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Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:01am On Jan 11, 2016
Please ladies and gentlemen,
I have an introvert not really a friend though (but someone who needs urgent help)
she feels jealous of how others mix up in the society.
She feels depressed and is about committing suicide

Please is there any advice you can give to get her out of this miserable state?
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by INTROVERT(f): 8:04am On Jan 11, 2016
I now see the reason for that your comment...... I suggest you go to "Introverts lounge" and read up and you will learn introverts are the best.

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by delishpot: 8:05am On Jan 11, 2016
She should mix up
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:06am On Jan 11, 2016
delishpot:
She should mix up
she's finding it difficult mixing up coupled with the fact the she both unemployed and spends most of her time in one corner of the cyber space
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Mutuwa(m): 8:07am On Jan 11, 2016
foreveryours:
Please ladies and gentlemen,
I have an introvert who feels jealous of how others mix up in the society.
She feels depressed and is about committing suicide

Please is there advice you can give to get her out of this miserable state?

Not all introvents have a miserable life.Everyone has something,somewhere that makes up for his/her detachment from people and social life.Maybe she has not just met the right person or friend(s) to emancipate her from her inwards cell.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Ebubeslym(m): 8:08am On Jan 11, 2016
She's not really an introvert.
She may be suffering from inferiority complex.
Introverts enjoy their privacy to the utmost.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by dwen: 8:08am On Jan 11, 2016
INTROVERT:
I now see the reason for that your comment...... I suggest you go to "Introverts lounge" and read up and you will learn introverts are the best.
. being an introvert is not the best at all, is a weakness both in the work place and in marriage. quote me any where. I am write from experience.

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:09am On Jan 11, 2016
Introvert are the best...believe me. I wanna be intro sometimes to get some respect frm d people arround me
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by jaymejate: 8:09am On Jan 11, 2016
[size=16pt]It's not... Move close to any of us and you will know.
We prefer staying silent and not bothering anyone with our talks.
Make an introvert talk then you will pray to be one. [/size]

I have the ability to switch to an Extrovert also

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by delishpot: 8:11am On Jan 11, 2016
foreveryours:
she's finding it difficult mixing up coupled with the fact the she both unemployed and spends most of her time in one corner of the cyber space

She should get busy with something. Join a group in church or mosque, join a social group. If she really want to improve on her social rating
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Mutuwa(m): 8:12am On Jan 11, 2016
dwen:
. being an introvert is not the best at all, is a weakness both in the work place and in marriage. quote me any where. I am write from experience.

Not really true.I am introverted naturally.But am the man of the people,both within and outside my work area.You are welcome to find out,anyday,anytime.
I have been married for 9years now.doing perfectly well with two kids.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:12am On Jan 11, 2016
dwen:
. being an introvert is not the best at all, is a weakness both in the work place and in marriage. quote me any where. I am write from experience.
Nah Extrovets tends to be more weak....it doesnt mean they dont talk at all o. If u percieve them as weak then you are the one that's weak.

Ask ursef y r most bad guys introverts?
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by mzvyne(f): 8:16am On Jan 11, 2016
Mr Quote me anywhere, what will a world of only extroverts look like?
Abeg, we need both personalities to have a balanced environment, introverts have their strengths, its just that this person the op is talking about is letting her weakness get the better of her.

She should get help.

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by sayyid(m): 8:18am On Jan 11, 2016
well i guess shes a fake introvert. she myt also b suffering from inferiority complex. or mayb because of d unemployment issues mayb u shld sit her down n ask her d problem
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by AlPeter: 8:18am On Jan 11, 2016
INTROVERT:
I now see the reason for that your comment...... I suggest you go to "Introverts lounge" and read up and you will learn introverts are the best.
tag me to the lounge please
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by geesilver(m): 8:19am On Jan 11, 2016
Introvert wetin u do this people?
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:20am On Jan 11, 2016
Onijagidijagan:

Nah Extrovets tends to be more weak....it doesnt mean they dont talk at all o. If u percieve them as weak then you are the one that's weak.

