Guys,i was walking with my girl friend,and suddenly i met my ex.she hug me in front of my girl.after that,she ask me who is that girl that hug me,and i said she is my ex.the next day,she text me that we should seperate.cos i hug a girl in her presence.pls what is wrong in hugging your ex girl.what should i do

Nothing. . .  u can even ask your current girl to learn some new tricks from her predecessor abi

lwkm

everything is wrong. put yourself in her shoes you will know that everything is wrong

The way you hug her matters. . . she once told me if it took you to peck her to like you do it

Something must scatter that day, whether na teeth oh, or whether na head oh, I no go gree

[quote from Lexiwhite]Nothing. . .  u can even ask your current girl to learn some new tricks from her predecessor abi [quote][/quote]

Gbam!!!!!!!!!! Nothing special,  Go on, Ori e o wa n be

u did nothing wrong.

steve49ja:

The way you hug her matters. . . she once told me if it took you to peck her to like you do it

Mehnn bone that thing oh, she is an ex girlfriend not a stranger abeg. She should deal with it.

@Topic:

Throwing a tantrum cos of a mere hug, are u married to her yet?

u better not do it.

what are u hugging for, shake hands.

to me thats kinda disrespectful

Lexi, lets face it, there's prolly one ex in our live we wouldnt mind having in our bed anytime. . .you understand right? there're ex's we are not really comfortable having around like an ex and wouldnt mind having them back. . . maybe work's in progress in hitting the kitten and you get to come across her while strolling with your ex you wouldnt want to disappoint her ' da ex' hence hugging her tight showing '' i still want you'' and a smart gurlfriend wont be comfortable with this. . . .  the bloke just has to straighten things with his gurl. .

wats the issue about,
did u guys break up and swear to be enemies.
abeg hug am die,
give am kiss self. its old time sake.

spikedcylinder:

I will use jack saw to pry them apart. WTF? A whole hug? Why can't they just blink at each other or something? Or is that not enough?

GBAM!!

even if my girlfriend hug her ex in my presence,none of my biz after all its just a hug.Wat if she is sleeping with d guy n i dont knw n she portrays to be a very holy person to me?
But to be sincere ,she be woman .u shuld hv understood her better b4 that shit happens.U knw our women r petty. Expect people to be better than they are; it helps them to become better. But don't be disappointed when they are not; it helps them to keep trying.Na u i go blame

you no do anything jare!

you gf is from the stone age.

mumu mulikatu!

Ordinary hug
Nothing is wrong with it jor.she can hug and hug for all she wants,i know my man is going home with me at the end of the day so what gives

steve49ja:

Lexi, lets face it, there's prolly one ex in our live we wouldnt mind having in our bed anytime. . .you understand right? there're ex's we are not really comfortable having around like an ex and wouldnt mind having them back. . . maybe work's in progress in hitting the kitten and you get to come across her while strolling with your ex you wouldnt want to disappoint her ' da ex' hence hugging her tight showing '' i still want you'' and a smart gurlfriend wont be comfortable with this. . . . the bloke just has to straighten things with his gurl. .

Tell them mon darlink See why I have to marry you, you know what's up

Aint this the same dude that opened the thread : his broke up cos he said she was stupid??

Busy_body:


Tell them mon darlink See why I have to marry you, you know what's up

Never let you down mamacita

Is there any reason why she should not trust you?  Have you in any way done or said anything to make her jealous of your ex? Getting angry over a hug is silly, except she has reasons not to trust you with your ex.

Gentlelady:

Is there any reason why she should not trust you? Have you in any way done or said anything to make her jealous of your ex? Getting angry over a hug is silly, except she has reasons not to trust you with your ex.

thank u.
Except both of them are having trust issues,theres nothing wrong with a hug.
wonder why peeps hang in an affair where theres no trust. . . getting mad over a hug goes along way to show that the relationship is NOT worth it.IMHO

ladies are so unsecure these days, its unbelievable. whats in a hug?! what next, you shouldnt look at her or even speak with her.
people have to grow up and grow some balls. if a man has been in a relationship with a woman then he has no reason NOT to hug someone that he shared intimacy with. yes the relationship is over but that friendship (if they parted amicably) will always be there.
in the same sentence, same should apply if a women hug her ex bf. whats next? you hug a family member and that will be the start of trouble.
only an insecure jealous person would make this a big deal. now, if that guy put his tongue down her throat then start complaining.
this is the baggage a man has and that has to be accepted by his new woman.

Igwe.:

Everything is wrong for those who care bro, you shouldn't have done it,you'd respect the relationship you are into,if I were in your shoe, I'd rather opt for a handshake instead.

Thank you, thank you, this gem of wisdom can only come from my old pot bellied clinker

Busy_body:


Thank you, thank you, this gem of wisdom can only come from my old pot bellied clinker

Take handshake

There's nothing wrong in an ex hugging you - what did your girlfriend expect you to do, push her away? Is she that insecure? If there was more to the hug, then it would have been done whilst your girlfriend wasn't present, and she'd have been none the wiser.

I think you're better off apart!

Thank God I have a stop watch with me I would have to calculate how many seconds the hug would last and if it is more than what I expect, I would rip them apart. Lol.

But seriously there is nothing wrong when an ex hugs your girlfriend or boyfriend. They can do more than hugging when you are not present. So trust your partner.

You guys saying he shouldn't are kidding right. So if your ex gf Initiates a hug in public you shun her and put forward your hands .I don't know about you but if i was your girlfriend if you shake her in my presence i will suspect you are sleeping with her and only pretending. But if you hug her in front of me i will clear my doubts you are are no longer intimate. it's pure wisdom.