First impression they say lasts longer. Many
men ruin their chances with the women they
want to ask out on first meeting.
They do things that seem to infuriate or put off the
women. Most women decide whether a man is worth the
stress the moment they meet and converse. Some of
these women are skeptical and would agree to go on a
date with the men in order to ascertain the opinion
formed from the previous meeting. The first date thus
help them decide whether they want to keep seeing the
men or go on subsequent dates with them. Most men on
the other hand, having realized this, try so hard not to
muck up the situation and make tremendous effort at
giving the women a long lasting impression. This could
turn out as bluffs to the women who may see them as
being boastful.



There are several things men do that could ruin their
first impression with the women. Some of them are:



1. Common Method Of Approach
Men honestly need to step up and be more creative when
they approach women. The era of adopting the same lines
and skills used by other guys to woo ladies have passed.
Women have heard those lines over and over and are
bored of them already. Guys who approach women with
lines like that strike the women as men that are shallow
or men who are not capable of thinking for themselves.
The women in turn give responses that show their
disapproval and some of these men just lose the
opportunity to have something beautiful with these
women.



2. Dry Jokes
After getting the women’s attention, some men go on
trying to make the women see them as being witty and
funny. The jokes may come off as dry jokes to the women.
Not only do they feel the men are not capable of making
intelligent conversations, they may also see them as
clowns who would joke into every woman’s heart.



3. Talking Too Much
Some men in a bid to create a long lasting impression on
the women end up looking like chatterboxes. Not every
woman likes a chattering boyfriend. It may be okay to
have an interesting personality to converse with but
having a boyfriend who doesn’t know how to read the
signs and stop talking isn’t cool. Some women want men
who are conservative and mature so talking too much may
put them off.



4. Boasting About Past Encounters
Some men ruin their first impression with the women by
talking extensively on their past encounters with women
and how smooth they were with them. They unknowingly
tell the women they are Casanovas; most women feel
insecure with men like these. They strike them as players
who would break their hearts at the long run.



5. Groping
Some men do all the talking part well; getting the women’s
attention and all. However, they ruin everything by trying
to grope or touch the women after a while. This makes
the women feel they are flirts who would lust after other
women. Moreover, the women become defensive as they
assume the men only want to get into their pants.



6. Bad Assumptions About Women
Some men ruin their first impression by trying to make
the women feel they are intuitive. They make the wrong
guesses and give terrible predictions about the women.
Trying to correct the wrong assumptions could wear
some women out while it could make others snap.



7. Allowing Their Moves To Be Predicted
Some men after boring the women out allow rejection to
dictate their moves. The women can anticipate their
moves; their composure after being turned down says a
lot about the type of men they are. They most times turn
out to be men who accept defeat easily.

Right to some extent

Lol see this small op boy o. U never date girl weh be say na u go tire upon say na u dey spend money. Some talk pass parrot.

op u forgot to add speaking phonetics when u never had the book while in school.na so one mumu boy dey talk to one girl for our shop ,I no know wetin dem dey argue about but the boy just dey form Americana dey speak thunderous phonetics before I know, wetin I hear na *I didn't did it *.even the girl no fit hold her laugh ,me I come join my own come worsen the case

cruzita:
op u forgot to add speaking phonetics when u never had the book while in school.na so one mumu boy dey talk to one girl for our shop ,I no know wetin dem dey argue about but the boy just dey form Americana dey speak thunderous phonetics before I know, wetin I hear na *I didn't did it *.even the girl no fit hold her laugh ,me I come join my own come worsen the case

LOL. It depends though. Some are educated and some are not. The uneducated boys wooing ladies have spoilt the way educated people are meant to do it. So, some ladies believe the ones speaking fluently are trying to impress them; unknown to them that's the normal way the normal, educated boys woo ladies.

RadicallyBlunt:
Lol see this small op boy o. U never date girl weh be say na u go tire upon say na u dey spend money. Some talk pass parrot.

LOL.. Just like your moniker, your brain is radically blunt, no offense. This is my point of view, it's not compulsory you believe my part or buy the ideas. And most of these points were picked randomly and are from some psychologists also.
Don't call people small because you see them in minor places.
Thank You.

ejosh4:
Right to some extent

I think so, too.
But, Hypocrisy should be cut short.
Men as a whole are still humans. Out of these impressions, most have one or two.

Jewelnutch:

LOL.. Just like your moniker, your brain is radically blunt, no offense. This is my point of view, it's not compulsory you believe my part or buy the ideas. And most of these points were picked randomly and are from some psychologists also.
Don't call people small because you see them in minor places.
Thank You.

U still be small pikin. Forget grammar

RadicallyBlunt:
U still be small pikin. Forget grammar

K.

No Five is totally right and brutal