Thinking about this topic, I’ve been wondering
who the focus of this post should be – girls or
guys or both.
In almost every tertiary institution in
Nigeria,you find ‘undergraduate couples’ living
as husbands and wives. You find a lot of
these misguided people in virtually all
schools. It’s so bad that, often times, they are
duly recognised and acknowledged as couples
by lodge neighbours, classmates and even
leaders of various students associations. Little
wonder there is such an award as “The best
couple of the year award” shamelessly and
thoughtlessly received by students..Like I said
earlier, I really don’t know the particular
gender to address but let me just keep typing.
The rate at which girls live with their
boyfriends in their various off campus hostels
is painfully alarming.
Most times, these young girls are very
beautiful, with bright and promising
future.They cohabit with boys who are their
fellow students as roommates. The lugubrious
part of it is that the silly girl would always
introduce the small boy as her fiancé..Our
society is really sick courtesy of those that live
in it. These girls collect either hostel fees or
house rents from unsuspecting (and
sometimes, struggling) parents and end up in
the house of a boy. You struggled possibly for
several years to gain admission. Then you
suddenly became a prayer warrior posting and
shouting ‘Amen’ at the slighted provocation.
You fasted. You had one prayer point filled
with promises of your loyalty and devotion to
God if only He would answer your prayer. Now
that He has fulfilled His part by answering
and granting you admission, don’t you think
He is expecting you to fulfill your own part, to
keep whatever promises you made to Him??.
Many of you just got admission and once you
settle down (especially from your second
year), crazy thoughts will begin to creep into
your minds. Yes by then, the heat of the rush
would have been over; If God didn’t capture
you (possibly through the various campus
fellowships), boys would have caught you. In
my school we even have an unrecognized,
unregistered but well offered course (Moz101.
moz, being the short form 4 Mozambique hall,
were fresh female students ar
accommodated). For d guys its a course that
shouldn't be carried over.
Soon, they would persuade you to move in
with them. Of course, they’d give you one
thousand reasons to make you give in to their
prodding..Before you agree to move in and live
with a boy on campus, consider the reason
why you are in school in the first place. What
image would you be creating about yourself?
Can this boy marry you in case you get
pregnant for him as is always the case, or will
you resort to series of abortions like many
other girls before you?
What advice will you give your children in
future concerning this kind of things? After
school, what next? Will the relationship really
lead you anywhere?.
This post is finally addressing the female
folks. I didn’t plan it that way. Maybe it’s
because they are the worst hit by the grave
consequences of illicit sexual relationships.
They are the ones that turn out to be the sore
losers in the end. They call it school life but
they don’t realize how idiotic they have been
till it’s too late. You are not in school to get
married. Part of the reasons why you are in
school IS NOT to get the husband-and-wife
experience, to see what it feels like for the boy
to provide the money for food and for the girl
to go to the market for food stuffs and cook.
That’s pure misplacement of purpose!
One guy told me that he was practically
learning how tobe a caring and romantic
husband. Such shameless! Then you hear the
girl say, “We are not doing anything, we are
just roommates”. Yet she commits countless
abortions before graduation..Yes, your
admission has given you unlimited freedom.
Yes, your parents are not there to tell you
what to do or what not to do. There is even no
blood relation around, so there's no fear of
someone reporting you.
But what about giving
your womanhood respect and protecting your
dignity?
What about living in such a way as to have a
positive story to tell the next generation
(including your children) without your
conscience pricking you?
What Goes Around Will Definately Comey
Around....
Y not exercise a moment of thorough
thinking....
These words are enough for the wise..

#real_kudos.. #happy Sunday.

nigerian student and there papa and mama in school eh, i still know some student couple that live together in a room, all they said is we are just roommate

seedorfg:
nigerian student and there papa and mama in school eh, i still know some student couple that live together in a room, all they said is we are just roommate

And they'll even complain to you when they have problems ... Like you should help resolve their differences .

#ah just laugh..

#lalasticlala pls do the needful... Let them know the truth