hello NL fam
happy sunday

I am posting this on behalf of a good friend of mine. He is a nairalander but for privacy sake, I have to do this for him.


So there is this lady he have been engaged to for two years now and everything being equal, they were meant to get married this year. But everything went wrong when my friend discovered that his wife to be was pregnant for her ex. She was just a few weeks gone when he found out and he is completely at loss as per what to do.

The part that's hurts him most is that the both families are aware of their relationship and they approved of it.


pls right thinking people should just give an advice to this grieving young man because he is going to be viewing this thread.

Thank you and stay blessed

cc: farano mizmycoli tallesty1 christaddicted

There is nothing for him to do he should just leave the girl alone, except if he want to marry d girl with another man's child.

But how did this even happen in the first place......

Dump her ass. What other advice does he need?

Oh he loves her and feels distraught about the unfortunate development? Then D&C should be weighed in and see if it's what they can leap on. But then, how is he sure same ex won't father more of their kids? Dump her ass I say.

Seriously, I don't understand all these advice things thread. You can only look for advice or solution when there is problem not when no problem exists.

For God's sake,she is pregnant for her ex,so you expect us to advice you to continue with the relationship. Even if you have low self esteem that you think you can't get another lady, then go join the "FATHER" family and dedicate the remaining of you life to God.

Though not getting married is even a sin in my own religion oooo

This one na simple matter na..... The r/ship is over already!!

has it been long since they've been dating?
did she cheat on him? if yes, then she should go to hell.

DUMP HER SORRY ASS "!!!!"!"
IF HE STILL WANT TO GO AHEAD WITH IT HE IS (ON HIS OWN

Lols.

Game is over nah, the girl is a cheat and God don xpose her so tell the guy to thank his chi and move.

She had all it planned out otherwise she wouldn't do it skin - skin with her ex.

Tell the guy to move on with his life, the girl doesn't deserve him.

Maybe is his cross to raise another man's child.

Let him marry her call it Cross Of Love.

banjicom:
There is nothing for him to do he should just leave the girl alone, except if he want to marry d girl with another man's child.

But how did this even happen in the first place......

ENDORSED

that ur friend get chill o... if na me, I go just kill d girl, her ex and myself.. lobatan

na joke o.

buh seriously some girls are heartless o.. datz why I can't blame those innocent guys praying for virgins

@OP tell ur friend to just move on... that's d only solution

The OP wants advice.... Eeya, forgive her and father another's baby. We never can tell that baby may bcom the president of Nigeria one day.