anytime a guy shows too much affection especially too soon, the girl always misbehaves! she takes him for granted and will most likely break his heart, its like he seems too impressed by her, act the opposite of how you feel, send mixed signals, push and pull, yab her with humor, but never show too much love at anytime!, that's a better approach, does anyone disagree?

I think ladies also need to put a lid on showing too much respect for their boyfriends and husbands.

Seun:

I think ladies also need to put a lid on showing too much respect for their boyfriends and husbands.

Seun, that was hardcore! I bet he doesn't know what to say or how to react to that now. I think he is right but then some boyfriends take their girls for granted because she gives too much respect.

that's exactly what the girls need from their guys unconditional love someone to always be there for them u need to show it for the girl to understand u really care no matter the length it might take u in proving it

@Poster.
I agree with you; one shouldn't display early feelings or else the girl won't take him seriously.

bla bla bla
as if we dont know,
whatever!

Seun:

I think ladies also need to put a lid on showing too much respect for their boyfriends and husbands.

Amen to this. Some women give their bfs too much damn respect.

lol funny sha

agreed, showing too much love is BAD
Guys should always keep babes around them, it gives their girlfriend a constant reminder of "you can always be replaced".

sjeezy8:

lol funny sha

agreed, showing too much love is BAD
Guys should always keep babes around them, it gives their girlfriend a constant reminder of "you can always be replaced".

With that kind of mentality you may drive a good girl away from you and end up with the rubbish ones . Goodluck.

As long as u don't become wierd I don't tink u should refrain from showing love.

Ebonyeyes:

With that kind of mentality you may drive a good girl away from you and end up with the rubbish ones . Goodluck.

I disagree, with such mentality, its easier to keep the covetous and greedy ones @ bay. A good gurl wont leave simply cos her man has a lot of female folks around him. Like Sjeezy8 said its just a constant reminder.

@poster
Aint nufin bad showing affection to a gurl, just make sure it is on the optimal level perhaps 50-70

cant believe people still subscribe to this school of foolishness!

@Poster i totally disagree with you, Dont forget u said too soon, when do u fink u need to show u love her most if not soon, am a guy but i no agree