Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering
who the focus of this post should be – girls or guys or both.
In almost every tertiary institution in Nigeria,you find
‘undergraduate couples’ living as husbands and wives. You
find a lot of these misguided people in virtually all schools.
It’s so bad that, often times,they are duly recognized and
acknowledged as couples by lodge neighbors, classmates
and even leaders of various students associations. Little
wonder there is such an award as “The best couple of the
year award” shamelessly and thoughtlessly received by
students..Like I said earlier, I really don’t know the particular
gender to address but let me just keep typing. The rate at
which girls live with their boyfriends in their various off
campus hostels is painfully alarming. Most times, these
young girls are very beautiful, with bright and promising
future. They cohabit with boys who are their fellow students
as roommates. The lugubrious part of it is that the silly girl
would always introduce the small boy as her fiancé..Our
society is really sick courtesy of those that live in it. These
girls collect either hostel fees or house rents from
unsuspecting (and sometimes, struggling) parents and end
up in the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for several
years to gain admission. Then you
suddenly became a prayer warrior posting and shouting
‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation. You fasted. You had one
prayer point filled with promises of your loyalty and
devotion to God if only He would answer your prayer. Now
that He has fulfilled His part by answering and granting you
admission, don’t you think He is expecting you to fulfill your
own part, to keep whatever promises you made to Him??.
Many of you just got admission and once you settle down
(especially from your second year), crazy thoughts will begin
to creep into your minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush
would have been over; If God didn’t capture you
(possibly through the various campus
fellowships), boys would have caught you. In my school we
even have an unrecognized, unregistered but well offered
course .
For d guys its a course that shouldn't be carried over. Soon,
they would persuade you to move in with them. Of course,
they’d give you one thousand reasons to make you give in to
their prodding..Before you agree to move in and live with a
boy on campus, consider the reason why you are in school
in the first place. What image would you be creating about
yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get pregnant for him as
is always the case, or will you resort to series of abortions
like many other girls before you? What advice will you give
your children in future concerning this kind of things? After
school, what next? Will the relationship really lead you
anywhere?.
This post is finally addressing the female folks. I didn’t plan
it that way. Maybe it’s because they are the worst hit by the
grave consequences of illicit sexual relationships. They are
the ones that turn out to be the sore losers in the end. They
call it school life but they don’t realize how idiotic they have
been till it’s too late. You are not in school to get married.
Part of the reasons why you are in school IS NOT to get the
husband-and-wife experience, to see what it feels like for the
boy to provide the money for food and for the girl to go to
the market for food stuffs and cook. That’s pure
misplacement of purpose!
One guy told me that he was practically learning how to be a caring and romantic husband. Such shameless! Then you
hear the girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are just
roommates”. Yet she commits countless abortions before
graduation..Yes, your admission has given you unlimited
freedom. Yes, your parents are not there to tell you what to
do or what not to do. There is even no blood relation
around, so there's no fear of someone reporting you. But
what about giving your womanhood respect and protecting
your dignity?
What about living in such a way as to have a positive story to
tell the next generation (including your children) without
your conscience pricking you?
What Goes Around Will Definitely Come
Around....
Y not exercise a moment of thorough thinking....#gbagam

now leme read

The timing of this post is apt.
Fellow NLers, pls let's be honest to ourselves and confess openly if we once live like the topic suggest.

This commentator is culprit.

Check like if true and share if you were upright.

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