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Capturing Your Husband’s Heart by Aminzy(m): 12:48pm On Jan 22, 2016 |
A marriage can be successful when the
couple are compatible and united. Without
this, their lives will be incomplete and
troubled. It is therefore imperative that every
wife does her level best to learn the method
of capturing her husband’s heart. Without
learning this method she can never be
successful irrespective of how educated,
attractive or wealthy she may be.
Wise people have mentioned many methods
of harnessing one’s husband’s love. A woman
who regards serving her husband and loving
him as an important aspect of her Imaan has
no option but to practise the guidelines
which will be mentioned hereunder. Regard
your husband as a wealthy man even though
he may be poor.
Consult with him in all matters and do as he
advises.
Never do anything against his wishes and
always give precedence to the things that
please him.
Always be concerned about his peace of
mind and never do anything that will cause
him grief.
Accept whatever he gives you with a happy
heart.
Do whatever he asks you to do in a manner
that he is left without a worry.
Always be happy and smiling so that all his
worries can disappear merely by looking at
you.
Fulfil his needs before your own.
Feed him as best as you can.
If he cannot afford to buy clothes, sew them
yourself.
Try to do everything by yourself.
Never ask him for something that he cannot
afford otherwise he will be saddened if he
cannot give it to you. If you are destined to
have it, you will surely get it without asking.
Do not ask him to do anything that you can
do by yourself.
Never tell him all your problems as soon as
he arrives because his mind may already be
inundated with other problems.
Speak of good things while eating because
when a person is happy, even the simplest
meal is as tasty as the best delicacy. On the
other hand, a delicious meal will seem dull to
a troubled mind. When a woman begins
telling her husband all her day’s problems as
soon as he walks in, his eating, sitting and
resting will become difficult. In fact, he may
even lose his appetite. Together with
upsetting him, such behaviour is also
displeasing to Allaah.
If Allaah grants you the ability, assist him in
his work.
Share his problems and console him
whenever he has a problem so that the
burden may be raised from his
shoulders.When he is in debt, assist him to
settle it by earning some money without
violating the laws of the Shari'ah. If you have
somemoney of your own or some jewellery
that can be sold, give this
to him if he needs it so that he may
appreciate the fact that he is more valuable
to you than these things. Never remind him
about
such favours afterwards and do not even
make an effort to remember such things.
Never neglect your duties to him and always
do things that are in his best interests. Try to
do all your housework by yourself. Insha
Allaah, Allaah will soon show you easier
days. Spend as little as possible and try to
save as much as you can. If your savings are
meagre, never stop saving with the thought
that it is too little. Whatever you save will
come in handy during rainy days because
when days are dark friends are always few.
You will
then be saved from the humiliation of
stretching your hands out in front of others.
Your husband will then be amazed at your
prudence and farsightedness.
Sew your clothing by yourself, cook by
yourself and look after the children by
yourself. Reply gently when he asks a
question.
Be gentle when he is angry.Continue
fulfilling his rights even if he is unhappy
with the wayyou do things. This will please
Allaah swt
Do your share even though it may be
difficult.
Be content with whatever he is content with.
Spend his wealth with care and with a
conscience.
Whatever your husband brings home is in
your care. You may either apply your
inventiveness and capabilities to make your
home valuable or you could behave like a
slovenly and lazy wife by laying everything to
waste. Your poor husband will have no say in
the matter. Your home is what you make of
it. A skilled and capable wife is never
distressed. Everyone seeks refuge from a
disorderly and chaotic home.
Although difficulties will arise from time to
time, sometimes depriving you of food and
rest, you must make an effort to keep the
house in order because a man will not be
able to bear a chaotic home for long. When
he cannot find peace and rest at home, he
will be forced to find it elsewhere. He may
then begin to regard his home and his
children as calamities.
A good wife is always making an effort for
her home to be an example of Jannah.
Together with herself being at ease in her
home, she does her best to make every
occupant of the house comfortable as well.
Men appreciate women who are competent
and who are able to organise affairs well. It
is unfortunate that many beautiful women
lack these qualities and have thus become
worthless in the eyes of their husbands. It
should be borne in mind that most men
appreciate inner beauty more than outer
beauty. Irrespective of how unattractive or
imprudent a woman may be, she will
certainly win over her husband’s affections
if she is obedient.
It is not difficult for every wife to apply all
the above principles in her life, thereby
earning the devoted love of her husband.
However, it is tragic that most women fail to
understand this and wrongly think that they
will be able to force their husbands into
submission by behaving harshly and
temperamentally. It is really the women who
strive to please Allaah and who serve their
husbands with love and gentleness who
become the beloved of their husbands and
whose husbands would give their lives for
them. The husbands of such women will do
anything to please them and are proud of
them. Such couples are the
ones who live happily ever after.
Intelligent women avail themselves of such
behaviour while foolish women are deprived
of it. As an intelligent woman you should
always bear the following in mind:
Forsake your egotism and your
temperamental behaviour.
Do not allow pride and selfishness to
approach you.
Do not speak to a strange man in private.
Do not speak ill of your husband in front of
another.
Do not breathe a word against him.
Do not eat before him.
Do not discuss matters that do not appeal to
him.
You can even win over a temperamental
husband by diligently serving him. Be as he
wants you to be and do what pleases him.
Keep his secrets safe within your heart.
Beautify yourself as he prefers.
Stay away from the company of evil and ill-
mannered women.
By keeping all the above in mind and
practising accordingly, you will enjoy good
fortune and your husband will be yours
forever.
- A Gift For Muslim Bride By Shaykh
Muhammad Haneef Abdul Majeed |
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