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Should I Still Marry Him? by estrella(f): 2:23pm On Jun 19, 2009
Ive been going out with my fiance for five years now and things haven't been a bed of roses exactly.My fiance is still in school and I'm working.In reality,things have been challenging but we have both stuck together through thick and thin.we both plan to get married soon.I recently went to see a man of God concerning marriage to my fiance and was told that he isn't my husband.the thing is, this man of God is rarely wrong in the things that he says, I need advice about what to do.My entire gut is screaming that my fiance is the person that I'm supposed to get married to but here is this word from God, what do i do? marry someone else for the purpose of 'destiny' or marry the person i love and will love for the rest of my life? has anyone ever gone against a man of God's words in marriage and has a happy marriage? please,i really need your advice,
Re: Should I Still Marry Him? by luxoire(f): 2:27pm On Jun 19, 2009
estrella:

Ive been going out with my fiance for five years now and things haven't been a bed of roses exactly.My fiance is still in school and I'm working.In reality,things have been challenging but we have both stuck together through thick and thin.we both plan to get married soon.I recently went to see a man of God concerning marriage to my fiance and was told that he isn't my husband.the thing is, this man of God is rarely wrong in the things that he says, I need advice about what to do.My entire gut is screaming that my fiance is the person that I'm supposed to get married to but here is this word from God, what do i do? marry someone else for the purpose of 'destiny' or marry the person i love and will love for the rest of my life? has anyone ever gone against a man of God's words in marriage and has a happy marriage? please,i really need your advice,

you went and saw one JAH JEHOVAH PROPHET!!  shocked shocked angry those ppl do not derive their powers from the same God us christians serve
women women !!! when will you learn - wettin carry you go PROPHET? wettin make u go dey seek help from the devil? because i am sure this is not an annointed pastor or priest! chai
Look follow your heart and draw close to God - the true one and only God - and you will find out He works in mysterious ways - He will show your signs if you pray and if this guy isn't your husband then you will know it - if he is, then God go allow una to marry without any dramas shebi He has kept you both as a couple till now?
open your heart and yoru eyes to God's wonders and signs and trust in Him. He will see you through
so because he is rarely wrong - means you have to go and entrust your life and future and that of your fiancee to this evil person?
infact you needs me to give you virtual slap!!

What can God reveal to him that He will not reveal to you, if you are a child of God and a prayerful and faithful Christian? He rules over our affairs and He will deliver us from evil and temptation - trust in HIM
Re: Should I Still Marry Him? by Lexiwhite(m): 2:31pm On Jun 19, 2009
the gods are wise, and the ground is very sandy. grin
Re: Should I Still Marry Him? by Busybody2(f): 2:41pm On Jun 19, 2009
Well, in my honest opinion, I know bare peeps who have gone down this route, and were warned about what would happen if they went ahead, and surely these things happened. I think you should have probed the man of God further to be specific about what could go wrong in future, so that you could iron out the kinks.

Saying this though, every relationship has its challenges so visiting soothsayers is not my cup of tea and never will be, but don't blame you, even the white people have psychic lessons for anyone to attend in order to be able to tap into one's psyche, in order to be able to see into the future, so these things are real.

In all, just pray about it all, there is nothing God cannot change and no crooked path he cannot make straight, may it be well with your soul wink
Re: Should I Still Marry Him? by sojuicy(f): 1:43pm On Jul 22, 2009
My concern is that it's taken five years and he's been having the milk without buying the cow. How are you sure he is not going to dump you once he's got his schooling done?
Re: Should I Still Marry Him? by GEW: 2:21pm On Jul 22, 2009
luxoire:

you went and saw one JAH JEHOVAH PROPHET!!  shocked shocked angry those ppl do not derive their powers from the same God us christians serve
women women !!! when will you learn - wettin carry you go PROPHET? wettin make u go dey seek help from the devil? because i am sure this is not an annointed pastor or priest! chai
Look follow your heart and draw close to God - the true one and only God - and you will find out He works in mysterious ways - He will show your signs if you pray and if this guy isn't your husband then you will know it - if he is, then God go allow una to marry without any dramas shebi He has kept you both as a couple till now?
open your heart and yoru eyes to God's wonders and signs and trust in Him. He will see you through
so because he is rarely wrong - means you have to go and entrust your life and future and that of your fiancee to this evil person?
infact you needs me to give you virtual slap!!

What can God reveal to him that He will not reveal to you, if you are a child of God and a prayerful and faithful Christian? He rules over our affairs and He will deliver us from evil and temptation - trust in HIM
i am tempted to agrre with you about 65%. joshua said
joshua 23:14 And, behold, this day I am going the way of all the earth: and ye know in all your hearts and in all your souls, [b]that not one thing hath failed of all the good things which the LORD your God spake concerning you; all are come to pass unto you, and not one thing hath failed thereof[/b]

14 “Soon I will die, going the way of everything on earth. Deep in your hearts you know that every promise of the Lord your God has come true. Not a single one has failed!


job 42:2 says
2I know that You can do all things, and that no thought or purpose of Yours can be restrained or thwarted.


obedience is better than sacrifice. if you are sure this man is a true man of God, it may look the hard thing to do but leave this guy you must becos it is not always good to know the will of God and willingly wish He wont keep His word. God does keep His word.

He always have you best interest at heart and if He knows the future He will gladly tell you as He has on this occassion it is left to you what you do with the word. i encourage you to let this guy go and wait for the best.

in my opinion no human being is worth risking your destiny for. ask any any married person they will tell you need the grace of God more than you know to have a succesfull marriage. you dont want to start one knowing He didnt send you in the first place. dont give yourself heartache it takes more than love to marriage work.

hope you do the right thing for yourself and life
Busy_body:

Well, in my honest opinion, I know bare peeps who have gone down this route, and were warned about what would happen if they went ahead, and surely these things happened. I think you should have probed the man of God further to be specific about what could go wrong in future, so that you could iron out the kinks.

Saying this though, every relationship has its challenges so visiting soothsayers is not my cup of tea and never will be, but don't blame you, even the white people have psychic lessons for anyone to attend in order to be able to tap into one's psyche, in order to be able to see into the future, so these things are real.

In all, just pray about it all, there is nothing God cannot change and no crooked path he cannot make straight, may it be well with your soul wink
you are right. you can still go probe more but dont go expecting to hear what you want to hear you might live to regret it. all the people i know who travelled this route lived to tell the regret story. no one ever willingly ignore thus saith the Lord and enjoy

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