Ask ursef y r most bad guys introverts?
That is what makes their lives miserable.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by sayyid(m): 8:20am On Jan 11, 2016
Onijagidijagan:
Introvert are the best...believe me. I wanna be intro sometimes to get some respect frm d people arround me
dat ur moniker tho
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by AlPeter: 8:20am On Jan 11, 2016
OP it's understandable what she id feeling. I wish I can get to know her, might be of help
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Mutuwa(m): 8:22am On Jan 11, 2016
mzvyne:
Mr Quote me anywhere, what will a world of only extroverts look like?
Abeg, we need both personalities to have a balanced environment, introverts have their strengths, its just that this person the op is talking about is letting her weakness get the better of her.

She should get help.

very true.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by obiorathesubtle: 8:23am On Jan 11, 2016
because they're intoverts and fated to die

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by dwen: 8:26am On Jan 11, 2016
Onijagidijagan:

Nah Extrovets tends to be more weak....it doesnt mean they dont talk at all o. If u percieve them as weak then you are the one that's weak.

Ask ursef y r most bad guys introverts?
. please don't mix it up. been introvert is different from calm, a calmness is a big plus. introverts die in silent. the bad guys in school are the calm ones.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by dwen: 8:28am On Jan 11, 2016
Mutuwa:


Not really true.I am introverted naturally.But am the man of the people,both within and outside my work area.You are welcome to find out,anyday,anytime.
I have been married for 9years now.doing perfectly well with two kids.
Bros, you are a calm person and not introvert. don't mix it up.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Horlawoomey(m): 8:33am On Jan 11, 2016
jaymejate:
[size=16pt]It's not... Move close to any of us and you will know.
We prefer staying silent and not bothering anyone with our talks.
Make an introvert talk then you will pray to be one. [/size]

I have the ability to switch to an Extrovert also

Just like me, I can always switch.

Each day will not pass without me looking forward to my time alone outside the whole noise up and down.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by AlPeter: 8:33am On Jan 11, 2016
dwen:
. please don't mix it up. been introvert is different from calm, a calmness is a big plus. introverts die in silent. the bad guys in school are the calm ones.
nope most of dem are introverts. Introverts can be deep, deadly, revengeful with a high level of calmness and have this ability/tendency to detach themselves from there surroundings and situations a character that makes it able to commit atrocities with little or no remorse.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:35am On Jan 11, 2016
dwen:
. please don't mix it up. been introvert is different from calm, a calmness is a big plus. introverts die in silent. the bad guys in school are the calm ones.
Intoverts simply means somone that talk less..doesnt matter if calm or no calm..we all have our weak point...there are extro..that are not calm too

D ones that dies in silence dat u mentioned gets to have better experience in relationships/dealing with people usually from age 30 and above...only if they never go into alcohol and drugs.
But the other becomes weakened as time goes on.
Trust me.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Ginaz(f): 8:40am On Jan 11, 2016
I'm an introvert and its simply amazing. I dont wanna be anything else we rock kiss

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by IamLEGEND1: 8:44am On Jan 11, 2016
ur friend is suffering from chronic depression.
her introvertedness is just a side effect
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Nobody: 8:45am On Jan 11, 2016
dwen:
. being an introvert is not the best at all, is a weakness both in the work place and in marriage. quote me any where. I am write from experience.
blame God and not them, being an introverts is not a weakness, introverts keeps secret more than extroverts, extroverts talks alot, am an introvert buh i mix up with people, even if i mix up, i will start the conversion if i get the wrong signal, i shutup and just keep listening
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Michizzy(f): 8:46am On Jan 11, 2016
I'm an Introvert, a chronic one at that. I made an extrovert my friend and she is gradually pulling me out of my closet .

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Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by jmoore(m): 9:02am On Jan 11, 2016
Hogwash!!! Mine ain't miserable.
Re: Why Is It That The Life Of An Introvert Is Always Miserable? by Mutuwa(m): 9:04am On Jan 11, 2016
dwen:
Bros, you are a calm person and not introvert. don't mix it up.

bros..I am me,and you are you..you don't know me,or my state of mind..don't get mix up by trying to be irremarkably predictive

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