A woman who spoke out about her rape on instagram has suffered a major backlash from her followers.
27-year-old activist, Amber Amour from New York, was in Cape Town, South Africa, to promote her “Stop Rape. Educate” campaign when she was raped by a stranger she shared a bathroom with.
Narrating her ordeal on instagram moments after she was rape, Amour said that she had been sick for two days, and when she was finally able to go out, she went to visit a friend at another hostel.
She met a man named Shakir, who was drunk, and made advances towards her. She revealed that she kissed him once, but she declined to take things further.
But things went south when Shakir invited her to take a shower with him in his room, she agreed, saying that the shower in her room at the hostel did not have hot water.Amour said she stayed at the scene of the crime to report to her instagram followers what she had just been through.
In a lengthy post, she said bathing with naked with a stranger isn’t an invitation for sex.
A lot of her followers went in on her, with some asking her to seek psychological help. She was undeterred and replied her detractors saying they are the reason rape survivors don’t tell their storiesIn her own words: “For those who wish to blame me or any other survivor out there, I want you to know that you are the very reason that I am brutally honest.
“I could have hidden details. I could have kept information to myself, but no. No matter what a person does, it is not an invitation for rape.
“It does not matter if I kissed him. It does not matter if he was drunk. It does not matter if I said yes to a shower, I never said that he could get violent with me. I never said he could make me bleed. I never said he could rape me,” she wrote on Instagram via her handle @Ambertheactivist
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The rapist remains a rapist....... He should be jailed

she only wanted to pass a message a cross

Smh...she better stop saying she's been raped coz that was a sex with consent...
This girl want attention & be popular on her IG...

benedictnsi:
The rapist remains at fault

No lady in this world can excape my wract inside 7ft by 7ft bathroom no matter how ugly she is

According to her posts,she has been raped several times

Is she crazy? That's why d police keep saying 70% of reported rape cases are not real rape. How can u bathe nakked b4 a stranger. Does she pray to have a hubby or a son who would see nakked beauty and won't feel agitated? If d stranger guy tries to toast her now, she go do shakara so tay d toasting go tire d guy. Now she freely presented what every man craves to see at d end of every toasting, why would he take d chance for granted.

You bath with a drunk stranger... Is she drunk as well,, even me as a guy won't bath with a sane female stranger.. A drunk guy is no different from a mad man, sorry lady you caused it

Sorry no cry again

yes she is right bathing nekkid with a man doesnt mean she wants sex BUT it sure sends the wrong signals to a guy you fully well know wants to fukc you.

i have a few questions though:
- if she really needed a bath and her own bathroom was out of service, why the need to bathe WITH HIM?!
- does she often bathe nekkid with drunk strangers?!
- what is she still doing there instead of reporting the guy to the proper authorities (if rape there was)?

her stoopidity is what led to this rape, and as much as the man should be punished for what he did, she should also take the blame for what happened.

Hahaha...
Na small she see

It's a very sad experience and partly her fault. How on earth can one see a complete stranger, kiss him, accept his invitation to his home and even bath unclad in his bathroom without real knowledge of him?

That's an invitation she shouldn't have made in the first place.

bettercreature:
No lady in this world can excape my wract inside 7ft by 7ft bathroom no matter how ugly she is

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And you call yourself "bettercreature" You b badcreature jor.....

benedictnsi:



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And you call yourself "bettercreature" You b badcreature jor.....

She is a serial rape victim,she has been raped tenths of times

Why would I be alone with a man I've turned his amorous advances, why . Not exonerating the man. On a second thought, he had been a gentleman, he may have won the lady's heart

This lady needs to be mentally checked. Seems she is going loko... The guy did NOTHING WRONG!!! She is the one that should be sued what's wrong with her! You met a guy saw that he was drunk i.e. Not in control of his senses, kissed him then he asked you to come take a bath with him naaaaked you agree and come back to say he raped you?! The bae needs formatting