ibkaye:

Hmm ok, well, I won't generalise, but it is the case in Nigeria where many girls care more about material things than the more important things needed to base a relationship on, same for goes for all other places in the world, that's why sometimes you gotta search real hard for the special person who loves you for you and not the weight of your wallet.

Wow! This is ridiculously stunning.

Nigeria girls like money, have you ever heard of a song that said, if Money grows on tree, they will date and marry monkeys.

Why not ask her about it. before and after then has she been acting well, teating you fine and all that. She could have just forgotten (that would be strange though cos its guys that usually miss things like this but lets give her the benefit of doubt)
My boyfriend once forgot my birthday and it was so so painful. he called during the day and was chatting like no man's business oblivious it was my birthday even though we discussed it days back can you imagine?
Thats why you should ask her give her the benefit of doubt then watch for any tell tale signs when u begin to see them u know what to do next!

Err touch, he already did that, here was her reply:

i brought it up but she made a very light apology,and then capped it with a huge complain of me not giving her any bday present on hers, since hers comes b4 mine, but mind u we r a little distant 4rm each other so we couldnt see on her own bday, but i promised her i owe her a bday present, isnt that fair enough?

I personally don't deal with infantile 'tit for tat' girls - she's 'showing him' for not getting her a gift. Anyone with such a silly attitude deserves to be dropped like a piece of smelly turd.

i brought it up but she made a very light apology,and then capped it with a huge complain of me not giving her any bday present on hers, since hers comes b4 mine, but mind u we r a little distant 4rm each other so we couldnt see on her own bday, but i promised her i owe her a bday present, isnt that fair enough?

How old is she and how old are you?
Why are you even dating a girl with that kind of attitude?
Drop her. Let let her make you feel like you're LUCKY she's dating you.

Thanks guys, i really appreciate, guess by now i should know what best to do,av got to learn to be faceless in certain situations.