Why do Nigerian Woman always pretend.

I have noticed that Nigerian women love to pretend when it comes to love.
A man would show their interest and the woman will spend years chasing the poor guy away, even though she is dying inside.
Then they will say SA woman are easy, we are not easy we just know what we want.

and what SA women want she gets,

Just a thought

Nigerian women pretend because they don't want to look cheap
you can't expect a woman to throw her self at a guy just because he promised to take care of her.
you have to pretend until you know how serious he is.
it's natural.

Well it is quite simple, to me.

First of all my husband and I knew each other from church and then we became Friends by mistake really and then from friends we became lovers and from lovers, we got married.

I feel that if you know who you are in life and know what you want a in life and trust your judgement and God you will never go wrong, there is really no need to pretend,

If you know who you are your presence and manner will always speak for itself no way you will be considered cheap if you know, that you love someone and you want to be with that person and you know that he is for real.

Unless you still are not sure of your judgement and trust in the Lord, simple really. I never said throw your self at the first man you see, but becareful, but do not play games, because games might play you some day.

cause most of them have got this general mentality that the longer it takes the more the guy would cherish them and they dont want the guy to think they are cheap

Not only in Nigeria its like that naturaly. Though some could still be bold enough to express their feelings. Any way i feel its because they want to taste your petience.

@ituno: it seems your tribalistic,where on earth do you get that from, that only Nigerian women pretend? Right from the creation of this Universe that how GOD made women to be,a real woman MUST have shyness in her because she still have her Golden Flower intact,thats the reason why Nigerian women still pretend cos they are not Prostitutes. They have the fear of God in them, and while a man is chasing them, they will be puting him in their prayers for God to come into the situation so they won't make the wrong choice.

I will advice you to stop attacking Nigeria women instead befriend them for it is for your benefit,both materially, spiritually,and other wise. Cheers

@ Billgatesfan, she didn't say 'only' Nigerians, she was just asking generally. She's probably only saying what she has experienced.

just tryin 2 be prefect it depends wat u mean pretend

Thanks for this topic.
I do not seee any reason why a lady cannot propose to a guy. They are human being like guys.

I beg don't leave the job only to guy.

If u see a nice guy feel free to him out and he will be very happy.

I think it's just silly pride

ThoniaSlim:

cause most of them have got this general mentality that the longer it takes the more the guy would cherish them and they don't want the guy to think they are cheap

I totally agree wit dis.

afolayangs:

Thanks for this topic.
I do not seee any reason why a lady cannot propose to a guy. They are human being like guys.

I beg don't leave the job only to guy.

If u see a nice guy feel free to him out and he will be very happy.

i feel you

The saying no of a girl to a man is like expossing him to search for more. this Nigerian woman don't know. No make me sickkkkkkkkkkk

Women can never win. Say yes at once, the guys say you are cheap. Say no, they say you are playing hard to get or are being difficult. Chat a guy up, you are almost regarded as a LovePeddler back in Naija. . . Best thing is ladies, do not be swayed, adopt a style that suits you best. Afterall, different strokes for different folks.

I'm with Sapphic on this one.

Just do you. Everyone should just be who they are. Afterall you want the person you marry to know the real you and vice versa.

Not all, it depends on the social circle you are .

Re: Why Do Nigerian Women Pretend
« #2 on: October 25, 2006, 06:58 PM »

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Well it is quite simple, to me.

First of all my husband and I knew each other from church and then we became Friends by mistake really and then from friends we became lovers and from lovers, we got married.

I feel that if you know who you are in life and know what you want a in life and trust your judgement and God you will never go wrong, there is really no need to pretend,

If you know who you are your presence and manner will always speak for itself no way you will be considered cheap if you know, that you love someone and you want to be with that person and you know that he is for real.

Unless you still are not sure of your judgement and trust in the Lord, simple really. I never said throw your self at the first man you see, but becareful, but do not play games, because games might play you some day.

, Ituno I think u r rite, its ok to be simple sincere and real!