There's this chic who happened to be my younger sister's friend,way back in 2002 i started making some passes to her but she bluntly declined.After my NYSC in 2007,i got a job, the chic started showing some interest gradually.I once again wooed her and she accepted me,we've dated for close to 1yr now with plans of getting married in future.But the problem now is that my mum and all my siblings (including my younger sister who is her friend) dislike de idea.Am now on my own, pls house should i ignore them and marry her afterwards?

What are their reasons for not liking the idea?

bros, you you're a man so get with it if you really a man.

ibkaye:

What are their reasons for not liking the idea?

His family aren't entitled to dislike her for any reason because they don't know a thing about her unless her friend tells them. But then from what the poster has said, I think they don't have a cogent reason they dislike the idea, it's just one of our wild beliefs here that older siblings shouldn't have a relationship with their younger siblings' friends. Their assertion is pathetic.


@Poster

Do whatever you want man. If you love her so much and she loves you too, go ahead and marry her. Anyways, who consult families before they marry these days. Don't make no sense. Get on with your life and marry her if you so damn wish. If they don't want to come to your wedding, you both take a friend with each of you and go to a court of law and have a legal wedding, that will shut everyone up.

ibkaye is right, what are their reasons?

if u she is a good friends of ur sister, and ur same sister is opposing the idea,
then i think ur sister knows things about her friend she can't tell u which makes her a no wife material.
if i were u, i wud thread gently.

u need 2 be asking ur sister some questions,

i think i agree with Biola44, your sister have to tell you the reason she don't want you to marry her because she may be the one who spoilt the mind of your family members.

However her reason may be good and at the same time bad. Good in the sense that their may be some of her characters that your sister know you may not like. Bad in the sense that it may be that she once had a quarrel with her and she don't want you to marry her.

Maybe

dude, wat we all wanna know is y don't they want u to marry her?