I met this lady in a bus so we started chatin and we xchange nos. But since then she kept callin sendin msgs and ask me out, but I dont hv d intention of datin her. I told her plainly dat I dont hv feelins but she insist. How can I run away?

avoid her, stop pickin her calls,

Flee d devil and she ll run from u

am in this kind of situation, infact i tire

xynerio:

I met this lady in a bus so we started chatin and we xchange nos. But since then she kept callin sendin msgs and ask me out, but I dont hv d intention of datin her. I told her plainly dat I dont hv feelins but she insist. How can I run away? 

Pesin force You exchange number?

How many girls feel when. . .

no be by force

before you come here say she FORCE you to sex her!!!

you had better take control of the r/ship, your emotions, your life and your 'fella' and stop talking rubbish

if you are telling her somehting and she wont listen - why dont you just tell her to stop calling you and when she does - dont answer - she'll find someone else to stalk

I did that like many times when i was much younger. . .  I just didnt know how to say no to girls then. I seriously dont think i'll fall for that now

whitelexi:

I did that like many times when i was much younger. . . I[b] just didnt know how to say no to girls then.[/b] I seriously dont think i'll fall for that now

so you welcomed all of them to your loving kingdom abi?

luxoire:

so you welcomed all of them to your loving kingdom abi?

What can i say? I was shy as u can think. Thats what u get when u face books too much and leave your social circle for a bit

whitelexi:

What can i say? I was shy as u can think. Thats what u get when u face books too much and leave your social circle for a bit

hahahahah nerd turned playa - is that it?

''How can I run away?'' u use ur legs ofcourse unless u want to become an orangutan then u can add ur hands for enhanced running.

u dont want to, all u ought to do is to stay away. dont call or return her calls or u will end up hurting her most

luxoire:

hahahahah nerd turned playa - is that it?

Lets just say i used to be a good boy until the female folk corrupted my mind and i turned into something else - I hate to call myself a playa, i just think i became more carefree in my dealings with the female folk. Even a playa has to change sometime

whitelexi:

Lets just say i used to be a good boy until the female folk corrupted my mind and i turned into something else - I hate to call myself a playa, i just think i became more carefree in my dealings with the female folk. Even a playa has to change sometime

chei - and i thought you were one of the caring ones - those that actually give a hoot about the female folk and their feelings - seems like i was wrong then huh?!

@Topic:

You have 2 options, choose to forget the word "NO" and play along, or face her squarely and say u dont share her kind of feelings

luxoire:

chei - and i thought you were one of the caring ones - those that actually give a hoot about the female folk and their feelings - seems like i was wrong then huh?!

Your thoughts are not too far off from the truth, a brother's only looking for the right sister to quit the game for

Poster learn how to play games.
you might regret you never did in the future.

whitelexi:

@Topic:

Your thoughts are not too far off from the truth, a brother's only looking for the right sister to quit the game for

i hope when you find her - you don't play her - or she doesn't play you - you know what they say!! karma is a bitch!

luxoire:

i hope when you find her - you don't play her - or she doesn't play you - you know what they say!! karma is a bitch!

That bitch has been hitting me, wish karma was human - i'd be kicking my leg dead off her bum! I've really calmed down, infact i think i'm a changed man, i stay so alert now when i'm in a budding relationship, i'm monitoring every sentence, every gesture, every move. . . Its really gonna be tough for even karma to find a way through

whitelexi:

That bitch has been hitting me, wish karma was human - i'd be kicking my leg dead off her bum! I've really calmed down, infact i think i'm a changed man, i stay so alert now when i'm in a budding relationship, i'm monitoring every sentence, every gesture, every move. . . Its really gonna be tough for even karma to find a way through

funny thing is she always comes right back and bite syou in the butt - when you least expect it - at the risk of totalling derailing this topic - i say we adjourn this for another forum more deserving of exploring this line of thinking

luxoire:

funny thing is she always comes right back and bite syou in the butt - when you least expect it - at the risk of totalling derailing this topic - i say we adjourn this for another forum more deserving of exploring this line of thinking

I so totally agree

play along, enjoy yourself . . . leave when you get tired.

OR

Be a man and tell her off.

ave bn there n it has bn real bad so i would neva consider doing that again

@ poster

no one should put themselves through that, its not worth it,

Tell her you love her as a "FRIEND" make sure you emphasie the friend bit if that doesnt work, then use the "I have a gf line"

@post no way!

Kenny_G:

@post no way!

Tell me true, will you say NO if she is pretty?

lol, i know the feeling, try to KEEP letting her know your not intereted, may take months, years, but the MSG will sink in!! am still working on mine, why is it that the person you want is the tricky and the one's you don't will never get away, just life

It's a matter of choice.

I posted this thread since June but do you know that till today this same gal is still disturbing? She just graduated from IMSU and resides in Owerri but has relatives in Lagos. She came to lagos last week cos of me and said she will like to spend the xmas with me. She always call me to know if I am at home and I find one excuse to give or ignore the call. I almost change my sim cos of her but for business sake I had to bear it.

I met this lady in a bus so we started chatin and we xchange nos. But since then she kept callin sendin msgs and ask me out, but I dont hv d intention of datin her. I told her plainly dat I dont hv feelins but she insist. How can I run away?

i made the mistake of constantly breakin up and takin bk my ex, i hated him and didn't want him but he always a way to get me to take him back
stop answerin her calls, if possible block her, don't give in, you'll just end up regrettin

I will be grateful if you teach me how to block her calls.