one of the most important questions to ask and answer and settle before marriage is this-- what happens if children don't come? it is even most pertinent these days where there are so many cases of infertility. although nobody claims it as their portions but if it happens and you are prepared then its easy to manage

a guy got married and his wife keeps miscarrying the pregnancy, the thing always flows out and this continues until they are no longer keen on getting pregnant. After about 7 years they found a specialist who can sew the place up after conception. he actually helped other pple with the same problem so we are hopeful. unfortunately by this time due to unhealthy lifestyle or whatever other reasons the guy is now shooting blank. the girl suggested sperm banks the selfish guy said no. and this is really mean of him. now the girl wont ever have her own baby in this life due to no fault of hers, guys need to be more open minded really.

so intending couples need to discuss and AGREE on this issue before taking the dive

Biko, no vex ooo... what issue exactly should they agree upon?

jashar:
Biko, no vex ooo... what issue exactly should they agree upon?

on what to do in case of infertility after marriage

initiate:
one of the most important questions to ask and answer and settle before marriage is this-- what happens if children don't come? it is even most pertinent these days where there are so many cases of infertility. although nobody claims it as their portions but if it happens and you are prepared then its easy to manage

a guy got married and his wife keeps miscarrying the pregnancy, the thing always flows out and this continues until they are no longer keen on getting pregnant. After about 7 years they found a specialist who can sew the place up after conception. he actually helped other pple with the same problem so we are hopeful. unfortunately by this time due to unhealthy lifestyle or whatever other reasons the guy is now shooting blank. the girl suggested sperm banks the selfish guy said no. and this is really mean of him. now the girl wont ever have her own baby in this life due to no fault of hers, guys need to be more open minded really.

so intending couples need to discuss and AGREE on this issue before taking the dive

The guy isnt selfish. He just hasn't gotten his head around how he will father another man's child. Be understanding, patient and gently persistent. He might come around eventually. After all he was patient and understanding with her when the pregnancy kept flowing out.

initiate:
on what to do in case of infertility after marriage

Can u be more specific on what you mean by 'blanks'? No sperm or low sperm or abnormal sperm?

Question ke? No o. Marriage is for better, for worst. If there is any issue with fertility, the couple need to work together and remain in love.

That's marriage, loving one another even when things are rough!

marriagearian:
Question ke? No o. Marriage is for better, for worst. If there is any issue with fertility, the couple need to work together and remain in love.

That's marriage, loving one another even when things are rough!

easier said