Helloflife:
Please, i want you all to know i didn't date him for money or any other material gain but because i needed a soulmate at that point in time.


Lalasticlala please i need more valuable advice.

So you've exhausted the soulmate haircream?..nw you want another brand?

This harmattan is trying to be a hit,
back to back.

Sleep with his Friend and deliberately allow him to Catch you in the ACT ! Simple

By opening your mouth, am assuming u hv one

even jonathan be like...

All these where's ain't loyal at all!

Breakup sex. The sure fire way Breakup sex. The sure fire way

Helloflife:
Is it that none of you nairalanders have ever been in this situation before,i need advice and not insults.

I was in same situation years back. I'll advice u to break up with now before its too late. He is genuinely in love with you.

cruzita:
maybe she think say na nairabet wey she go enter try her luck better go tell am face to face or send am through letterbomb

lol, she fit try 9jabet then.

Amberon:
we have a very similar situation. My bf who happens to be my best friend persisted and disturbed me for years, I finally gave in but I don't love him one bit. The thing is that he's crazy about me, before we started dating we'd sleep over at each other's houses a couple of times but he never touched me nor asked for sex. up till this day, he hasn't asked me for sex.

he's cute, dresses very very very well, neat and treats me like an angel. I told him countlessly that I didn't love him and couldn't date him but he came back begging and vowed that he must marry me. He even told everyone that we're engaged....

Anyways I made a promise to stick with him even tho I don't love him, after all the one I used to love didn't treat me well.

PS: before someone starts saying sh!t, I'm not dating him for money. I know I won't fall in love again, so I gave in simply because he loves and cherishes me, he's purpose driven and has good qualities which so many men lack. he also advises me like a sister.

you are a confused woman. seek help

Amberon:
we have a very similar situation. My bf who happens to be my best friend persisted and disturbed me for years, I finally gave in but I don't love him one bit. The thing is that he's crazy about me, before we started dating we'd sleep over at each other's houses a couple of times but he never touched me nor asked for sex. up till this day, he hasn't asked me for sex.

he's cute, dresses very very very well, neat and treats me like an angel. I told him countlessly that I didn't love him and couldn't date him but he came back begging and vowed that he must marry me. He even told everyone that we're engaged....

Anyways I made a promise to stick with him even tho I don't love him, after all the one I used to love didn't treat me well.

PS: before someone starts saying sh!t, I'm not dating him for money. I know I won't fall in love again, so I gave in simply because he loves and cherishes me, he's purpose driven and has good qualities which so many men lack. he also advises me like a sister.

My God my father, I decree into this girl's life that you shall give her the strength beyond what is normal for her to love this guy d same way he loves her.
Anyways better take ur time 2 settle in with him cos so many ladies r out there praying & fasting for angels like the one u have in ur man. if a fast thinking girl lays her hands on him sorry is ur middle name and we will be waiting here on nairaland for you to open a new thread titled "HAD I KNOWN"

Helloflife:
Please, i want you all to know i didn't date him for money or any other material gain but because i needed a soulmate at that point in time.


Lalasticlala please i need more valuable advice.

A soul mate you needed & now you've gotten one...Don't complain.

Helloflife:

1. Take one of his sexy pictures.
2. Show your single friends.
3. Pick three who are interested in dating him.
4. Pass his number to them and tell them to set up a meeting.
5. If he keeps telling you about them and their advances keep encouraging him to go ahead with it that you don't mind the outcome.

Slowly but surely he'd understand and move on.
This method might backfire on you because seeing him with another girl would make you second guess yourself.

You would not take my advice and keep playing the victim looking for pity.

Helloflife:
We started dating last year november.
We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me.
Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him.
I've found out we have literally nothing in common.

Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him.
He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt.

Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel?

Simple!!! I'm sorry but I cannot tell you this in your presence. You are a nice person and I really appreciate the time we spent together. However, if I am not honest it will be bad. I like you as a person but I do not have feelings for you that can result in a long term relationship. I'm sorry and didn't mean to hurt you but hiding this truth from you is more painful than pretending. I hope you understand and hold no grudge. God bless you and hope we remain friends.

Helloflife:
We started dating last year november.
We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me.
Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him.
I've found out we have literally nothing in common.

Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him.
He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt.

Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel?

Nothing is more than being open minded.

Just take a bold step and open ya mouth wild and tell him.

I'm sure if he's a man like me he will understand.

i guess u've seen another thicker d1ck outside.
anyway,just call him and tell him u're done with the relationship.

if he's matured enough,he'll understand.

