Hi everyone,

Just out of curiosity, i feel bad when my partner receives calls frm male frnds especially when i am hearing what they re saying without regards for my presence!

Indifferent.As long as she's giving me "my own",no wahala.I don't bloody care

rubbish

i too wud immediately stat callin the girls dem

190:

rubbish

i too wud immediately stat callin the girls dem

thats rather childish,

Depending on the context of their conversation, i personally think the girl has no regard for her man if not she wudnt be sounding some ow on d fone!

Passin

indie22:


thats rather childish,

ARRANT RUBBISH!

If you are in a serious relationship with a woman and she still has the guts to receive calls from other men in your presence, then she evidently has no regard or respect for you as a person.

Some might claim there's nothing with having "friends" but everybody knows that just being "friends" often leads to being "friends with benefits".

End of!

harakiri:

If you are in a serious relationship with a woman and she still has the guts to receive calls from other men in your presence, then she evidently has no regard or respect for you as a person.

Some might claim there's nothing with having "friends" but everybody knows that just being "friends" often leads to being "friends with benefits".

End of!

Perhaps, I didn't get u right! Would u rather she entertatin calls from other men in your absence?

@ topic: There's absolutely no way u can expect your partner (be her your wifey or fiancee )not 2 receive calls from the opposite gender. The question here is what kind of friend is he? Now, thats a question u'll have to deal with personally in your own way!

and what about guys receiving female calls?

Well it depend her mode of speaking. If I find out she is cheatin, that will goodbye tomorrow.

as long as you know about this friendship, and it doesnt cross the line (gifts, secret meetings, physical contact, flirting) then no issues.  it is only a problem when your partner hides thier interactions with friends of the opposite gender.  if they wont tell you about who it is and what is going on with them then there is something inappropriate about the relationship.

Wouldn't bother me. As long as the conversation wasn't suggestive, or raunchy.

I dnt hav problem wit dat as long as dat thire conversation is friendly.I get angry when d guys call keeps on comin now nd then nd she pick withouthesitation.

If u realy "love" her, dan learn hw 2 trust her or 4get it, what is love witout trust.

wats the biggie abt a chic receiving phone calls from guys?? as far as the conversation is clear and has no undertones i dont see any reason why you should

feel threatened or paranoid.

If your partner receives calls unabated from the opposite intimacy it means he/she has no iota of respect for you & the relationship/marriage means nothing.

I'd advise you re-examine your relationship & the foundation

Calls from guys?I cant take that?

Yes and me too I can't accept that. There is one chick that's into that and I hate her for it cos it means she doesn't know what she wants and even if she stick to one guy and keeps a lot ot male friends, then I think there is 70% assurance that she's likely to cheat when she get married,

Sometimes she even talks to me as if we are into something and even asking me the year I'd like to get married.

I toasted her b4, but due to the kind of attitude she has and the way she keeps male friends, I just withdrawn myself.

I even sent a guy to go and woo her this Saturday and she gave him her number withing 2 mins of their conversation.

Meanwhile this chick am talking about has a boyfriend.

I think it means a lot if a girl/lady has a lot of male friend and DEPENDING on the kind of level she deals with each one of them.

The result that's likely to come out from it is, they will later be used and dumped by all these their so called male friends (when each 1 of them has discovered she has a lot of them in hand) and the girl/lady would now be looking for who to push herself up to for marriage.

No wonder we have a lot older of single ladies out there (even though they have different issues that's delaying them for marriage).

They should keep it up, it rewards.

First of all i try not to receive call in his presence becos,
I feel jealous when he receives female calls in my presence.
That gives my grounds to ques him if the call is suspicious.
And he reads that from my face immediately.(and explains,even if he lies).
All the same,no body enjoys it anyway.

So who is she supposed to take calls from?
Females only?
Some people need to grow up mehn!

Unless they're having some saucy convos . . . . kini big deal?

chamotex:

So who is she supposed to take calls from?
Females only?
Some people need to grow up mehn!

Unless they're having some saucy convos . . . . kini big deal?

And who the f**ck are those people that need to grow up?. U are meant to reply and make a reasonable comment, not to come here and show off yourself by trying to use what people have posted to catch tips in an abnormal way ok? dude.

We are talking about some punk a.s.s ladies/women's bad behavior and you are here trying to cover them up and even abusing people on their behalf. ( I think you are the one that need to grow up)

No one is saying they shouldn't have a male friends, but not to the extent of doing it in a silly way or even using it to affect their relationship.

So are you now saying that it's OK as some of them are doing it ignorantly or what are you trying to point out here?.

These are the kind of men that girls/ladies uses to,,,,,,,,,.

Nairaland.

Land of DRAMA

sofeco:

And who the f**ck are those people that need to grow up?. U are meant to reply and make a reasonable comment, not to come here and show off yourself by trying to use what people have posted to catch tips in an abnormal way ok? dude.

We are talking about some punk a.s.s ladies/women's bad behavior and you are here trying to cover them up and even abusing people on their behalf. ( I think you are the one that need to grow up)

No one is saying they shouldn't have a male friends, but not to the extent of doing it in a silly way or even using it to affect their relationship.

So are you now saying that it's OK as some of them are doing it ignorantly or what are you trying to point out here?.

These are the kind of men that girls/ladies uses to,,,,,,,,,.

Nairaland.

Land of DRAMA

chamotex:

iice:

It drives him nuts But he's lucky i don't do calls. . .or if i must, i keep them really short.
As for me. . .he can receive all the calls he wants They can waste their time talking about how paint dries fast or slow
So long as he knows his place/boundaries

GBAM!!!

googles:



wats the biggie abt a chic receiving phone calls from guys?? as far as the conversation is clear and has no undertones i dont see any reason why you should

feel threatened or paranoid.

supported no big deal coz i can't take it when i see her phone ring and she refuse to answer the caller. That will make me suspect her so i prefer she answer calls in my presence.

190 swiftly walks in

and swiftly walks out~~

Its a bad character. I wont take it from my girl.

190:

rubbish

i too wud immediately stat callin the girls dem

LWKMH. . . . Ah 190 u sound like my ex. . . I wonda wt u wuld do if she rejects d call.

whats my own 
everyone has his/her right to his own privacy

Guys are good at not recievin or pickin female calls when his lady is around!!

unless its ehem ehn unno kinikan from church

or my oga from work!! men are sly creatures!