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Need Suggestions Here Pls! by tourphland(m): 11:15pm On Jan 14, 2016
I want to be as short as possible..........it goes thus:
My gf nd I are havn issues and its majorly on D level of her closeness with her ex which I don't really like........the ex goes to her room to charge, d guy even when my gf went to get her fone followed her to buy it which I later returned for another due to d poor quality of d fone.
One day too I rmbrd she visited d guy nd I got annoyed nd told her not to again which she says she doesn't........as regards d last issue we had which is for him visitng coming to charge I said I don't like d kind of closeness u r with ur ex nD she flared up and sent a message breaking up with me coz she said she can't leave d guy coz they hv bn close friends.........advice pls, shld I try revive or forgett bou it coz am forgetting alredi bou it she says I don't trust her......I think ur ex shouldn't be ur best friend in a reasonable situation.
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by Charles4075(m): 11:18pm On Jan 14, 2016
Hold on mister, are you saying you, your gf and her ex all live under same roof Wtf is that Seriously, tell us more about this your awesome story.

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Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by RexKexMilann: 11:19pm On Jan 14, 2016
OP, forget about her already!
She obviously prefers her ex to you. Don't you get it?

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Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by kirchofff(m): 11:19pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ok
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by obiorathesubtle: 11:22pm On Jan 14, 2016
undecided you're slowly becoming the secondary camera




My advice.. Your bonehead girlfriend isn't over her ex, this makes her a rètard.. Her ex could be an opportunist or a sycophant.. We don't know that yet(maybe because you haven't found out)... Break up with her.. Leave trash for lawma(ex)
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by tourphland(m): 11:25pm On Jan 14, 2016
No, my gf stays in an area close to d exes and I stay a bit far from them............she chose to be with him over d relationship sef as of now.........she says I rarely visit nd d likes, I think av gvn up thanks peeps
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by Nobody: 11:27pm On Jan 14, 2016
Ma guy, u had beta call it a quit b4 ur case becomes d case of d owner and d caretaker... #There'sSomethingAFishyGoingOnBehindClosedDoors grin

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Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by pweetychyka(f): 11:36pm On Jan 14, 2016
tourphland:
No, my gf stays in an area close to d exes and I stay a bit far from them............she chose to be with him over d relationship sef as of now.........she says I rarely visit nd d likes, I think av gvn up thanks peeps

Funny! Stop been deceived.... he was neva her ex! Dey r still very well in d relationship undecided

Y would d so called ex... leave everywhere he can charge his fone n go to your gf's house to charge his fone undecided! My dear I guess u are for reserve..anyday he messes up, she 'll come back to you whole heartedly grin grin grin

#jezmathought
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by Nobody: 11:39pm On Jan 14, 2016
That's why me dey always do my things based on agreement. I believe u guys discussed ur past and agreed its over with ur exes. If u did that, just tell one of her close friends in her very presense, what she's been doing for record purpose then quit. How can it be heard that u're going out with ur ex when ure engaged to another guy abi she get kolo

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Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by tourphland(m): 11:40pm On Jan 14, 2016
pweetychyka:


Funny! Stop been deceived.... he was neva her ex! Dey r still very well in d relationship undecided

Y would d so called ex... leave everywhere he can charge his fone n go to your gf's house to charge his fone undecided! My dear I guess u are for reserve..anyday he messes up, she 'll come back to you whole heartedly grin grin grin

#jezmathought
God bless u.....that was exactly what I said y didn't he go to his gf place to charge......she said she's not talking about it that I dnt trust n love her............it kind of annoying having a best friend which is ur ex....its awkward, a best friend u can close d level of ur closeness
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by Nobody: 11:43pm On Jan 14, 2016
phellamon:
Ma guy, u had beta call it a quit b4 ur case becomes d case of d owner and d caretaker... #There'sSomethingAFishyGoingOnBehindClosedDoors grin
They're always having close door meetings....
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by pweetychyka(f): 11:44pm On Jan 14, 2016
tourphland:
God bless u.....that was exactly what I said y didn't he go to his gf place to charge......she said she's not talking about it that I dnt trust n love her............it kind of annoying having a best friend which is ur ex....its awkward, a best friend u can close d level of ur closeness

My dear, if u don't luv n trust her anymore, y not call it a break?

And take ur tym to start something new!
Any relationship where dere is no trust, my dear it isn't a relationship
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by tourphland(m): 11:57pm On Jan 14, 2016
pweetychyka:


My dear, if u don't luv n trust her anymore, y not call it a break?

And take ur tym to start something new!
Any relationship where dere is no trust, my dear it isn't a relationship
its hard to trust.......the body lang nd way she speaks to me says it all
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by cruzita(f): 12:02am On Jan 15, 2016
na only u get control over this issue not naira land .if u choose to leave her nothing change if u choose to bring her back we still dey here dey watch out for another thread
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by ronald4ever(m): 12:31am On Jan 15, 2016
Quit that relationship asap, you're just her spare boyfriend and she's probably still keeping you coz of the benefit she get from you. Don't deceive yourself and wait until the ex impregnate her and shift responsibility to you. Move on.
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by Nobody: 3:36am On Jan 15, 2016
Thowbie7:
They're always having close door meetings....

I mean.... all uv reported is wat has happened in ur presence, Do u have a fckng idea of wat might be happening when u are not around? undecided
Re: Need Suggestions Here Pls! by pweetychyka(f): 5:28am On Jan 15, 2016
tourphland:
its hard to trust.......the body lang nd way she speaks to me says it all

Den call it off! Or u keep hurting urself n dying in silence.

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