A friend of mine has been dating her boyfriend for 7yrs now and the guy actually promised her marriage from the onset,all of a sudden the guy was doing promise and fail in the sense that he will fix a date and make excuses for not coming to see my friends parents for some years,last year December he was supposed to come as promised but postpone it to first week of Jan and during this interval my girlfriend reunited with her childhood friend that just came back into the country and the guy is serious about marriage and has gone for introduction to show how serious he is and at this venture when things are going on smooth with my babe the 7yrs boyfriend resurfaced again showing seriousness and reminding my girl how they have suffered for all those years only for this Oyibo guy to appear from nowhere and although my friend have been communicating with the guy on phone before he came back she just want to be careful and make the right choice......pls my fellow RL I hand over this case for you to judge,scrutinize and drop reasonable comments

If I am the guy, I will look else where for my wife.
The sudden arrival of the old guy will reduce the attention I am getting from her.

Ladies should deal with and bury their ex/old friends case before marriage.

The lady should better stick to the 7years guy cos someone you haven't seen for years might have changed. Who knows if he has been married abroad to have papers?

I think your friend knows best... she definitely knows who is best for her.
we cant just conclude the the latter is unserious and the former is all good. if you knw what i mean

dating for 7years. you must have been friendzoned

funkyglitz:
A friend of mine has been dating her boyfriend for 7yrs now and the guy actually promised her marriage from the onset,all of a sudden the guy was doing promise and fail in the sense that he will fix a date and make excuses for not coming to see my friends parents for some years,last year December he was supposed to come as promised but postpone it to first week of Jan and during this interval my girlfriend reunited with her childhood friend that just came back into the country and the guy is serious about marriage and has gone for introduction to show how serious he is and at this venture when things are going on smooth with my babe the 7yrs boyfriend resurfaced again showing seriousness and reminding my girl how they have suffered for all those years only for this Oyibo guy to appear from nowhere and although my friend have been communicating with the guy on phone before he came back she just want to be careful and make the right choice......pls my fellow RL I hand over this case for you to judge,scrutinize and drop reasonable comments

funkyglitz:
A friend of mine has been dating her boyfriend for 7yrs now and the guy actually promised her marriage from the onset,all of a sudden the guy was doing promise and fail in the sense that he will fix a date and make excuses for not coming to see my friends parents for some years,last year December he was supposed to come as promised but postpone it to first week of Jan and during this interval my girlfriend reunited with her childhood friend that just came back into the country and the guy is serious about marriage and has gone for introduction to show how serious he is and at this venture when things are going on smooth with my babe the 7yrs boyfriend resurfaced again showing seriousness and reminding my girl how they have suffered for all those years only for this Oyibo guy to appear from nowhere and although my friend have been communicating with the guy on phone before he came back she just want to be careful and make the right choice......pls my fellow RL I hand over this case for you to judge,scrutinize and drop reasonable comments

..are you lightskin?

Chai! 7 years? She has been putting on key holder ooo.

Dating for 7yrs... Abeg at what age did d ur friend meet the guy for her to stay with him for 7yrs without ring


Mtn dey use homezone, the guy they use friendzone

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The guy dah promised her marriage aint ready yet and is just taking her for a long ride,would dump her when he is bored,d oda guy,she should get close to him asking him question in d most trickish way to figure out d truth,she should try and know his frnds and family,if it doesn't work,she must leave these guys and start anew wit sum1 else

The seven yrs dude might have been trying to fix somethings in the background or maybe not.. one addict says; A cow does not value it tail until it's cut off... The oyibo guy don come wake am... the decision is the girl to make....

Bae, are u sure ur not the person involve in this matter? Well, wether or not. I'll strongly advice you tell your friend to still stick and be patient with the man he has dated for 7 year and not jumping into whom she doesn't even knows his character and can change @ any point in time. U may regret ur actions if u leave the man u've spent so many years just for sm1else dat u are not even sure of attitude... 7 years no be seven weeks wey u go just forget, all because he was promise corse to her.. Just give him time, he'll definately fulfill his promise since he still came back means he's serious.....!

Gbam! He has said it all

agarawu23:
If I am the guy, I will look else where for my wife.
The sudden arrival of the old guy will reduce the attention I am getting from her.

Ladies should deal with and bury their ex/old friends case before marriage.

The lady should better stick to the 7years guy cos someone you haven't seen for years might have changed. Who knows if he has been married abroad to have papers?

Oma307:
Gbam! He has said it all

Me thinks your friend should free the promise and fail guy. He is not a serious suitor. Serious suitors don't do promise and fail severally. Even if they get married he may continue his promise and fail behavior he does not seem to be a reliable fellow.

The new guy has shown seriousness and focus she should get to know him better.