Helloflife:
We started dating last year november.
We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me.
Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him.
I've found out we have literally nothing in common.

Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him.
He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt.

Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel?

U wicked o!!!

tell him the truth.

End time question. Will he be the first that you will break up with? You know how u dey do am now and if u don't know my best advice if u don't want to break his heart is this "have sex with him and after round 1 tell him you want to break up" trust no heart breaking is involve in that one

SameMissclassy:


You didn't love him yet you still decided to date him and spend his money abi? You are a gold digging idiot.

Now you are coming here to ask us stupid questions okwa ya?

What a redundant moronic Ingrate!

Hawba .. Oga small small oo..

just d same way u told him u love him b4

How do I tell u that after clocking 30 u non go dey reason who u love again even if na capenter or dry cleaner u go fall inluv with am na this kind people go they find husband lata

Helloflife:
Is it that none of you nairalanders have ever been in this situation before,i need advice and not insults.

Be sincere with him.
Tell him that "we need to talk"; meet him and explain yourself as harmlessly as possible.
Do this on time; stop wasting his time.

Amberon:
we have a very similar situation. My bf who happens to be my best friend persisted and disturbed me for years, I finally gave in but I don't love him one bit. The thing is that he's crazy about me, before we started dating we'd sleep over at each other's houses a couple of times but he never touched me nor asked for sex. up till this day, he hasn't asked me for sex.

he's cute, dresses very very very well, neat and treats me like an angel. I told him countlessly that I didn't love him and couldn't date him but he came back begging and vowed that he must marry me. He even told everyone that we're engaged....

Anyways I made a promise to stick with him even tho I don't love him, after all the one I used to love didn't treat me well.

PS: before someone starts saying sh!t, I'm not dating him for money. I know I won't fall in love again, so I gave in simply because he loves and cherishes me, he's purpose driven and has good qualities which so many men lack. he also advises me like a sister.

After reading ur movie script , I felt sorry for the guy, I knelt down and begged God to forgive u for me,
U wicked!!!

Its realy [color=#990000][/color]true a woman can play u for life......... Never trust a woman o.....

cruzita:
maybe she think say na nairabet wey she go enter try her luck better go tell am face to face or send am through letterbomb

letterbomb ke, lmao

cruzita:
maybe she think say na nairabet wey she go enter try her luck better go tell am face to face or send am through letterbomb

letterbomb ke, lmao

[size=18pt]GUY was kissing and smooching BABE and as she was moaning he was asking if she loved him.
GUY: Do you like me?
BABE: No.
GUY: Do you love me?
BABE: No. I hate you.
GUY: ( goes to the kitchen and brings out a knife) Here, since you say you hate me, use this to attack me.
BABE: I was joking.[/size]

My own actual advice is that u should have a heart..... Atleast this once....

If u don't love him, tell him and end d relationship.... At dis point ur motive(s) for saying YES at first doesn't matter.
My advice- learn from dis and be meticulous when deciding in the future.

Dts bad oo.u cum mak d guy waste him resources on u.tel u dnt luv him heaven wunt fall.bt nemesis may catch up.

Helloflife:
We started dating last year november.
We haven't gone intimate yet and he doesn't even pressurize me.
Truth is, i don't love him, and i think i made a mistake accepting to date him.
I've found out we have literally nothing in common.

Throughout our relationship, i've never said the word "i love you" to him.
He called last night and asked me if i love him and i couldn't give a direct answer cause i didn't want him to get hurt.

Dear romancelanders, whats the best way i could tell him how i really feel?

you are the definition of WICKEDNESS...you agreed to date him at the start and you did not realize that you did not love him then. Now after a while it dawns on you that you did not love him. I wonder what love means nowadays! So your love is variable, evolutionary and unstable. Your love changes with times and season. It is ladies like you that encourage the bad tendencies in men, "to hit and run"!

My advice, the same way you agreed to date him, you should also let him know his fate. The same way you boldly accepted his offer, boldly tell him to his face that you do not need him. It is better you hurt him a little now that his bond with you is relatively weak that cheat of him eventually when his bond with you is strongest and you end up making a monster out of a good guy! A monster that many ladies like you come here to complain about...

essien253:
This harmattan is trying to be a hit,
back to back.

She came yesterday, and said she was feeling cold.
After two and half hours, she left feeling even hotter than summer with her valley still flowing with passion.
I love this weather in January.