Asalam aleikun brothers in nairaland, please i need an urgent advice regarding marriage. There is this girl that im hook with . im a muslim but i was not really a practical one when i we met. she is a christian though but she has always been there for me. Now that im a practical muslim, i realise we are not compartible religiously. But she is not the kind that can change her religious coz her dad is a pastor. Even though she insist that religion should not be a barrier. Now i dont know what to do coz it difficult for me to leave her, coz everyone will think otherwise. i have been to there house and her dad and mom know me as there inlaw to be. Please i need advice.

well a male muslim can marry a female christian or jew, but know that there will be barrier in the marriage in future

A wife is the person who brings up a child, d husband spend much of his time at work,

The question is will u like ur children be brought up in a christian culture/manner ?

If u die what happen to the children ? the same thing that happens to president obama is liable to happen to them

On the last day (judgement day) every parent will be interrogated d warefare of his children, wat wil u say ??

This is ridiculous. No one asked why EXACTLY should she change her religion for u?

So that u can marry 3 more and divorce her by saying it three times abi? . . . . .pathetic.

You must be pathetic, Noetic! Open your eyes and mind to learn what the thought of the poster is. He realises that there is a disconnect by religion. She is not likey to change. He on the other hand had just become "practical Muslim."

Abuzola advised thathe could marry her. Except that he should consider the future and his own mortality.

Where is thinking? Is there any reason for your outburst, if only you are thinking straight? NO! Now, think straight and dont respond to anyone else, except you are making sense!

Darn Christian fanatic!

i want to thank everyone who have advised rationally, except Naetic or what is his id? i can understand that marrying her will go a long way to affect the children in terms of their religion. But i dont want to be regarded as an ingrate. I'm in dilemma

lukesh56:

i want to thank everyone who have advised rationally, except Naetic or what is his id? i can understand that marrying her will go a long way to affect the children in terms of their religion. But i dont want to be regarded as an ingrate. I'm in dilemma

think wisely man

@lukesh56 Salam brother I feel u plight indeed because we have similar problems; i have a girl too and she's a xtain and i cant marry a xtain because statistics shows that xtain female dat convert to islam because of marriage tend to go back to their earlier religion after the demise of their husband. My xtain girl is a nice person but she's still a xtain and that's the fact, we have to choose between Love and religion, and I think the later holds sway.

lukesh56:

i want to thank everyone who have advised rationally, except Naetic or what is his id?  i can understand that marrying her will go a long way to affect the children in terms of their religion. But i dont want to be regarded as an ingrate. I'm in dilemma

are u educated at all?

this is the 21st century, both parents (male and female) have a say in the physical and spiritual life of their children, at least before the child matures.

why should a christian lady marry a fanatic, self righteous muslim who is not objective enough to know that religion is a personal thing? Another embarrassment to the islamic community.

olabowale:

You must be pathetic, Noetic! Open your eyes and mind to learn what the thought of the poster is. He realises that there is a disconnect by religion. She is not likey to change. He on the other hand had just become "practical Muslim."

Abuzola advised thathe could marry her. Except that he should consider the future and his own mortality.

Where is thinking? Is there any reason for your outburst, if only you are thinking straight? NO! Now, think straight and dont respond to anyone else, except you are making sense!

Darn Christian fanatic!

You are so "gifted" that I hardly make sense of ur posts any more. what are thou talking about?

lukesh56:

i want to thank everyone who have advised rationally, except Naetic or what is his id? i can understand that marrying her will go a long way to affect the children in terms of their religion. But i dont want to be regarded as an ingrate. I'm in dilemma

brother, you will not be the first person to face similar problem. Increase in your ibadah and equipped yourself more spiritually and put your trust in Allah. Allah would soften her mind for you and possibly she might accept Islam. If your love for Allah is in complete sincerity, then. have it mind to convert her leave her father being a pastor behind. This maybe a very challenging task which may require patient and a very high level of spirituality. You don't need to go off quickly just you now realize religious different after a long time of dating. Just try as much as possible to convert her and exercise patient. I believe if the girl is not for you, she will cut herself off from you.

I have several cases of brothers like that, also similar to it is the case of betrothed ladies in some part of Nigeria. JUst pray for guidance, Allah has promised to assist whoever is steadfast and assure trust in Him. May Almighty Allah guide you in your decision.

nap the girl sharp shrap
nap the girl sharp shrap
nap the girl sharp shrap

dont understand what you mean