. 14?... he is insecure.. Tell him I said he shod chill out & stay for his son sake!!

He prob hurt seeing his wife saying that on WhatsApp to another man. I don't blame him for leaving the house, can't trust her.

na so infidelity dey take start (even dd man dey laf ha). e even b like sey him wife no dey worried bout him whereabouts.
he shd return home and as ha "baby maka y" den tell ha hw much he nw distrusts her.
na lack of honest communication dey cause dis kyn shii

Lordgatt46:
This one is really strong oooo

Eleyi gidi gan oooo

That's a big blow to the man's pride!! Seriously,what kind of wife does that after marriage! If not for their child,I wud have advised him to go for a divorce!! But my advise is this: tell him to sit down n sort things out with his wife at least for the child's sake! Its very bad for a child at such a tender age to have divorced parents!! Please,consider the child

MrCork:



....yo uncle want to divorce his wife coz another man call his wife phone?....how old is he?.. 14?... he is insecure.. Tell him I said he shod chill out & stay for his son sake!!

Will advice u read d story once more nd den comment.

unilagfreshest:

Will advice u read d story once more nd den comment.

...u said your uncle was cryn be coz yor aunty divorce him be coz he had one child & another phone her to caht het up(read for last post)...
......bro yo uncle show weakness & insecurity.. how can a real man cry OVa a woman.. .. my advise....tell him to man up & find an OTHER woman..[REAL TALK]